In defense of Ishwari - Page 2

Originally posted by: flat_everest

This s exactly what I feel to...and astonishingly this s not d sona who dev fell in love with..where did she miss ..how s she unsecured ...is she d sona who understood dev broke up for his mom and her dislike...this my parents rant f sona is too irrational..hope it's justified as hr moral breakdown from fmily

Originally posted by: yyy

There have been many post against Ishwari and while watching the episodes again a thought crossed my mind ..why do we expect a MIL to fall in love with her DIL just because her son loves her ..in real life do two families fall in love with each other for the sake of their children..they merely accept each other .It takes time for a strong bond to create/Why this unrealistic expectation that a MIL has to accept DIL as her daughter from day one and DIL has to be a daughter to their in laws .

Ishwari has done the same , she saw how her son was broken when he almost lost Sonakshi and how much the girl meant to him .Any mother would not like to lose her son hence she went ahead and begged Bose family to accept the proposal just for her son's sake .Her intentions was very clear from the beginning and she never misled Bose family .All the while she said how much Sona and Dev loved each other and wanted them to marry .Forcing Ishwari to accept Sonakshi would lead to more problems .

Sona would not have this expectation but for Dev's repeated assurance and claims that his mother likes her and lets not forget Ishwari welcomed her in her home twice with sweet words like "yeh sirf bahu nahi mere ghar ki khushiyan hai" "yeh kangan nahi bandhan hai". It does make you feel like she has given in wholeheartedly. I also think Ish-Sona bond before the revelation of Dev-Sona relationship played on her mind and made her believe that Ishwari has accepted her.

@bold yes acceptance is all you get initially but here its not even that. It is downright hostile!! When you ACCEPT for the happiness of your children you don't let them get insulted by other family members. You don't insinuate that you sacrificed and are mahaan in getting your stubborn child a toy. IMO it was akin to reinstating that their love IS Barsati Nala and 2 min noodles.

Post engagement fiasco i dont think Ishwari has mistreated Sonakshi or her family .She did compromise on lot of things for her son.Even in the wedding she did not give a chance to complain .Can we blame Dixit alone for the misunderstanding at the wedding ?Was Bose family fair when they wanted the wedding their way and were not ready to compromise .If both families had talked about rituals, food the wedding would have been a smooth one .The ego that our culture is superior is the root cause of all the issue .

Yes both families were careless and disrespectful of each others cultures. Period.

Coming to Sonakshi the girl needs to have some patience and yelling at your husband will only push him away from you .There will be people like RR and Bua in every family and they are temporary . You need to smartly tackle them .Seeing the recent promo i only want to say Dear why do you want to be his mom first be his wife .The juice/tea fiasco made her look like a typical insecure Bahu not today's career oriented girl .Both Ishwari and Sona should stop competing against each other .On your wedding night you have your husband next to you who did things to please you and your family .Instead of appreciating and basking in his love you are more worried about your MIL .

Sonakshi's initial reaction is understandable. It was HER Wedding day and all she got throughout was disappointment and insults galore. Who else do you vent it out to if not the one who claims it is his life's mission to drive away your troubles? He stands mute when his family is dishing out insults at you, you are supposed to be understanding and forgive all because it is your first night?

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

I recently joined and this is the reason I joined the group. Just like Bijoy is sulking Ishwari feels the same. Weddings and funerals bring out the best and worst in us.

There is so much potential in this Serial. We arent after loud Buajis telling off Benarsi-saree-clad-bahus.. The same insecurities need to surface more subtly. Just like everything else has so far in this soap.

Bijoy should have called mamaji to apologise for the FISH incident. So what if they caterers did it. It still happened and wasn't acceptable. So what if Dev agreed to meat being served in the menu. Couldn't the bride's side do their shagun discreetly?

Haven't seen the juice vs tea drama. However, its so cliched.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Exactly I felt the same. It is such discretion that the bride's side lack here. Even if caterers did it,Bijoy should have apologised. If Fish is auspicious for them how could they expect a different culture people take it softly?

I always felt food matter should have been discussed with Iswari. What if Dev agreed to serve? Elders will definitely have problem even to eat at the same place.

All said and done the serial now turns out to be a normal Saas Bahu kind of drama.Never expected Shaheer to be a part of such show. Initial promos are magical. But reality is something else.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

I expect the magic to return. Actually, I hope it does. I hope they are setting stage for the next few weeks where the love blossoms to next levels in a joint family with major communication issues