A Rough patch - 18th Oct [NOTE on pg10 for 19th OCT ep)

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LiveLife321

@LiveLife321

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Posted: 8 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: Krpkab_meg
Marriage is about companionship, friendship, trust, respect, love and compromise; equally among both the partners. but the equality cannot be absolute for everything; you give some- you get some, you win some- you lose some.

Wow. 👏 You said everything so wonderfully in one sentence yaar.😊

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sjain

@sjain

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Posted: 8 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: deepsel

sjain 🤗 first of all many thanks for your detailed comment in my last post and unfortunately todays episode started before I could comment there😆..am just trying to squeeze so many things in my limited time in IF dear so not getting enough time to respond to all..sorry about that😳

Well I can understand Dev's zidd, stubborness or ego dear, my only gripe is what if Sona got hurt in the bathroom and calling him, what if she is in some trouble? there are so many things that could have gone wrong..how much ever mad you are, won't you just pick the phone and after knowing she is ok..talk, scream or cut the phone😆 Unlike arranged marriages where men care a dime, here Sona is Dev's responsibility and today he made her cry after all that promises...thats the main reason I felt bad today..

Sofa scene was really cute☺️ this guy is some serious eye candy while sleeping😆

Yes Sona looked much better in anarkali..just wished either her hands are shorter or longer because i thought it was a blouse .. only in full view I came to know its anarkali😆

Well look like you are not the only one who liked the episode..😳 so maybe am the odd one out here😉😆

Thank you for taking your time everyday and leaving your reponses honey 🤗

Its absolutely okay I understand you get limited time here at IF :) perfectly fine it is

yes I mentioned in my reply above that only complsint major one I had with Dev was in his stubbornness he didn't inform her which he shud have coz so I wont support that point , she was sick worried and in your anger he forgot that ..and rest aboit promises..they broke night rule they have broken promises in past and besides that his anger was superfitial it wasnt some major fight where he did something unforgivable ..it was kiddish act..and I suppose Sona too realized it..he wasn't inconsiderate like as soon as report thing came up he forgot last 24 hours like in a fraction of second coz he knew what will b the consequences of it..he cant see let that happen but these lil tits bits of tiffs we sometimes hurt each other patch up nd forget them sooner then we can think ..I dont know If I am able to explsin what I am feeling , I am not good with words :(

relationships needs a lot of patience , give up karna , to let go :) thats what I have learnt

jitna dogey us se zyada hi milega..thats What I have seen around in my life family :)

oh ling sleeves are in fashion nd she has such sleek arms .. also she is tall lean anarkali looked too too pretty on her :) just that i would have draped duptta in different way like gathered it on her shoulder instead of spreading it on her arm lol

yeah Imwas surprised many liked the rpisode so yayy I am not odd one out ..lol

no no I need to bring out everything I feel while watch episode and Yheor are few places where I can have healthy discussion.. I need yours saumie's post on daily basis lol

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Deepa

@deepsel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#73

The day when I thought I won't be replying much due to the nature of my post, looks like the day I got more comments...Iss pyaar ko kya naam doon?! 😆 Thank you so much to each one of you who have taken this post the right way and left your sweet comments and had a healthy discussion in my absence..

Very sorry every day I try to reply all individually but end up missing some due to time constraints😳.. I have some real life business to take care, so bare with short replies for now, will see you all after today's episode😆

@ siddhi.d123: Exactly dear..this is just a simple story of a journey of two different people brought up in two different environment and how they overcome their hurdles. ..too much over analysis ...doormats?gender equality? huh..beats me

@ stuti123 : Thanks for your wonderful reply dear and no you are not in minority ..look around ..many loved the ep yest😆 I will continue to post as long my real life and my sane mind permits..ok 😳😆

@ Maya_Dutt : Thanks dear..today am having a bad headache after continuous sleepless nights😆 hope todays ep will rectify that..lets hope for the best😛

@ romanticgurl070 : Thank you so much for such an entertaining reply😆 I figured why it was not related to my post😳 but like you said, way too importance have been given to unwanted stuffs, lets focus on nicer things and enjoy the show😃

@srilotus : Thanks 😆

@ allizwell : 🤣 you cracked me up with just a single line 😆 may you double your interest rates too and enjoy the life 😉

@ thedramaqueen : Read the post dear..sorry couldn't reply there..well said..The time has come for some changes !!👏

@ LiveLife321 : Point noted boss 😎 They are Mad(e) for each other 😆!!

@ Krpkab_meg : I absolutely love when silent members break their silence and voice out their opinions ..Thank you so much 🤗 That was such an enlightning post 👏 Yes they are indeed about human rights and not women rights...and yes a relationship gets stronger only when we start giving some , taking some, winning some and loosing some.. Its all about ups and downs !! 👏

@ sjain : Once again thanks dear...You are always welcome here to share your thoughts 🤗 and some thoughts cannot be expressed in words but can be understood by feelings..so I understood your feelings and words are not required..dont worry about it😳 !!

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Shicksha

@romanticgurl070

Voyager

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Posted: 8 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: deepsel

@ romanticgurl070 : Thank you so much for such an entertaining reply😆 I figured why it was not related to my post😳 but like you said, way too importance have been given to unwanted stuffs, lets focus on nicer things and enjoy the show😃

Glad you found the replies entertaining. 😊

Not related to your post because I shared my bad experience with -ve posts and their side effects.

Lets enjoy the show and be happy.. 😃

Of course if there is anything we don't like, we should voice it out so that Cvs got to know about it and improve.

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Deepa

@deepsel

Rocker

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Posted: 8 years ago

#75

Sorry friends,

Today's episode didn't give me much to make a balanced post as it didn't go well with me. Don't want to make another cribbing post like yesterday and spoil the fun for people who loved/ will love the episode..So I will be staying away from forum for this week as am busy the rest of the week.

Only respite in today's episode for me was "Bose family dining scene with smiling Sona and Dev" which seemed genuine. Everything else felt disconnected for me, may be my real life stress taking its toll ..

Just made this update so people who wait for my post don't get disappointed with my absence😳

Enjoy the show and stay blessed..

Love You and See you all on Monday 🤗

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sona_naksh

@sona_naksh

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: deepsel
Sorry friends,


Today's episode didn't give me much to make a balanced post as it didn't go well with me. Don't want to make another cribbing post like yesterday and spoil the fun for people who loved/ will love the episode..So I will be staying away from forum for this week as am busy the rest of the week.


Only respite in today's episode for me was "Bose family dining scene with smiling Sona and Dev" which seemed genuine. Everything else felt disconnected for me, may be my real life stress taking its toll ..


Just made this update so people who wait for my post don't get disappointed with my absence😳




Enjoy the show and stay blessed..


Love You and See you all on Monday🤗

please take care deepa ...
dont worry such epis do happen ...may b dey r needed to take d story forward
will wait for ur post till u make one

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404_NotFound

@404_NotFound

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Posted: 8 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: deepsel
Sorry friends,

Today's episode didn't give me much to make a balanced post as it didn't go well with me. Don't want to make another cribbing post like yesterday and spoil the fun for people who loved/ will love the episode..So I will be staying away from forum for this week as am busy the rest of the week.

Only respite in today's episode for me was "Bose family dining scene with smiling Sona and Dev" which seemed genuine. Everything else felt disconnected for me, may be my real life stress taking its toll ..

Just made this update so people who wait for my post don't get disappointed with my absence😳

Enjoy the show and stay blessed..

Love You and See you all on Monday 🤗

I completely understand if you are not comfortable posting your views today but I would like to say that it's OK to crib and vent .Sharing your views doesn't spread negativity .The way you present your thoughts and reasons for disliking the episode is the reason for so much negativity in the forum .

I would like to say ,this is the one thread where you find all kinds of people posting their comments .They might agree with you, sometimes they might not but that doesnt stop them from posting here because they know that this thread is opened for discussion and it is not some mutual admiration club .You may or may not change your opinion but you don't discourage others from sharing theirs .

Take care 😃

Edited by yyyy - 8 years ago

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rash2222

@rash2222

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Posted: 8 years ago

#78

awww it's fine... take a break and then come back but why do i feel you'll be back tmrw to make a post😆😆... you always provide positivity with your post so once when you are not upto it, our turn...

what i understood from today's episode is that cv's

1) cv's are going to interlink dev's not speaking about his past and ishwari's insecurity... they have a bigger plan regarding this and that is the reason they have pushed even vicky's issue coz they will bring out devakshi's fight about that at right time...

2) when sonakshi will get hint about ishwari's insecurity at that time dev's past will open up and he will only tell her about this and then sona will understand why ishwari is so insecure...

3) at present dev is very defensive about his past coz he feels that sona might not understand or she will but he is not courageous enough to relive those moments again(or those past moments are not shot so they cannot show 😆😆😆)...

4) not only dev but full dixit family is suffering or i must say holding to onto their past and it is affecting their present... neha left her husband coz that reminds her how much she suffered in her childhood... dev's marriage is suffering coz of his past and ishwari her whole life is stuck at one point, so for them to face it they need somebody who is not dixit and who help them come out of their past and it's negitivity and sona is going to be that passage...

5) somewhere i believe some alone time of devakshi will help dev to open up with sonakshi and she might understand where he is coming from... people will say they love each other they don't need alone time to understand but trust the kind of demon dev have faced in his past he needs that kind of environment and that alone time with his partner... we might see some growth in dev's character post that time and as he said to sonakshi it won't happen in week... it might take some time...

i hope i made some sense... this is what i understood from today's episode especially last part of the show...

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sandyaramesh

@sandyaramesh

Inactive

Posted: 8 years ago

#79

Deepa, I think I know and understand your reasons.

Dev, promised Sona something wonderful this morning ( to protect her from all sorrows) and he has forgotten about those promises in less than 12 hours. What kind of a love is that, right?

This is where the CV's are making big mistakes. Why promise rashly, when you have no strength to follow through?

I remember watching Zindagi Gulzar hai where the newly wedded couple begin making rules to make their marriage work...be it to talk, when something is troubling them before going to bed or not to walk out on your partner during an argument. And each rule they make, you see them following through to the best of their abilities.

Here, both Sona and Dev are unable to keep a single promise they make to each other and that Shows both of them in bad light. Dev more so, for keeping Sona out, as if she is not capable of understanding his pain. Why would he think that? Wasn't she the one, he went to when anything troubled him. Not saying, he needs to pour the entire past out as if it were a history lesson but why nor begin with little tidbits, instead of telling her she doesn't understand. He isn't giving her a chance. he wanted the night rule, to make up before going to bed and he failed once again.

Will miss your posts...until then, take care :D

P.S - Such silliness in episodes sometimes. I mean, Dussera is a national holiday in India and Dev and his entire staff are in office working... Come on CVs

Edited by sandyaramesh - 8 years ago