A Rough patch - 18th Oct [NOTE on pg10 for 19th OCT ep) - Page 7

Originally posted by: deepsel

Would like to pitch in some thoughts I don't know suddenly the forum has become all about feminism and gender equality there are certain norms in which our society works and don't intend to challenge it but certain positive changes are always welcomed,Dev was unreasonable yesterday and Sona was accommodating that doesn't make her a doormat she just values her relationship more than her ego.And again on Sona asking permission to work was made a big deal by the some members it has nothing to do with the gender she is new in the house she justs want to play it safe and it was not as if she was quitting the job.The fight between Devakshi was not about gender but about ego where decided to put it aside and one decided to hold it 😊

deepa🤗fantastic post dear...I soo look forward to ur posts..soo much of positivity ..like a bright sunshine amidst the dark clouds ..oops i meant the negative posts😆...

Hi Deepa..a good post again. I had a terrible headache but couldn't have slept without reading your analysis. So read i. :) but didnt reply.

Originally posted by: deepsel

Thank you😊 I feel myself bad now for agreeing dev was rude today in every response though he is a character only 😆 Donno how people bash mercilessly day after day ! Well lets leave him today and concentrate on good things😆

No matter how dark the story goes , Sharica and Supriyaji's acting can make us glued to the screen. Some wonderful actors they are👏 Lets see how Dev make up for this😉

Yes my name is Deepa..yours if I may know?😳

Originally posted by: deepsel

Foiled plan:

As expected Sona's candle light dinner was foiled by Ishwari and Sona who is yet to get deep-rooted in the new family , had to let go her plans and heed to Ishwari's order. Ishwari was very convincing stating all the right facts about how Sona is tired after fasting (ye lo so fasting is still on😆) , Sona needed sleep after a glass of milk and she will feed Dev as its her routine...above all even more convincing when Ishwari said " Arey you go and sleep, anyway Dev will come to your room only naa"..I was like thank god, though she spoiled their dinner she is not crazy enough to make him sleep in her room😆...BUT but but that satisfied look on Ishwari's face after Sona goes up? !!😲

At that time, I thought baapre is she not fasting, how can she just lie like that Dev. Gor kalyug hai

Ego at its best :

Dev seriously disappointed me today for the first time in this series.

Not when he was all smiles thinking Sona is waiting for him on seeing the light inside house..

I liked the smile Dev had, thinking Sona is waiting.

Not when he was disappointed seeing his Maa waiting for him who spoke only half truth about Sona..

Even being angry, he expected Sona to wait for him for dinner.

BUT when he cut Sona's call instead of picking up that phone especially when he thought she was sleeping happily!! Now above all reasons can be validated as a typical husband's ego we see in daily life but when the phone rings and you see your lover turned wife name flashes , you are bound to smile knowing she indeed still waiting for you and you need to be by her side even if it is to fight..especially when Dev knows he was being irrational with Sona for Vicky's job matter !!

And it worsened when you just cut her off bluntly even after she comes running to you...and you send her back crying?! Even after he felt bad for sending her away he didn't make an attempt to even check on her?! Not done Dev..this is definitely not the Dev I fell in love with..That Dev may be Aubhodro but not insensitive !! He was the guy who came running to his nutritionist help for just accidentally texting "H" and this Dev sleeps off in couch not ready to even climb those stairs ...even secretly?

I was like how dare you Mr Dixit, all day you waited for her to call & now you are just disconnecting her calls. Not done Mr Abodhro, is this a way how you treat you newly wedded wife.

He didn't even looked at her so he didn't noticed her tears. When he realised he did wrong, he actually felt bad and I thought he would just run after her but what to do, he is Mr RUDE. Itna bhi kya gussa Dev babu ki aap sofa p sooh gaye😲

There can be umpteen number of reasons for keeping the past buried inside you but there is not one valid reason to send your wife crying especially when there is no fault of her and even you know about it...but you let your ego get the best of it !! You just did a grave mistake dude, trust me this is going to bite your back in later stages of marriage 😈😆

I felt bad for Sona, she did tried to make the first move but alas Dev is having mood swings these days. 😆 Looking forward to how Dev will say sorry for all he did & behave.

The dawn of residual mess:

As they say God's most wonderful creation is woman, she was given the nature of forgiveness and tolerance by nature to embrace others.. Every woman is brought to this world by this quality , its just our situations and circumstances changes the level of these natures within each of us. No wonder God has instilled the most powerful power of bringing a new life form with Women !!

Women have always been stronger than men.

Sona like every lovable wife tries to move forward and checks her husband first thing in the morning forgiving all the pain he caused her last night and admires the man she deeply loved..( Ok Dev you are looking yummy ..arrghhh but am still mad at you😆)

How I wish Sona would have sat on the same sofa where Dev was sleeping & caresses his hair. Aww this would have been so cute ☺️ Dev how can you look so cute while sleeping.

So Dev gets ready and leaves to office still mad (really Dev???) only to be interrupted by Sona again and again for lunch box and hanky..Whatever my thought process may be , but the angst and pain both Dev and Sona expressed through their eyes is beyond excellence 👏 One cannot help but give both these cutiepies warm hugs..

This was a nice scene when Sona ask Dev to have breakfast. Aarrg Dev stop being rude. How can he just leave without eating what his lovely wife made for the first time and he didn't even taste the food in office.😡

Sharica are really fantabulous in expressing emotional scenes !!

They nailed it as always. 👏

I didn't care much about the dinning scene because it was all fillers with each one bringing down another ..be it GKB vs Sona, Vicky vs Mamaji, Neha vs family..I couldn't smile today.

Ishwari standing up for Sona against GKB looked like more of her victory of feeding her son. Sorry that manipulative look in the first scene spoiled Ishwari too for me today..

Why should Sona serve BF while evryone else is just sitting leisurely. Ishwari tried to go & help but GKB stopped her. Someone please tell her to stop putting her nose everywhere. Waiting for the day when someone will cut her nose and hand it to her.

Minutes ago Ishu tried to help Sona but when Sona went to talk to Dev, she suddenly needed some hot puris. Difficult to understand her so lets no focus on her.

Closed locker way to opening hearts?:

So Dev sends someone from office to collect his passport which is left in the same locker where Sona's medical report is kept (Remember that bed side table ?😉😆)

After a while Dev realizes the blunder and hurries home in FF mode and in parallel Sona climbing the stairs and tries to open the locker in extra slow mode😆..and the screen freezes with her medical report on hand !!

Ok he ran because he didn't want her to see the reports as he wanted her to be happy in present instead of worrying for the future.

My take: Dev thought if Sona sees the reports then 0% chance for Suhaag raat which is pending. Bechara Dev 😆

I think for the first time, I saw an extra slow camera angles for building suspense and that scene was infact well shot though we have seen this in many dramas😳

The scnes was indeed well shot. Good job Cvs 👏

Precap:

Sona about to see the file only to be surprised to see Dev hurrying towards her.

Sona: Chori pakdi gayi

Dev: 😲😲

Me: We all know what precap shows us...hah hah can't trick me..Sona didn't see the file 😆

ignore precap, we know Sona won't see the reports

I guess this will bring Dev to his knees and the patch up will happen tomorrow

Lets hope so

P.S:

*This Ishwari Mansion is good for nothing..no extra room for Dev to sleep and no extra locker to keep important things like passport and secret files. 🤔

Remember even Sona slept on sofa. All guest room have been given to mamaji & Vicky

* Thank God Sona is out of those godowns named sarees😆

Thank you Cvs for changing Sona wardrobe. She was looking gorgeous.

A episode which can avoided easily as no story movement except for the infertility file suspense in end but can be watched solely for Devakshi's mind-blowing performances !!

Cheers 🤗

Nice post...Deepa

Originally posted by: deepsel

😆 IKR...Only I know how many times my husband had to kneel down for his past actions even after all these years🤣...these actions are like loans, keep adding with interests as years go😆

Originally posted by: romanticgurl070

At launch of the show, Supriya ji did mention this show is going to show the journey of a mother-son and the entry of another lady in the son's life. The show is realistic and makers are trying their best to show such sensitive issues everyone faces. They are indeed doing a great job 👏. They can't just show romantic scenes in every episode as this would be so unreal.

Now I am waiting to see how Devakshi will get the hint of Ishwari insecurity and how they gonna handle this. Looking forward to how the story will unfold further.

Originally posted by: deepsel

hmm you have a point here😆 I do understand he wanted to feel special and circumstances did make look Sona bad..but she called finally, came running to him, tried talking, left crying, gave lunch box and again tried talking..he saw that pain in her eyes..equally in his too..yet he didn't eat her handmade food..hamara Dev itna insensitive kab bangaya re anyway passport will do the trick tomorrow and am sure we will be going gaga again😆

Hi Deepa! I have always read your posts and liked them for the positivity and different outlook from the popular opinion. I decided to watch yesterday's episode without any expectation and I liked it. The previous episode's fight lacked the intensity and yearning I was expecting so yesterday's made up for it. I however did not understand what Dev was so upset about though? I just watch Ishwari and reserve judgment or opinion because understanding her is beyond me and the PDA creeps me out. I probably am the minority here rooting for Sona to have found and read the reports. I seriously think she needs to know about it now that the wedding is over and they are bound by marriage. But I guess that is drama for another day, for now it is all about HM and SR.

All the sarcasm and name calling, definitely makes for an unpleasant read and totally spoils the forum experience. Although I agree with the TMs in these posts, all issues are now being viewed purely on the basis of gender. DIGNITY and SELF RESPECT is actually HUMAN RIGHT not just a woman's right. The makers of this show have actually tried to show gender equality in the wedding sequence very well with Bijoy's dialogues. But yes ONLY the woman has to leave her house and stay with the in-laws after marriage and that is a gender bias which exists which the makers are NOT challenging in this show. So the biases resulting from this are bound to be present, ergo the woman has to make the bulk of the adjustments initially and that is exactly what they are portraying.

The husband and wife fights, well they are just that. Dev behaves like a petulant, stubborn child most of the times and walks away not because he is a MAN, because he is Dev and that is how he behaves. Just because Sonakshi is being the understanding one and making up with him doesn't mean she is a doormat. Marriage is about companionship, friendship, trust, respect, love and compromise; equally among both the partners. but the equality cannot be absolute for everything; you give some- you get some, you win some- you lose some. There will always be conflicting views on this because of people's personal experiences and predispositions, these views should not be judged.