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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharif_lafungi


no one said a woman's sole business is to reproduce... I mentioned the emotional connect women have with it...neither do I say it's important to have a child but our nature defines the connect of a mother nd baby beautiful...
dsnt matter it's from mother's womb or not...
I disagree that family treats her unfair...Sujata has been like this for all...not pari in particular.. though I agree pari's issue is quite sensitive...maheshwari's not addressing the issue dsnt makes them ignorant but it's called personal space...adopting a child or not have to be their own decision..them being casual about her shows they are not affected with the fact that she can't produce...wrna maheshwaris we're shown very orthodox...
none of the pari's excuse is justified nd CVS have simply portrayed infertile women in bad light...

I don't see yhm but I know what it is all about... nd it's such a big contrast that on one hand a show is totally based on the purity of a mother nd child relationship when child is not her own nd here a lady is hell bent on killing a baby of her own household...
nd in both the cases..the ladies in question can't hv a baby of their own

@bold I didn't say that u said it. But unfortunately cvs are potraying a women sole purpose to be reproduction n nothing else. Even swara and ragini were expected to give children by the Maheshwaris immediately after everything was finally fine. Swara love for singing was recognized by the Maheshwaris when they thought they lost her forever. Yes there is an emotional connect but that connect applies to both men and women. A man wants a child of his own too. But cvs are not potraying that at all. Adarsh role is not even mentioned in this whole scenario.
@red not addressing a problem sometimes hurts more. Any couple who can't have children of their own would feel insecure, it's a natural thing. Sujata is like that with everyone agree but still pari's issues way too much sensitive, if u don't care about pari's insecurity why curse her? N when no one stops her, not even Adarsh, it's quite natural to feel inferior for pari. I am not justifying pari's deeds here i am only justifying her insecurities which had many others better ways to deal with. Adoption unfortunately in indian joint family can never be a personal choice between a couple, if pari n Adarsh were living separately then it would have been a different situation. But here its a joint family that child after adoption should be accepted by everyone as their own. Unfortunately no one is addressing pari's insecurities, and that's make her feel that they simply do not care about her and she has no importance in this house.
I think u should watch yhm not the whole show it becomes ridiculous after sometimes like all Ekta kapoor shows, but still ishita's insecurity dealt so beautifully in that show. She feels sad that she cannot reproduce but she never feels inferior.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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akanksha yes I agreed earlier also that her issue is much sensitive..
I need time to watch yhm...will try someday...
OK I accept not addressing issue can hurt too...U are right there...
CVS have always been stupid to not go in detail
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharif_lafungi

akanksha yes I agreed earlier also that her issue is much sensitive..
I need time to watch yhm...will try someday...
OK I accept not addressing issue can hurt too...U are right there...
CVS have always been stupid to not go in detail

Cvs don't go into details in several things. 😆 the biggest eg is ragini's redemption, I just wanted them to do better with pari instead of making her an evil woman who is ready to kill an Unborn baby.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: luvakanksha


Cvs don't go into details in several things.😆the biggest eg is ragini's redemption, I just wanted them to do better with pari instead of making her an evil woman who is ready to kill an Unborn baby.


wanna bet?
pari will Get pregnant first nd then have an overnight realization that she was wrong nd now that she is pregnant, she understands what ragini nd shomi must be feeling...it's going this way 100%
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharif_lafungi


wanna bet?
pari will Get pregnant first nd then have an overnight realization that she was wrong nd now that she is pregnant, she understands what ragini nd shomi must be feeling...it's going this way 100%

Something like this could happen but not so soon abhi toh cvs have enough drama on their hands to deal with. Sahil's obsession, ragini's fake pregnancy and shomi's real pregnancy 😆 also Kissan I really want a track where sanskar looses his memory and becomes kissanwa n swara tries to remind him that he is the sanskar Maheshwari 😆 ok sorry for going off track. Back to earth akanksha, so yeah this could happen n most probably pari's truth won't get exposed, she will realize herself.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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that you can murder an unborn baby without any guilt feeling as don't have yours🤢
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Message is they need all sort of obsessive characters to move on this show.

Insecurity exist, jealousy exist. Not only in daily soaps, in real life too but when you start thinking about killing and cutting people to get what you want, it doesnt remain jealousy or insecurity, it becomes a mental dieses.

Whether it's Ragini, Sahil, Pari or anyone else. Attempt to murder is not something silly or avoidable matter.

Why can't they stop making people murderer? I mean negative character doesn't mean professional killer.

This entire pregnancy story is a mess. Pari who cant conceive coming out as some jealous soul. come on there are many who cant conceive doesn't mean they are some jealous soul who want no woman in her family should have kid. They are also human not some jalkookdis.

But this pregnancy puzzle is quite lame

Shomi had swara out of wed lock AND now when she is married and have father of her kid she's acting like she's pregnant out of wed lock. Does she really need Ragini to help her?

Ragini's entire world revolves around herself. She should be the one taking all mejor decision. First she forced herself on meheshwaris then brought her sister without any permission and now will bring her one more sibling making him/her as heir of family. Having kid or adopting should be only couple decision but they should not keep it secret from family. Her family should love that child keeping in mind he/she is not biological kid. She can tell her daadi and everyone openly that let shomi deliver this kid and if you people really feel emberred she will adopt that child. How hard is it?

In this entire drama shekhar and shomi are coming out spinless. I mean why did they plan this kid when they cant take the responsibility? In this era of 'ipill' when you can avoid pregnancy till 3 days there they are playing fake pregnancy game. IMO they are not perfect parents for existing kids and there they are bringing new one. Shekhar's wife passed away long back, Shomi should have made honest attempts to get in life of shekhar after that, all she needed to do was keep a tab on him at least for swara she should have tried to be with him to give her father's name and love BUT SHE DIDN'T. And shekhar handled his only child to his manipulative mom after death of his wife to torture her. And now another kid they want to handle to someone else who herself is not capable of being a mother. Not long back when Ragini used to behave literally like abnormal. Shomi should think at least once is Ragini perfect mother for her child? after all she is giving her child, not tissue paper to use.

What made shomi and laksh believe Ragini can be a mother? She might be reformed person and all that but at least check her for few years and let her remain consistant with her posiive behaviour.

Overall conclusion. There are 3 ladies, one has conceived but doesnt want child, another cant conceive and third is acting like she has conceived. All 3 need to sit togather and talk. One who doesnt want kid should give to the one who cant conceive and one who is acting can have her own kid in future. Simple No one one needs to be a vamp.
Edited by Divine-Pearl - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharif_lafungi

pari should have been shown as the one who stands up for shomi nd her baby bcoz she knows the pain of not having ur child so she can't see an innocent die bcoz of what society will say...it would have been a beautiful scene,
what you are showing reflects that infertile women are insensitive nd jealous nd they don't hesitate to commit henious crimes..
sort it out CVS sort it out
not everything has to be drama, sometimes giving good message out will give U Brownies from life itself, not in terms of money but in terms of better luck nd happiness..


Agreed with your entire post. esp the lines in the bold. If anyone could relate to Shomi right now, it should have been Pari as she knows the pain of not being able to bear a child.

Cvs mainly write for TRPs. So they don't really care whose character they are butchering. Later on if they need to show the "bad" character in a good light, they will just make her help one of the leads, somehow and everything will go back to normal.

About the point where Swara was called a daughter and Pari and Ragini a D-i-l, even I didn't like the scene much. This fact led to a clear demarcation between daughter and d-i-l, reinforcing the age old belief that d-i-ls cant be daughters till they do something exemplary. This ultimately leads to dils competing against each other in the same house or many d-i-ls feeling like an outsider in their own house, even after years.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Iam totally agree with you..
Parineetha is turning evil.Before the entry of Swaragini parineetha was only the daughter in law of that house.so she got so much love and care.
But when swaragini enters Parineetha was jealous..
They were two lovely sisters always ready to sacrifice their life.
So they easily became the part of family.
But parineetha..her ego grows and she became negative.

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