what msg pari's actions are giving out to us ?

saw many posts on pregnancy track nd I agree with all of them...this post however is on a slight different aspect..
parineeta is turning evil bcoz of her baseless insecurity...the family never treated her different from other daughter in laws (except when she was termed daughter in law nd swara daughter, it was unfair according to me)
I have heard brides getting punished for reproducing a baby girl nd also for not being able to produce a hier, CVS have given a real good message on how maheshwaris never had complaints with parineeta for the same nd treated her with same respect and dignity...
now according to family since ragini is pregnant they are doing ever,thing to give her comfort nd keep her happy, which is normal in real world, pari is shown unable to bear a child, it should hv been shown how she craves for her own kid not how she is planning to kill an innocent because she thinks all of them are harmful to her...no...there are countless women across the world who are deprived of this happiness of having a kid of their own, my aunt had 8+ miscarriages coz her body dsnt supports pregnancy, my younger aunt has two healthy girls, both of my aunt don't get along bcoz of some past happenings nd my elder aunt was very hurt coz of that.nd she is right at her place... they don't talk now but my aunt has never attempted any such nonsense nd loves my cousins genuinely despite being there issues
M point is there are so many ladies out there who aren't fertile but they don't kill others child bcoz of insensitivity... they pray for their own nd go for different means like surrogacy or adoption...
since pari is leaving no stone unturned to kill the baby, many viewers out there hv the response,"acha hua ye maa nai ban skti" I have said this...
tv shows one way or other impact the mind of viewers, i know u will turn her good later, but y to damage to such an extent that following that every act looks fake ? who knows she may in future save a child by ebdangwring her own life, but would that give her clearance of attempting murder of an infant despite the fact that there is no baby? U have done this earlier with another of your character that now despite of how much good it does, many of us are still struggling to take her on face value, pari should have been shown as the one who stands up for shomi nd her baby bcoz she knows the pain of not having ur child so she can't see an innocent die bcoz of what society will say...it would have been a beautiful scene,
what you are showing reflects that infertile women are insensitive nd jealous nd they don't hesitate to commit henious crimes..
sort it out CVS sort it out
not everything has to be drama, sometimes giving good message out will give U Brownies from life itself, not in terms of money but in terms of better luck nd happiness..


P's: rant over, sorry if it's too long nd unwanted, but after watching yesterday's episode, I couldn't keep it to myself...
we don't watch tv just for useless drama, we unknowingly learn something somehow...

Humare dil ki baat ko aapne bahut ache aur sehej tarike se likha hain. I completely agree with you. Hopefully after this ML, Sahil, fake pregnancy is over and SwaSan are back together in all senses, I would like Swara, who would come to know of at least some if Pari's deeds and understand her insecurites will nudge her towards adoption. From drama pov too it would be good while sending the right Message to the audience.

See I Toh don't agree with this whole reproduction and being fertile business

Originally posted by: MishtyShona

Humare dil ki baat ko aapne bahut ache aur sehej tarike se likha hain. I completely agree with you. Hopefully after this ML, Sahil, fake pregnancy is over and SwaSan are back together in all senses, I would like Swara, who would come to know of at least some if Pari's deeds and understand her insecurites will nudge her towards adoption. From drama pov too it would be good while sending the right Message to the audience.

even M hoping for a different change this time nd not an absurd realization nd back to being goody goody...I would love it if CVS address this issue properly nd show adoption track

Akanksha what an amazing post!! 👍🏼 You said everything I felt. But still I would like to rant some more 😆. For SR CVs every damn crime is forgivable. From murder attempt, kidnapping to planned miscarriage, they try to justify every crime and every criminal. Sometimes its because "Humne sab kuch humare pyar k liye kiya" , "pehla pyar" and now "hum yeh sab apna audha bachane k liye kar rahe hai". This is sick. Dadi who tried to kill her own unborn grand-child never got any punishment. I'm sure parineeta will also be forgiven. They way they are portraying an infertile woman in this serial is very disappointing. In reality many infertile women face lots of humiliation from the society without any fault. CVs are clearly misusing a serious issue. I am not really in favor of surrogacy (completely personal opinion) but Adash-Pari can adopt a child. And it will send a very good message to our society also. I don't really know why FP track is introduced. According to me its baseless. It would have been better if they showed Shomi's family was fighting for her against the narrow mentality of society. She didn't commit a sin and there is no need to hide it. Pari will eventually turn positive like you said but that will be some super-fast redemption like always. I wish CVs and channel don't drag this insensitive track.

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

See I Toh don't agree with this whole reproduction and being fertile business

I refuse to accept that a women's sole purpose in this world is to reproduce.

Not only women there are many men out their who can't reproduce.

As far as pari is concerned, I think her insecurity is justified. See I agree that she is treated equally but still her character never got that personal touch from anyone. Sujata rants about her infertility but no one tells her to shut up. Yes her trying to kill anyone is wrong and purely cruel. I think her insecurity exists because no one addresses it. No one gives her alternatives for having a child. No one ever suggests her adoption or test tube baby or surrogacy. Every couple wants a child, but I think the cvs are totally ignoring adarsh's insecurity. Why is he not craving for a baby? Men crave for their own child too. He also never addresses pari's insecurities.

This evil urge to kill someone who is not even born yet shows a completely false image of women who can't have children. In my real life I know 3 women who don't have children of their own and I have noticed that they are so concerned and compassionate about any child present in their family or in neighborhood. They care so much, I remember my father was scolding me one day because I climbed up on the new car he bought just a month back and jumped on its roof singing chal chaiyan chaiyan chaiyan😆(don't judge me I was 6 or 7 then). My aunt came started scolding my father saying ki for a car u r scolding ur daughter N my father apologized😆. Since she don't have children of her own she knows the worth of it and she values the feeling that she craves for. I stopped watching yhm after the shift to fake supernatural shagun ki aatma track, but I really appreciate Ekta kapoor for potraying ishita's insecurity so brilliantly and positively.

no one said a woman's sole business is to reproduce... I mentioned the emotional connect women have with it...neither do I say it's important to have a child but our nature defines the connect of a mother nd baby beautiful...
dsnt matter it's from mother's womb or not...
I disagree that family treats her unfair...Sujata has been like this for all...not pari in particular.. though I agree pari's issue is quite sensitive...maheshwari's not addressing the issue dsnt makes them ignorant but it's called personal space...adopting a child or not have to be their own decision..them being casual about her shows they are not affected with the fact that she can't produce...wrna maheshwaris we're shown very orthodox...
none of the pari's excuse is justified nd CVS have simply portrayed infertile women in bad light...
I don't see yhm but I know what it is all about... nd it's such a big contrast that on one hand a show is totally based on the purity of a mother nd child relationship when child is not her own nd here a lady is hell bent on killing a baby of her own household...
nd in both the cases..the ladies in question can't hv a baby of their own

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

See I Toh don't agree with this whole reproduction and being fertile business

I refuse to accept that a women's sole purpose in this world is to reproduce.

Not only women there are many men out their who can't reproduce.

As far as pari is concerned, I think her insecurity is justified. See I agree that she is treated equally but still her character never got that personal touch from anyone. Sujata rants about her infertility but no one tells her to shut up. Yes her trying to kill anyone is wrong and purely cruel. I think her insecurity exists because no one addresses it. No one gives her alternatives for having a child. No one ever suggests her adoption or test tube baby or surrogacy. Every couple wants a child, but I think the cvs are totally ignoring adarsh's insecurity. Why is he not craving for a baby? Men crave for their own child too. He also never addresses pari's insecurities.

This evil urge to kill someone who is not even born yet shows a completely false image of women who can't have children. In my real life I know 3 women who don't have children of their own and I have noticed that they are so concerned and compassionate about any child present in their family or in neighborhood. They care so much, I remember my father was scolding me one day because I climbed up on the new car he bought just a month back and jumped on its roof singing chal chaiyan chaiyan chaiyan 😆 (don't judge me I was 6 or 7 then). My aunt came started scolding my father saying ki for a car u r scolding ur daughter N my father apologized 😆. Since she don't have children of her own she knows the worth of it and she values the feeling that she craves for. I stopped watching yhm after the shift to fake supernatural shagun ki aatma track, but I really appreciate Ekta kapoor for potraying ishita's insecurity so brilliantly and positively.

Totally agree with you! I stopped watching YHM after surrogacy track was introduced and that too quite unethically. Huge disappointment for me.

Originally posted by: -LumosMaxima-

Akanksha what an amazing post!! 👍🏼 You said everything I felt. But still I would like to rant some more😆. For SR CVs every damn crime is forgivable. From murder attempt, kidnapping to planned miscarriage, they try to justify every crime and every criminal. Sometimes its because "Humne sab kuch humare pyar k liye kiya" , "pehla pyar" and now "hum yeh sab apna audha bachane k liye kar rahe hai". This is sick. Dadi who tried to kill her own unborn grand-child never got any punishment. I'm sure parineeta will also be forgiven. They way they are portraying an infertile woman in this serial is very disappointing. In reality many infertile women face lots of humiliation from the society without any fault. CVs are clearly misusing a serious issue. I am not really in favor of surrogacy (completely personal opinion) but Adash-Pari can adopt a child. And it will send a very good message to our society also. I don't really know why FP track is introduced. According to me its baseless. It would have been better if they showed Shomi's family was fighting for her against the narrow mentality of society. She didn't commit a sin and there is no need to hide it. Pari will eventually turn positive like you said but that will be some super-fast redemption like always. I wish CVs and channel don't drag this insensitive track.

thanks meera, ur point added the weight to the topic...
I dnt hv much knowledge of surrogacy so M not sure about my opinion on that.. but yes I do agree infertile women face a lot more humiliation nd they end up taking rash decisions...here pari got such supporting family nd yet such harsh crimes..
I would have loved a shomi turning a tigress to protect her unborn baby nd here she acted so ridiculous...hope CVS handle this sue carefully

Originally posted by: ssroomani

I did not want this Shomi pregnant track only for the reason that our CVs are not really good at handling sensitive issues. They are making a mockery of the whole thing. Daadi not wanting the grandkid is sick. And I really don't get the idea behind the fake pregnancy of Ragini. However well Ragini may be able to fake pregnancy, it is not that easy, in fact impossible, to hide the changes Shomi will have with her advancing pregnancy! This doesn't make any sense at all. On top of that DP clearly stated that this is a private matter of Gadodias and that they should not interfere in any way, so why this fake pregnancy? They might have as well shown the MMwaasis supporting Shomi and Shekhar.

So it comes down to this, the fake pregnancy is to give RagYa something to do (come on, are they so strained for ideas on how to give these two a parallel track??? ) and even more for Pari to go all the way in being negative. And like they did with Ragini, one fine day Pari will have an epiphany and turn all nice again, though it will not be clear to the audience what happened! 🤪

In all this, they are making kachda of a sensitive topic...that of infertility as well as a late pregnancy. Pari wanting to kill an unborn child is really OTT, so is Ragini planning to adopt her sibling!

And I am disappointed in Ragini. Whatever she may be, she is an intelligent person and I cannot think how she thought up this idiotic idea of faking a pregnancy!! It is not a matter of days, but 9 whole months!! I just cannot accept that Ragini thought of doing something like this! 😕

I agree with every word...
even I think fake pregnancy track is to show ragya doing something wrna it's total useless...
dadi against her own grandchild is stupid...grandmother's are always so excited for grandkids...
shomi succumbing to abortion is even more stupid...maternal instincts haven't kicked her yet?
nd when dp already said it's gadodias family matter, then y interfering? isn't he their head?
nd yes they definitely will turn her positive the very next day she becomes pregnant by magic...