In defense of Ishwari

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AnnTaylor

@AnnTaylor

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Posted: 8 years ago

#51

Sonakshi took Ishwari's begging as her change of heart. That was her mistake. On the wedding night she got shattered to find out Ishwari was only fulfilling her son's zidd. Her fear cropped up, what happens if it comes true? What if Ishwari has problem with her and Dev leave her again? she knows it's always her MIL who make decisions in the house and Dev can go to any extreme for his mother's happiness. Obviously any girl in that situation will be terrified to discover her status - a disposable toy in your sasural. She asked for some time because she is still not convinced that Dev will go against his God if something happen in their relationship.

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CoffeeCake

@CoffeeCake

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Posted: 8 years ago

#52

If one has manipulative MIL is a different issue

But here Ishu wants to compete with sona like Dev is some trophy.

How does it matter whether Ishwari loves sona or not? They dont have to be Gopi bahu and koki maji. Is there something where DIL and MIL have to fall in love? Ishwari just needs to act like a human, at least not let daadi and gareeb ki aulaads to insult her DIL. But for her sona is just another toy demanded by her son.

But they all are treating sona like a punching bag. Ishwari had right to demand wedding according her rituals and demand no non veg, that would have made her look more real, but to protect her fake Mahaan image, she just accepted whatever was hapening.

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vibg

@vibg

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Posted: 8 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: mena_k

Yes every mother does have dreams of a wedding for their son. But did Ishwari ever had such dream. We were sure Ishwari never wanted her son to get close to any girl, forget ever getting married.
But even If she did had any such dreams, Dixits are rich enough to do another wedding as per their wish. It was them who agreed on a bengalli wedding. If they had any other dreams why did they simply agree. And once you agree you better not complain. If Ishwari agreed for Dev's happiness as she keeps claiming in front of everyone, she should make everyone shut up. she never utters one single word infront of Dev, keeps planning, show disrespect, show her being unhappy behind his back.

I still remember her scared face when Dev accidentally entered Dixit house when she was taking to Bijoy about prenup. she even called after Bijoy left in the morning saying Sona would decide If she want to sign the prenup or not. She was dead scared that Bijoy would tell Sona and Sona would tell Deva and her Godly image would get tarnished in front of Dev.

Isnwari never objects to anything in front of Dev because she is a double faced women. She lets GKB talk sh*t what she does not want to say and achieve what she wants through GKB while keeping her saint image intact. We have seen in the past If she wants she can make even mamaji shut up and GKB among everyone in dixit house. So she does it all so deliberately.

She does everything as per her master plan, even now she believes n behaves as If Sona is just a toy which Dev had jidd for and she had to give in (which she didn't wanted to do ever), nothing more than that.

Sorry Ishwari gets on my nerves everytime I see her cunning, evil smile.

Bang on!

Sorry, Ishwari is no typical mother. She has a sic relationship in her mind with Dev. She doesnt want another woman in hiife cause she thinks of him as her man after hubby died. I am disgusted at how they show Ishwari jealousy, possessiveness, her insecurities about Dev and her souten typebehavior with sona. It is unhealthy and disturbing 😡

So much has been said about fish drama already.. so dont understand a point about fish swapping by another comment in this post.

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Sandysprings

@Sandysprings

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Posted: 8 years ago

#54

Bang on post. ..agree with u..ishwari never said that she likes sona as a bahu but always said that "Dev ki khushi ke liye " she accepted sona..now if people think that she will become mother next day to her bahu than its impossible. .its not easy in normal situation forget about here..she will/may become more insecure..and that is normal..

And so many things happened in marriage and ishwari accepted it with bhari Mann for Dev's khushi..

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Nirja1994

@Nirja1994

Beginner

Posted: 8 years ago

#55

It takes time to get to know people and like them. You are perfectly right! However arent there some relationships where you are already predisposed to affection?

My Brother fell in love during his college days! We are gujarati brahmins and she is a maharastrian -from kolhapur. we are pure veggies and she is a non vegetarian.

Now whn my brother first broke the news at home, my mom was shocked! she hadnt expected it at all! We have a very close knit family so it was always understood that all our spouses would have to be able and willing to adjust. My mom cried for two days. Not the dramatic -look what my son has done- but OMG i dont even know who she is, what if she hates my daughter, isnt respectful, doesnt like us, huge cultural difference blah blah blah! Such kind of worries! Not ISHWARI kind of worries.

My mother met my brothers gf...first time was a little shaky..she was nervous..mom was nervous...but it worked out. Then we met again for a longer time..MY mm made an effort to get to know her-Truly knw her- her choices, her family, what sh likes, whether she is ambitious..those sort of things! They started talking to each other everyday.. My bro and mom talk literally everyday for an hour-so my brother is definitely a mothers boy but not spineless. So my mom tried er best to forge a bond with a woman who will be a very important part of her sons life! Thats how people should behave! they are getting married in december and the marriage is their way- while we will have garba and reception too!

My mom adored her DIL because she has spent time with her adn knows her!

So I respectfully disagree with you!