CVs Special Love

After reading Yash Patnaik interview ,it got me thinking .He has a point when he says they are not here to show an ideal hero and I do agree it's good to show the viewers reality of life .No marriage is perfect and couple have to work towards making a marriage work .Noisy relatives ,interfering in laws ,infertility,misunderstandings are reality of life .Happily ever after is a myth.

However I fail to understand why don't they apply the same logic to Sonakshi and Bose family .Why have they chosen only Dev and Dixit family to tell the truth .Why is Bose family are always the victims .Why do they try to garner sympathy for Sonakshi and Bose family in every track .I sometime wonder is it just me who feel this way .

Some examples are Sona hid her family problems and business venture from Dev .She never bothered to inform her husband but she was the one who created a scene when she was asked to stay out of Neha's problem .She doesn't practice what she preaches .Instead of making Dev ask right questions they turned the track in favour of Sonakshi .They made it look like it was Dev who offered money and his family badmouth her family so they will justify she was right in hiding the truth .

Another example is Bijoy's interference.He has crossed his limits at every stage and has been interefering in his daughter's married life just like how Ishwari does.One hand they show Ishwari doing it out of obsession but when Bijoy does it's justified in the name of love and concern .Now why did they have to make Dev slap Bijoy ? My guess is focus will be on Dev raising his hand on his FIL but everything Bijoy did will be easily forgotten and forgiven.Nice way to gain some sympathy for Bijoy .Second seperation blame is on Dev again .

All the characters in this show are FLAWED ... including asha ( i thought she is perfect until a couple of weeks ago)

Three questions
1. How did saurabh's business loss impact Dev or his family ?
2. How did the new business venture impact Dixits ?
3. If Ishwari is interfering daily in devakshi life then why cant Bijoy interfere in his daughter's life to ensure they are treating her fairly (I don't think Bijoy is perfect ... he had his flaws... but what i am sure of is ... he genuinely cares for his daughter)

how Dixit household problems impact sona ...
1. How did Neha's problem affect Sonakshi ? their HM got cancelled
2. Should Dev investing in saurabh's business (again he did not donate the money. he is an investor)... how did this impact dixits ? No impact still big fuss will be made about it tomorrow.

What ever anyone say... this marriage is going to fail not because of ishwari but because of Dev... as he is unable to face the reality... The slap is just to push sona over the edge ... she is already on the verge... if not slap ... something else would break her soon

you say Sonakshi is perfect ... i dont see it... when GKB and Ishu badmouth bose family, sona just keeps her mouth shut ... where as Elena speaks up and objects to that ... Who is perfect here ?

what ever sona is going through is her own doing... The point is she could have resisted and revolted in the beginning itself instead of agreeing to everything and being submissive doormat... but she chose not to... If she had done it... Dev is not vicky who would go against his mother... Sona would have been out of dixit house by now...

Sona being submissive only bought her some time ... but the end result is going to be the same...

As far as sona goes she's far from perfect. She seems to have lost her self respect sometime during this marriage. Also I feel she wants to go to any lengths to be a part of devs life including agreeing to ishs ridiculous conditions.

Bijoy is loud but he's only looking out for his daughter. Ishwari on the other hand wants to control every aspect of her sons life. He's practically a puppet for her. Bijoy is in your face & what you see is what you get.

Ish on the is manipulative under the guise of pretend innocence. The 2 cannot be compared.

What we ar seeing is that every character has flaws. It all depends on the degree & how it impacts others lives.

Sona has lost her self respect and has become a doormat. She is creating anger and annoyance in the audience, not sympathy. Despite having a lovely father like Bijoy, she couldn't do anything to save her and her family's honor.

whatever it may be, but to slap some body like that is totally unacceptable, not something i want to watch for entertainment.

I will be back..I too have something to say
Interesting points you mentioned ..

Originally posted by: dlavanya

All the characters in this show are FLAWED ... including asha ( i thought she is perfect until a couple of weeks ago)

Three questions
1. How did saurabh's business loss impact Dev or his family ?
2. How did the new business venture impact Dixits ?
3. If Ishwari is interfering daily in devakshi life then why cant Bijoy interfere in his daughter's life to ensure they are treating her fairly (I don't think Bijoy is perfect ... he had his flaws... but what i am sure of is ... he genuinely cares for his daughter)

how Dixit household problems impact sona ...
1. How did Neha's problem affect Sonakshi ? their HM got cancelled
2. Should Dev investing in saurabh's business (again he did not donate the money. he is an investor)... how did this impact dixits ? No impact still big fuss will be made about it tomorrow.

What ever anyone say... this marriage is going to fail not because of ishwari but because of Dev... as he is unable to face the reality... The slap is just to push sona over the edge ... she is already on the verge... if not slap ... something else would break her soon

you say Sonakshi is perfect ... i dont see it... when GKB and Ishu badmouth bose family, sona just keeps her mouth shut ... where as Elena speaks up and objects to that ... Who is perfect here ?

what ever sona is going through is her own doing... The point is she could have resisted and revolted in the beginning itself instead of agreeing to everything and being submissive doormat... but she chose not to... If she had done it... Dev is not vicky who would go against his mother... Sona would have been out of dixit house by now...

Sona being submissive only bought her some time ... but the end result is going to be the same...

It doesn't matter whether it effects the spouse or not .As a couple you share everything especially if you are starting new business .Period .Nothing justifies hiding your business venture from your spouse .Whether to stay married or not is Neha's decision and no one is allowed to poke their nose in couple's decisions.If it effecting her then she should talk to her husband about it not expect Neha to involve her in her personal problems.Its like Ishwari saying I am effected if my son doesn't have a kid so I'm have every right to interfere.

It does effect Dev but since it is a serial they haven't bothered to show it .After marriage financial decisions are taken together ...both their salaries are used to run the household and plan their future .If Sona is giving part of her salary to her family then it's becomes husband's responsibility to contribute more to make up for it so he should be informed about it .She is ware of his responsibilities towards his family and he deserves to know the same .Since Dev is rich he might not really care about how he is spending her salary but in reality after marriage people plan their finances together or atleast they will agree to put their share in joint account .You cannot say I am independent working girl and still expect your husband to spend his salary looking after their needs (Here I am not referring about his spending on his family ).

I never said Sona is perfect .She is flawed just like Dev .My question was why don't they focus on her flaws instead the focus is only on Dev's.

Originally posted by: preethik

As far as sona goes she's far from perfect. She seems to have lost her self respect sometime during this marriage. Also I feel she wants to go to any lengths to be a part of devs life including agreeing to ishs ridiculous conditions.

Bijoy is loud but he's only looking out for his daughter. Ishwari on the other hand wants to control every aspect of her sons life. He's practically a puppet for her. Bijoy is in your face & what you see is what you get.

Ish on the is manipulative under the guise of pretend innocence. The 2 cannot be compared.

What we ar seeing is that every character has flaws. It all depends on the degree & how it impacts others lives.

Sona is not perfect but she come across as someone who loves to preach but never follows her own teachings .the focus has always been on Dev and Dixit family's blunders .

Bijoy is definitely better than Ishwari that's not the point here .He is wrong at times and loud mouth and unnecessary taunting is not of much help to anyone .His biased attitude towards his son is another thing .Cvs have never focused on it but they have always covered his mistakes by showing other character in a bad light .

This is exactly my point ..they never allow us to focus on Bijoy's or Sona's mistakes because the next moment Ishwari does something terrible or Dev makes some mistakes so focus is shifted as their mistake look bigger compared to Bose family

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Sona has lost her self respect and has become a doormat. She is creating anger and annoyance in the audience, not sympathy. Despite having a lovely father like Bijoy, she couldn't do anything to save her and her family's honor.

Bijoy is not overstepping his limits. He reacts whenever Sona is tortured. His each word, predictions and verdict about the shitty Dixits are true. Every girl should have a protective father like Bijoy. Period.

Respect your opinion but I definitely don't agree with you about Bijoy