Would you like to marry a obsessive lover like Maya? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Indiyan

First of all...Hello to everyone...

Started watching this show just recently. Haven't watched much of Indian TV before, never had a great opinion and never liked those family oriented, sobbing, plotting saas-bahu dramas. Recently joined the TV bandwagon with a friend's recommendation of another show and got glued to the small screen. Catching up on all the beautiful stuff I missed all these years. I created an account
just to answer this question.

I know I am feeble minority saying this, but Yes, I'd marry someone like Maya. I for one, love extremes in people. And I love pain and baggage. I love drama. I love highly emotional people. I always have. And I don't mean just characters in novels, TV, or movies. I mean in real life. I do not like the normal, average people, they do not excite me sorry.

In my opinion, we are all normal, average, acceptable to everyone around us, throughout the day, everyday. If there is one person, who we can share our innermost self, pain, grief, baggage, unconditional love, passion, pagalpan, it should be our spouse. Mediocrity and balance is for the society. With our wife/husband, pagalpan, junoon honi chahiye. So if someone would love me so much that nothing else mattered to them, if someone would love me to death, I would do the 'till death do us part' with him/her. I would love to be the only one in the world for them, only one they'd share their pain, their pure raw emotions, their past, their dreams, their fears, their passion and their love. I'd love to be that 'only one' for them, forever. Quoting ADHM, 'Pyaar Junoon hai, Dosti Sukoon hai'.

Well, that is me. I have seen many good couples guys, trust me after a little time, there is just aadat, society, dependency, families, home loans, and most importantly kids that are keeping them together. They are just used to things being where they are and they feel asphyxiation, but it is too much turbulence to change anything, so they fight, vent out, patch up and move on. IMO, people should do that with their extended families, their kids, society, office, workplace and that's it. Not with your life partner, your passion(music, dance, gaming, any passion) and your dreams. 'These are the three things which are only mine, completely 100% only mine. You shouldn't mask or shy away from yourself or hold yourself up in these areas of your life. So I don't think maya is wrong at all and I would happily marry a person like maya and do the 'Give everything you have and take everything they offer' with him/her.

Thanks for taking time to read my thoughts. Woah! that was long! Sorry guys...

#PEACE