A Rough patch - 18th Oct [NOTE on pg10 for 19th OCT ep) - Page 6

Originally posted by: Silambu

Hi Deepsel...what a pleasure to see your post as always.! 🤗

The episode was ok ok for me.

Was it really a pleasure to read Silambu ?😳 tell me honesty 😆 btw call me Deepa..my sticking husband name is making me sound weird🤣

To be frank i was tad bit disappointed with both Dev and Sona. Both are equally stubborn waiting for the other to make the first move...sometimes its ok to go first and say sorry...no need to wait for the other.

Dev getting disappointed at Sona going off to bed without waiting for him was quite sad. Then later when the woman of his thoughts called, he choose to ignore her coz he got more angrier with the fact that she could not be bothered to wait for him. Sulking big time...at least appreciate she finally called right..but no and like a small little boy slept on the couch...

And Sona - Why am I angry with her...well...she could have called him much earlier than at the last moment , only later realizing he's still not back...

Well easier than done coz in reality I have done exactly the same...see who calls first to apologise.😆 Let the fella suffer a bit...but sometimes...when they dont do what you wanted, you feel like kicking their ass...and your self...a little adjustment, a compromise.

Exactly 😆 during early stages of marriage I used to come down ...now no way 🤣 Power of patience is you can become headstrong later on😆

Devakshi are like little kids..if they carry on this for one more day even they will forget for what they started the fight for😆.. Only thing a newly wed can have problem from every member of a family but not with husband/wife so soon atleast not until both are satisfied entirely (u know what I mean😉 )..so Devakshi fights are made for solely delaying the inevitable 😆

Anyway I learnt something...from my personal experiences and I saw this quote on twitter today...its beautiful and thought of sharing it here...Life would be beautiful ...

" Never take each other for granted.

Remember to still go on dates.

Try something new together.

Say " I love you:"

Remember why you fell in love.

Respect each other.

Be Spontaneuos.

Celebrate the special days.

End an argument as soon as possible.

Be willing to compromise

Grow old together"

Hey i have read this quote somewhere but long back..dont remember where 🤔 but its apt for any couple naa😉

Nice post dear...nowadays I dont expect too much from Devakshi.

Its like seeing the first night turning to fight nights and lately into fright nights with Iswari following them like a shadow😆

Fright nights 🤣 halloween is nearing ..dont scare me😆

Hopefully Devakshi really spend time together,no no just holding hands but doing the ultimate act to ease their frustration which is now turning small matters to big issues. They need to quench their thirst for that before moving on to bigger things...

yes yes yes 😆

I hope today, Dev realizes that by sulking away in the office is not going to solve the problem and hug Sona . Fella loves her so much...and rush like mad from office to home so that she wont see the report.

End the arguments guys!

Exactly..just embrace your wife whole heartedly , she will forgive all the pain you caused even unknowingly and its vice versa too😳 "kattipudi vaithiyam" is the best remedy in all marriages 😉

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Heya Deeps... 🤗

I knew it.. You will come up with the best of the worst episodes too..👏

I can confidently come into your post to get a glimpse of the episode to read the happening from a neutral POV.. Without filling in extremes of the emotions...👏

I have never had hopes from any characters except for Sona and Ishwari.. And learnt to, hold back my hopes from Ishu.. Ishu will come around in her own sweet time and holding hopes on her will only prove disappointments episode after episode😆 So she'll come around whenever she's ready.. And now Sona, the hopes are diminishing day by day.. This girl will end up winning the best bahu award from Ishu and that will be the end of the show, I think.. And I won't want to see that award on my girl losing whatever she is and becoming someone else..

Never had any hopes for Dev, so the more he goes down the drain or climb up the ladder - least bothered for now.. He is another Radharani for me who can be ignored easily😆 So will not write anything about him...

Do you see any signs of good days coming for my girl?🥱

Originally posted by: siddhi.d123

Amazing posts we need more people like you in the forum 😃 Dev was a big time jerk yesterday were only his ego was sleeping.You should not make your wife wait and then make her cry 😡 I hope he makes it up for her 😆 not with a sorry but with actions 😳 Dev loves Sona like crazy it's time he owns upto it 😊 Sona will put up with all the shit just with a little care and love by her aubhodro husband 😃.Dev you almost died without her and got her back easily it's time to be worthy of it 😊 Is it me or Ishwari is getting creppy day by day I really fear how they are going to curb her insecurities or change her I hope it doesn't happen in one episode and serial ends 😕 .Sona you are doing good girl, if the Dixits can ever understand your kindness the have got a gem I hope they treasure it 😃

Originally posted by: Soumya23

Brilliant analysis Deepsel...

Agree with most of your points...except for that I like this Dev also...bcoz he is not angry with her for the hands part he is angry bcoz he thought she was least bothered...

Sona was gem as usual,she tried her best to be gud to him though he was behaving like a moron...

They say if you love a person...you hate them and love them at the same time when they r wrong,but something in you goes missing until you have them missing...This verse suited them so well...

Originally posted by: deepsel

Hiya Partner 🤗

Did you see the episode? 😲 well I won't say worst but will say definitely not the best, it was OK for me solely for Sharica's performance ! Thank you for your confidence in me..humbled😳

I still have hopes with all of them partner , can you believe me if I say even with Vicky?😆 this is a journey of perfecting imperfect people and looks like Sona is the centerpoint for everyone's redemption. I will gladly wait and watch because this serial has still managed me to check the online links as soon as episode airs😆 As long as I have that impatience am sure I will enjoy the tracks😉

I see a very bright sunshine after a dark shady and intermittent thunderstorms in your girl's weather..so dont worry she will come out shining 😉

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Beautiful post Deepa. As usual you are the positivity ka dukhaan yaar in this forum.🤗

Thank you Latha 🤗 so glad to see your post before I shut down😆

I really liked last 2 episodes, may be because of its balance or it felt very much relatable. I can understand your gussa on Dev but i have a diff pov here. Post marriage when ever they had arguments, irrespective of whose fault, he is the one who took the first move till now to make peace. I felt for once he want to see that from sona's side. Its no more about vikky or their disagreement, he felt that she is not affected by their arguments and distance. If we see their relationship till now, he is the more vocal one when it comes to expressing what she means to him. Even though Sona loves Dev equally, We hardly saw her expressing it to HIM till now. He was avoiding her because he knows that the moment she holds his hand and says "Dev" he will forget about everything.😆

hmm you have a point here😆 I do understand he wanted to feel special and circumstances did make look Sona bad..but she called finally, came running to him, tried talking, left crying, gave lunch box and again tried talking..he saw that pain in her eyes..equally in his too..yet he didn't eat her handmade food..hamara Dev itna insensitive kab bangaya re anyway passport will do the trick tomorrow and am sure we will be going gaga again😆

When it comes to couple fights, Some times we say sorry even though its not our fault, thats because we kept our relation above to our ego and some times we behave unreasonable even though its our fault, thats because some times we feel enough is enough and let them take the first step. Its nothing to do with gender or Man Vs Woman. Its typical human mentality.

Oh absolutely..huh am so much tired of this gender talks now I just want to run away even seeing the word😆

Coming to the negative posts, better ignore those because i am only feeling like laughing when ever i read those. They really dont need any reason to bash these two kids, even though there is no reason they are too good in creating their own. I feel the most misused words in this forum are feminism and being a woman. Its really amazing to see how they can find negativity in each and everything and how they make every situation about Man Vs Woman. For me, Dev & Sona are 2 imperfect individuals just like YOU and ME. If we are allowed to make mistakes then why not them. 😊

Well said !!👏 Just like my friend says, fake feminism have overridden the real meaning of feminism and all those who really fights for it are made a laughing stock.

Originally posted by: Push-pull

No dear... If I had seen the episode I wouldn't been able to stop myself from posting a separate thread... 😉😆 But I'm liking this being part of the written updates and straying around the forum for other threads to pitch in as an uninvited guest... Just like Sona... 😆