Originally posted by: -Loq-
Yeah totally.
A concept is created in the mind that the guys who hurt you are the ones who will love you immensely.Misbehaving, manhandling is like a sign to symbolise love.
Not just that there is a concept of happily ever after created in mind and illusion that guys are the ones who can solve all your problems.
Marriage is made really essential and as a child I swear hummed bg music in intense situations😆
THIS!!! This is bang on! These regressive soaps show abuse, both physical, emotional and psychological by the male lead towards the female, giving some flimsy excuse for why he is being such a scum bag. Then BAM!! The girl's suffering, and putting up with the crap from him and his family, being the pati vrata, sahen sheel nari means the dirt bag man changes from someone who would hit all the markers for being a psychopath to a guy who loves her!!!!
It is naive to think that tv and what we read, what we watch, especially CONSISTANTLY over a great period of time, doesn't effect our outlook, thinking and behaviour even without us realising it.
Look at the topic in another thread here...about suicide. Yes all the films and pics of pratyusha and her boyfriend show them as happy togather but how many soaps show the heroine coming out and making her problems public or telling her parents whats really going on. What is the constant brainwash from tv soaps? Put up with the abuse, if you love him, look after him, your love will finally CHANGE him!! And in him changing, suddenly his whole family who has till now given the topmost psychos in real life a run for their money, suddenly become saaff sudhra too!!!
People don't change like that. People don't chance coz you love them! The level of bull poo these soaps peddle everysingle day, day in day out. Just think of the mental conditioning of kids who are playing in the hall from the time they can sit by themselves...they are listening to and watching this everyday till they are 18 and married off.
In India many girls dream of an education and working but...yup marriage is a must! They dream of marriage, love, romance. Its all they are fed on tv and movies. At the same time tv feeds this crap. The number of forums here on IF where I have read horrified and disgusted,. Pst after post from girls, all excited about up coming track of torture and then the "REDEMPTION" For god's sake they even have a name for what they wait for!!! The guy suddenly changing and being sorry for what he is and did!!! As if that is what happens in real life!!! This poor actresss Pratyusha it seems did the same. Desperate to marry, have love, make the unworkable work, hoping that he will change, while he lived off her earnings, controlled her other relationships ie with friends and family, lived off her money and fleeced her of all her money ...where she waited for his "REDEMPTION"🤢
Indian soaps are filth of the worst kind and this level of filth has gone on for so long that whole generations have grown up thinking that hurting someone is love and even worse...its not even hurt. SOme indian girls don't even recognize what is emotional abuse! They think gaalis are the sum of emotional abuse.
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