Originally posted by: cscs
Hmm a very valid point raised here. For me both the families be it Dixit or Bose are not perfect and as such there is no concept of "perfect family" at least for me. Everyone has their ups and downs. Well i guess the focus was mainly on Dixits from the starting and Boses were used as fillers, so audience were inclined more towards Dixits (negatively). How are they solving the problem, what are they doing, how they discriminated, etc were put under scanner, which never happened with Boses.
I always believe no one is good or bad/ black or white, everyone have their shades. Dixits have and so do Boses, its just like Boses shades were never shown properly and as audience also we never focusedon it. Tell me how many of us have said that what Bijoy did was Saurabh was absolutely wrong. I am sure if Saurabh would have been a girl, people must have noticed it and it must have been termed as atyachar. Neha's past was shown in a way that we try to sympathise with her, but the same is not in case of with Saurav. We never knew why he didn't wanted to work or why Bijoy always taunts him. I suppose when saurav's wife will come, she may not like Bijoy's constant rant for her husband. I really dunno if it will be shown how will audience react. Will Bijoy be treated like Ishwari or the girl will be bashed.
I understand Bijoy to some extent. He is an overtly protective father but yes he crosses his line sometimes. And he desn't know how to handle situations. But there are fathers like Bijoy who demoralise their sons and there are mothers like Ishwari too (to some extent).So for me both families have their own flaws.
Coming to subject to victims, yes most of the times its Dixits troubling Boses, but in marriage track, i believe Dixits were understanding (i don't count GKB as Dixit). At Boses place Bijoy was blabberingtoo much about wedding and all, but ishwari kept quiet. Lehnga fiasco was also too much but still it was hushed. In these two matters i feel Boses were high Dixits. Baaki dinner issue, fish issue and all i don't wanna talk about. It was more of situational.
So, cvs have shown the other dynamics also, its just that as audience how much we vocal about it.