In defense of Ishwari

There have been many post against Ishwari and while watching the episodes again a thought crossed my mind ..why do we expect a MIL to fall in love with her DIL just because her son loves her ..in real life do two families fall in love with each other for the sake of their children..they merely accept each other .It takes time for a strong bond to create/Why this unrealistic expectation that a MIL has to accept DIL as her daughter from day one and DIL has to be a daughter to their in laws .

I completely agree with you on the point that it takes time for MIL to accept and love DIL.

This s exactly what I feel to...and astonishingly this s not d sona who dev fell in love with..where did she miss ..how s she unsecured ...is she d sona who understood dev broke up for his mom and her dislike...this my parents rant f sona is too irrational..hope it's justified as hr moral breakdown from fmily

Originally posted by: yyy

There have been many post against Ishwari and while watching the episodes again a thought crossed my mind ..why do we expect a MIL to fall in love with her DIL just because her son loves her ..in real life do two families fall in love with each other for the sake of their children..they merely accept each other .It takes time for a strong bond to create/Why this unrealistic expectation that a MIL has to accept DIL as her daughter from day one and DIL has to be a daughter to their in laws .

Ishwari has done the same , she saw how her son was broken when he almost lost Sonakshi and how much the girl meant to him .Any mother would not like to lose her son hence she went ahead and begged Bose family to accept the proposal just for her son's sake .Her intentions was very clear from the beginning and she never misled Bose family .All the while she said how much Sona and Dev loved each other and wanted them to marry ./

Post engagement fiasco i dont think Ishwari has mistreated Sonakshi or her family .She did compromise on lot of things for her son.Even in the wedding she did not give a chance to complain .Can we blame Dixit alone for the misunderstanding at the wedding ?Was Bose family fair when they wanted the wedding their way and were not ready to compromise .If both families had talked about rituals, food the wedding would have been a smooth one .The ego that our culture is superior is the root cause of all the issue .

Coming to Sonakshi the girl needs to have some patience and yelling at your husband will only push him away from you .There will be people like RR and Bua in every family and they are temporary . You need to smartly tackle them .Seeing the recent promo i only want to say Dear why do you want to be his mom first be his wife .The juice/tea fiasco made her look like a typical insecure Bahu not today's career oriented girl .Both Ishwari and Sona should stop competing against each other .

Totally agree with u I always saw Sona above all this female insecurities Dev did not marry her to serve food to him.Shes more than that to him.Friend ,confidante,soul mate.She should should focus on this rather than trivial kitchen stuff

your post👏👏👏... all three needs to adjust... these three character entering into new phase and they have to do certain adjustment and live happily... you can't expect ishwari to forget her habits and love for her son in one day... she will realise things have changed and she is most scared of those changes, she will make blunders but then she will learn also...

Such a relief to see the post. Agree with every word.

Originally posted by: Arnavananya

I completely agree with you on the point that it takes time for MIL to accept and love DIL.

That would be realistic.

Sona must leave alone Ish for a while and concentrate on spending time with dev.

The problem since the beginning has been this. Dev loves her toh it was taken granted Ishwari would love her too. Dev believing strongly on this created the whole mess in phase 1 of their relationship. Ishwari is a MIL. On top on that a possessive mother. She is not a villain. But the woman needs her space to get adjusted to the changes in life in terms of her son. She strongly doesnt accustoms to changes easily. Ishwari needs tons of cajoling to completely accept Sona with Dev by all means in his life. And yes timely dose of Mamaji knocking some sense in her too. I hope Sona understands this and treats the matter smartly. She is the most sensible one in all three. Dev is naive in the whole matter. Almost stupid. He doesn't thinks that deep but he has to get hold of the matter soon and not force Ishwari into changes too fast and forcefully. Also. Okay Sona had a proper reason for outburst, she had it. Thank God Dev was calm with her. But I don't want and like Sona putting him at crossroads in between his mother and her. Ishwari se I have no hope regarding this. But I want Sona to understand this and help Dev rather than making him choose sides. Ek taraf se Sona and ek taraf se Ishwari. If both equally pressurise him. Dev ka kuch hone se raha. So I want Sona to be his strong support. Just like they showed in the initial promos. Men are mostly thickhead in understanding so detailed matter. They mostly take stuff what's told to them. Their head doesn't work that fast on these as a woman's does. So Dev will really need to be shown stuff so he can sense the problem. Spoilers says he is unaware of the tension brewing in between Ishwari and Sona. -___- Dunno what CVs will do. Volcano burst karke bolenge Dev ko bujhane.

interesting I will get back here

bang on post..i made a similar post too..people neeed time to accept a new member..basically all three of them need to tke their own time to understand each other !