Why is Shravan's word being interpreted as Physical Relation

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san2471

@san2471

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Posted: 9 years ago

Shravan said "Woh sab kuch" ...he could have meant fights, their squabbles, their ruthna manana...etc etc. Aditya interpreted it as physical relation. Shravan knew Aditya's weak mind and played on it.

It just brought out Aditya's so called parvarish by Mataji Nirmala Ahuja which has least respect for women. Cancel the marriage, go away why torture her.

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Roshni2015

@Roshni2015

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Posted: 9 years ago

Hey there..

This is a very different take on things... A complete 360 from what is going on..

Nice!!

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rcssnl

@rcssnl

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Posted: 9 years ago

So true. How one interprets the words...that's our Lawyer mind. He never directly used the word "Physical relation" , He played mind games with Aditya. His ultimate weapon 😉 😉

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Chaits_04

@Chaits_04

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Posted: 9 years ago

Yeah... that was a different take👏👏👏

I did think this on the day itself but, when he said "sab kuch ek pati pathni ke beech..."

Put me back to this again

Let us see how CVs will take this!! But shravan was pondering over his statement that night and was not able to sleep! So...

Still I am ready and happy to take this...😉😉

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

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Posted: 9 years ago

As much as I would like to say there is room for interpretation in what Shravan said...it was quite well implied that he meant intimacy. He didn't say "physical intimacy", but it was implied.

The truth is that ShraMan has been intimate for years. Emotionally intimate. So yes there was closeness and intimacy in their relationship. But not the physical kind of the sexual nature. But the way it sounded it felt like Shravan meant that!

But you are right. He never SAID "physical" and Aditya having the mindset that intimacy just means physical took it that way! But that is how it was intended to be taken. That is the same reason that Shravan woke up this morning and wondered if what he said could affect Suman's life in some way. He thought that coz he knew exactly what he had said and how it would be taken!

However much I dislike what happened, Aditya totally deserved this!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 9 years ago

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neverlandspirit

@neverlandspirit

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Posted: 9 years ago

I may be wrong, feel free to correct me, but I feel Shravan's words did imply physical intimacy because at a certain level the only difference between a Bestfriend and a husband/wife is that you can be sexual with your husband/wife but not your bestfriend.

However Aditya shouldn't have reacted the way he did, because whatever ShraMan were it is a thing of the past and it really wouldn't affect Suman's and Aditya's present relation.

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Niroja

@Niroja

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Posted: 9 years ago

Shravan jo kiya sahi kiya.esa na bolti to sumo aditya ki ho jatina.

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Roshni2015

@Roshni2015

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
As much as I would like to say there is room for interpretation in what Shravan said...it was quite well implied that he meant intimacy. He didn't say "physical intimacy", but it was implied.

The truth is that ShraMan has been intimate for years. Emotionally intimate. So yes there was closeness and intimacy in their relationship. But not the physical kind of the sexual nature. But the way it sounded it felt like Shravan meant that!

But you are right. He never SAID "physical" and Aditya having the mindset that intimacy just means physical took it that way! But that is how it was intended to be taken. That is the same reason that Shravan woke up this morning and wondered if what he said could affect Suman's life in some way. He thought that coz he knew exactly what he had said and how it would be taken!

However much I dislike what happened, Aditya totally deserved this!

Mandy,

Shravan is a lawyer, a brilliant one at that.. His ultimate weapon is playing with words.. That's what he did.. He implied that SS had been physical.. It was for Aditya to understand that they had been physical... The way he said it...the obvious interpretation is what we all n Aditya got... I mean all his actions n words were meant for Aditya to believe what he wanted him to believe.. And chomu was already asking for it.. So he readily believed it.. I now understand his dialogue that day.. People's past have not only secrets but also poison.. And that's what Shravan gave him, the poison in the form of implied truth.

Shravan did all this to get back at Aditya n Nirmala.. He used his own game at that.. His word play, his lawyer brains.

As for treating Sumo as a pawn in this one man upmanship game.. It was cruel.. I still maintain it was wrong..

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Nancy (Zin)

@PlainJane

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Posted: 9 years ago

Exactly, my point! 😊I was thinking the same but couldn't find the right words. But there you said it.😃

Shravan never outright said anything about physical relations. Aditya interpreted it as such. Shravan knew Aditya was thinking about physical stuff and just didn't correct him.

I believe it is mostly Aditya's fault that he believed ShraMan had physical relationship. Shravan's fault was not clarifying that notion and deliberately letting Aditya believe whatever the hell he wished. Shravan is a master manipulator (a trait I love in him, scary though it is). Shravan manipulated Aditya and heavily implied intimacy. But he never specified what intimacy. He let Aditya decide. Shravan could be talking about emotional intimacy. It was Adi who decided on physical intimacy and Shravan didn't discourage that thought. That was Shravan's only blunder, in my opinion.

So, yes. Not saying that Shravan is blameless but it was mostly Adi's fault for thinking all that stupidity.😡 All he had to do was stay calm and trust Suman.

Great post. Much needed.😃

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Shree....

@Shreeswathy

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Posted: 9 years ago

#10

I too thought about it.
Shravan is straight forward, so he can mean these things
But Aditya is tharky, who want first night, even before marriage,
For him, sub kuch ka matlab tharkipan hi hoga 😆

Edited by Shreeswathy - 9 years ago

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