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@Jess_Ru

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Posted: 9 years ago

#61

The most sensible post I've seen here from long time...agree with each and every word u said...

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jessi

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foresight

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Posted: 9 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: afreenaamna
I completely agree with ur post!! A show needs to be mixture of all love drama etc to make it hit..All fans have right to demand for what they want but at the same time dont u think things which are more in demand getting more benefit is fair too..
And about my poll well i have'nt seen a topic as polite as my poll topic from long time in this forum. There was'nt any abusive language, no taunting, no bashing in my post as well as i replied to every in the most polite manner..see even ur post is targeting fans mine was a simple poll & yep i'm seriously about getting a name change for this show and guys its not like this stuff never happens..yep i dont want it to be renamed as swasan but anything else other then swaragini. If i want that its my wish n its not like it has only yes n yes opt in that poll..ok i hate writing essay's

When we ask for swasan scenes, we don't check with ragya team right? we go to the CVs. they want more scenes and time, my point is who are we to accept or reject that or justify why they should not have it. let the CVs and RS decide. they are capable of doing that right?

you want it named something else, you can request like anyone else. its your right and your choice. as long as everyone also has the same right and choice, who am i to interfere. I know you have been polite in your post and haven't bashed anyone. The point i was making, which i mentioned in there as well is that the atmosphere right now in the forum is very negative and very volatile. everyone knows that and agrees. in such an environment any such polls or even posts like we are seeing these days are only going to add fuel to fire even if the TM makes the with the most honest and nice intentions. Because whether the TM likes it or not, they are becoming the battlefields for both groups to take pot shots at each other. while not everyone might be able to discern it, sarcasm and mocking dipped in jest or under the veil of fun is still sarcasm right? and sarcasm ends up being witty and humorous only in small doses. when it is going all over the places full fledged - whether we like it or not - it becomes bitter poison.

i am not trying to be philosophical here. but too much of these fights are going to take away from the show, the discussion and at some point tire even those fav that everyone is fighting for. the reality (even as helly has said) is that all of them on the show are good friends. as many others have said, they are doing this for living. we on the other hand, are fuming and driving ourselves over the wall when the same people that everyone is trying to fight for, are completely not bothered by it ...not do they want to be involved in this mess...and be linked to it in any way.

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foresight

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Posted: 9 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: dis_arshi
i agree with u
and one thing more
if tejus fans are angry with the fact that helly won the best actress then it is their fault
it was an online contest
we can vote as much as we want
so if they didnt vote her then we cant help it
why do they blame swara/helly??
whats her fault?
they dont know any of the actors and make conclusions of their acts
its their personal life..let them have their personal life guys
do u like when someone poking into ur personal life?

Thanks for agreeing with me.

But we can only succeed in improving the atmosphere if every single one of us stops making it us vs them. The truth is most teju fans were happy that helly won vs. others. the truth is that there are 1-2 fans in both helly and teju camp that are spewing bad things...but sadly in the fights, the view of those 1-2 people is being seen as the view of the entire group. which is not true. it has happened from both team too. so if we really want to stop this, we need get together and be firm with those 1-2 people in each group and trust me everything will calm down automatically. lets not forget, yesterday there were some swasan/helly fans bashing varun. in the past some have said he should divorce his wife and get together with helly. see this is not the view of all fans, right?

this show won a lot of awards, but the reality is that in all this back biting, trying to take the other one's actor/fav down...think about what we have actually come out with? if we go by the poison spewing all over the place, we have two actresses who are drama queens, who don't know how to act, one of them apparently has questionable relations with PH/director. With the actors - one of them cannot act and the other one who can act isn't worth getting awards, having fans or worth pursuing career in acting. this is the exactly summary of all the allegations going around. not even a single actor was spared. and not even some forum members were spared. instead of celebrating wins and wondering why we didnt have more awards, even the fans of winning couple were part of those who bashed varun!

the point is all fandoms are to blame. all need to take responsibility and decide if they want to clean up the negativity. if yes, then lets make it happen without more blame games.

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@foresight

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Posted: 9 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: Messi2
The most sensible post I've seen here from long time...agree with each and every word u said...

I think we've met...

jessi

thanks so much Jessi.

ages ago on Swasan AT and when were were discussing the plots.