Can we blame jhanvi?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Are we really right in blaming jhanvi?
So many posts have been posted where ppl are criticising jhanvi n saying she wasn't strong/ or she's the reason, and the SOLE reason Maya is like this today.
1. We dont know what actually happened at maya's 9th bday...whether it was only extreme physical violence that maya suffered, or there was more to this story.
2. Sure jhanvi isn't strong, she can be easily manipulated by Ashwin. So, at the time there is a huge possibility that Ashwin manipulated her n made her believe that he's good, this again is just a possibility.
3. We saw how jhanvi got scared of maya when she threw her phone n went away. This is testimony to the fact that jhanvi is afraid of maya n her breakdowns.
I feel to make a strong opinion about jhanvi, we have to know what exactly had happened in maya's past, rather than believe blindly that she is responsible for maya's state. She may have not done anything abt it, but she's entirely responsible would be jumping to conclusions. Remember we're dealing with mental illness here. A few more episodes n things will be clear I guess.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: love_taher

Are we really right in blaming jhanvi?

So many posts have been posted where ppl are criticising jhanvi n saying she wasn't strong/ or she's the reason, and the SOLE reason Maya is like this today.
1. We dont know what actually happened at maya's 9th bday...whether it was only extreme physical violence that maya suffered, or there was more to this story.
2. Sure jhanvi isn't strong, she can be easily manipulated by Ashwin. So, at the time there is a huge possibility that Ashwin manipulated her n made her believe that he's good, this again is just a possibility.
3. We saw how jhanvi got scared of maya when she threw her phone n went away. This is testimony to the fact that jhanvi is afraid of maya n her breakdowns.
I feel to make a strong opinion about jhanvi, we have to know what exactly had happened in maya's past, rather than believe blindly that she is responsible for maya's state. She may have not done anything abt it, but she's entirely responsible would be jumping to conclusions. Remember we're dealing with mental illness here. A few more episodes n things will be clear I guess.


May not be directly
but her silence and her lack of courage to stand up to her husband aggravated their situation to 2 both


No one is saying that it is easy to face a violent man
But when we give life to a child, we have responsibilities to protect this and apparently jhanvi could not fulfill his responsibilities

Of what we are shown
Apparently,
She did not support Mayan
When she needed it more


It's for that ,I liked the reaction of mother of saanjh
when she supported her daughter
Yes she is completely wrong and crazy to push saanj in the arms of arjun
But at least she there when her daughter most needs her support

But as you said wait and see


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: love_taher

Are we really right in blaming jhanvi?

So many posts have been posted where ppl are criticising jhanvi n saying she wasn't strong/ or she's the reason, and the SOLE reason Maya is like this today.
1. We dont know what actually happened at maya's 9th bday...whether it was only extreme physical violence that maya suffered, or there was more to this story.
2. Sure jhanvi isn't strong, she can be easily manipulated by Ashwin. So, at the time there is a huge possibility that Ashwin manipulated her n made her believe that he's good, this again is just a possibility.
3. We saw how jhanvi got scared of maya when she threw her phone n went away. This is testimony to the fact that jhanvi is afraid of maya n her breakdowns.
I feel to make a strong opinion about jhanvi, we have to know what exactly had happened in maya's past, rather than believe blindly that she is responsible for maya's state. She may have not done anything abt it, but she's entirely responsible would be jumping to conclusions. Remember we're dealing with mental illness here. A few more episodes n things will be clear I guess.

@bold yaa unless they reveal the entire thing happened on maya's bday or should i say childhood we cant really put the entire blame on jhanvi!!
But the thing abt jhanvi is she gets easily manipulated by her husband she believes him too much which makes her weak!!isliye i feel ppl tell that she is also responsible for maya's condition but not wholly responsible
hope i made sense😕
btw ur posts r awesome 😳
keep making more😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anapneo3003

@bold yaa unless they reveal the entire thing happened on maya's bday or should i say childhood we cant really put the entire blame on jhanvi!!
But the thing abt jhanvi is she gets easily manipulated by her husband she believes him too much which makes her weak!!isliye i feel ppl tell that she is also responsible for maya's condition but not wholly responsible
hope i made sense😕
btw ur posts r awesome 😳
keep making more😊


Hey thank u so much! :) Yes u did make sense. Jhanvi gets easily manipulated by Ashwin, and that is a contributing factor to Maya's current state, but that cannot be taken as the sole reason for Maya's condition. At least judging by what all is shown, this is what can be deduced. To make a strong opinion, we have to watch more.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: love_taher


Hey thank u so much! :) Yes u did make sense. Jhanvi gets easily manipulated by Ashwin, and that is a contributing factor to Maya's current state, but that cannot be taken as the sole reason for Maya's condition. At least judging by what all is shown, this is what can be deduced. To make a strong opinion, we have to watch more.

@Bold😳
Exactly!!
And now in further episodes its goin to be Maya vs Saanjh wonder how Saanjh is gonna face Maya😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@Bold😳

Exactly!!
And now in further episodes its goin to be Maya vs Saanjh wonder how Saanjh is gonna face Maya😳


I think saanjh is trying to figure out maya, n her feelings for arjun. This was evident from yesterday's precap. She will, n I hope she does reach the root cause of maya's behaviour. Saanjh can't be just cute n bubbly n naive. There has to be more depth to her character. I hope the makers don't disappoint me in this regard.
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Originally posted by: love_taher


I think saanjh is trying to figure out maya, n her feelings for arjun. This was evident from yesterday's precap. She will, n I hope she does reach the root cause of maya's behaviour. Saanjh can't be just cute n bubbly n naive. There has to be more depth to her character. I hope the makers don't disappoint me in this regard.

I was thinking abt the same!!
From wat Arjun tells abt Saanjh i guess there's more to her character as well!!
WE have saw only her bubbly,naive side..!
I hope the makers dont disappoint as u say

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: love_taher

Are we really right in blaming jhanvi?

So many posts have been posted where ppl are criticising jhanvi n saying she wasn't strong/ or she's the reason, and the SOLE reason Maya is like this today.
1. We dont know what actually happened at maya's 9th bday...whether it was only extreme physical violence that maya suffered, or there was more to this story.
2. Sure jhanvi isn't strong, she can be easily manipulated by Ashwin. So, at the time there is a huge possibility that Ashwin manipulated her n made her believe that he's good, this again is just a possibility.
3. We saw how jhanvi got scared of maya when she threw her phone n went away. This is testimony to the fact that jhanvi is afraid of maya n her breakdowns.
I feel to make a strong opinion about jhanvi, we have to know what exactly had happened in maya's past, rather than believe blindly that she is responsible for maya's state. She may have not done anything abt it, but she's entirely responsible would be jumping to conclusions. Remember we're dealing with mental illness here. A few more episodes n things will be clear I guess.

Hello siddhi..first of all a great post👏
I think you have showed us..y jhanvi isn't the SOLE person to be blamed for mayas past..
You are right..
We need more episodes to see what exactly has happened in mayas 9th birthday..
You are right jhanvi's one fault is that ..she gets manipulated so easily..😕
In one of kavitas interview..kavita had said that..jhanvi just gets manipulated very quickly is scared of her hubby and daughter...
But you know..i am feeling bad for saanjh..😭
She is kind hearted girl..
But she will be the one to face mayas wrath..
But you know one thing..
I actually love both the women..arjun is like kabab mein haddi . .lol..
Cuz..these women are so different from typical saas bahu serial . ..most of Abla naari..lol..
But again a great post to point out jhanvi' s POV👏

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: love_taher


I think saanjh is trying to figure out maya, n her feelings for arjun. This was evident from yesterday's precap. She will, n I hope she does reach the root cause of maya's behaviour. Saanjh can't be just cute n bubbly n naive. There has to be more depth to her character. I hope the makers don't disappoint me in this regard.

In one of earlier post..
I had said..saanjh won't be strong just like that..
She needs something..
And Maya would be that SOMETHING..
Maya is gonna make her stronger...
I just hope..we will see saanjh the stronger..person..
Not so naive .
If cvs doesn't do that..
Then I will be disappoint..
We need women power..
Not a hero saving a day..rite???
Edited by ArYa-JenWin20 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@sharmin thanks :) I apologise if any of my previous posts hurt u guys...glad it's all good now :)

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