Originally posted by: cougarTown
knowing by what i read since i obviously don't know them personally..it is not about things getting tough but their nature clashing..he is not understanding that marriage cannot be forced or pressurized..it is for both to decide not just him..which gives a hint that he wants to have the upper hand in the relation which can be serious trouble not just in marriage but several other things..
things getting tough like losing your job..or financial difficulty or coping through an illness..i would never advise anyone to break up then but here it is not the circumstances but the polar opposite nature of the two involved
strictly my take :)
I think so too.
if you have so much disagreement, at a stage when things have just begun, it will only go on and become worse.
long partnership together, having children, raising family, involving greater family, they have a lot of adjustment issues, a lot of challenges. If people are not willing to concede and if one of the partners is allegedly controlling other, it makes the whole situation suffocating.
so if they are constanly bickering, better to part ways than becoming more bitter.
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