Originally posted by: deepsel
Aww... No doubt you must be an awesome teacher sweetie 🤗your students are indeed lucky to have a professor/lecturer like you who values life-based on love and care and respect than any ego or pessimism. Hats of to you dear for your practical and emotional stability. Everyday you leave me in awe by your posts..You know what, your last post was so emotional for me that I took a snapshot of it and showed it to my husband who doesn't know anything about KRPKAB or IF as a token of appreciation for my post and we both discussed how can an unmarried independent modern girl like you can have such a novel and caring thoughts..We may not know your face but decided our boys should have the same kind of sensitivity like yours..am not sugar coating or pleasing, there are some people we come across who touch our soul..you are one such girl😳
Actually that's my gripe too dear..there are some very good writers in the group who bring out different perspectives, of course in much stronger way but it did used to make sense but am noticing nowadays the posts are laced with loaded sarcasm and meanness to other members even in responses almost to the extent of bullying which I find totally rude and immature with my way or highway attitude. We are in the public forum and there's a need to maintain a basic decorum or at least a human courtesy for fellow viewers and tone down..but no I guess it has increased to an extent that even we are entering the zone of mud slugging openly..its a very very unhealthy way to watch a show..very soon I know this will cross show barrier and will become personal as I saw from my previous IF experience.. I really don't understand the need to make such topics at such pace almost immediately especially when you are so much pissed off..why can't we wait and read the viewers pulse and then share your different opposing perspective in a polite way..this forum has always accepted different view when put across in a balanced way..very saddening to see few members can make the entire forum deserted for their own pleasure.
The only solution to this might be to open a "frustrating thread" and make it sticky so everyone who is pissed off at the episode can share their views in a single place and leave the forum to other discussions instead of making multiple bashing posts. That way everyone can have their fun😆
Uff looked like I ranted a lot today..you have that effect on me bud😲 Let me watch some cute VMs and sleep to get rid of this unnecessary topic..we have much more important stuff in real life to deal with😆 You have a great day dear 🤗 (may I know ur name?)
First of all, apologies for being late. I had an exam yesterday, and I read your reply through my phone, and replying to it meant all dirtying up the font and colour here in your reply. So I decided to reply only when I can log in from my laptop. And so I am finally here.😃As to you showing my thoughts to your husband and your thoughts thereafter, Di, all I can say is, it left me speechless actually. I am a loquacious person usually, and fewer are the times that can make my mouth zipped. This was one of those rarer times.
Maturity is an overhyped term. I always craved for it because all I saw was people asking me to grow up soon since I am not a kid anymore. But God chooses the correct time to fill a person with equal proportions of sensibility that is needed, and mine came as a post dated delivery...😆
All said and done, it is a huge thing for me to be touching someone's soul, and many thank yous for this.😃
As to the rants, well it is okay to make an outlet to our gripe, at least with the people we suppose we can rant with. I had a great itch to answer those posts yesterday itself when I read them, but decided that no matter how much I am going to enjoy jumping and dancing in the mud filled pitfall, at the end of the day it is me who is going to go back home with stained clothes, and will have to wash their dirt away from me. So I walked away from those places and decided to play a game in a garden nearby that will give me solace and comfort both.😃
And it's just rubbing off from each other. You are prompting me to see in a positive light and I am giving you an outlet for the frustrations...😆
I hope you had a fine mood after u watched the vms...😉😃
And yeah! My name is Aazeen Khan. That's what my username says.😃
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