Reality Check for ALL fans!! - Page 5

Originally posted by: NitaReid

I honestly dont want to turn into one in the future 😆.. It all about Balance and a good track. Cvs need to come up with them and TRP will remain high. Going overboard for a Fav Character and for supporting them they drag the actors in it too. Totally not Cool 😡.

I want it stop so i can visit forum without an headache😊

Originally posted by: foresight

thanks anusha. there is nothing wrong with anyone being unhappy about characters from time to time...and CVs most of the time 😉...problem recently has been that it has really stopped the forum from being a place we should really discuss the story and the show and because more about the actors.

Originally posted by: Tanii

A much needed post .I loved each n every word of urs...U correctly pointed out the facts which are being overlooked by many here...Thnk u so much once again...Wats ur name btw??

Originally posted by: Sree8410

Sapna 🤗

Much needed sensible post dear. I've always been a fan of your posts😉

And I don't come to MF because of these silly fights. But it seems lot has happened here. People need to understand the difference between reel life and real life of their favorite actors. Most of them even fail to see it as a fictional character and fight with their buddies on this but they are adamant to stand by their view. Nothing much can be done here. Have seen that once and now I try to stay away from this. But love you for this attempt

Love

Sree.

Originally posted by: foresight

I agree with you that it is about package. I think people's opinion on Laksh sadly might be the same. with Ragini and Swara it is mixed bag. My mom and aunts and her friends are all in their 60s. They like Ragini's drama and were not too happy with Helly for the longest (devar bhabhi scenes, pushing laksh to be with ragini but ignoring sanskar, doubting sanskar etc). they aren't too bothered about the romance as you have said as well. But it is fair what you have said, if you and your mom don't connect with Ragini. you don't. simple. it is a personal preference. just like we have people having different favs. i have been watching it for swasan but i do realise that ragini brings out the best in them many a times and i like that.

Now this is just my take but if ragini was replaceable, RS would have done it. she wouldnt have been willing to change the plot and be willing to turn ragini positive otherwise. she knows what character is working. remember she has replaced many characters with other actors otherwise. SNS and SSK are prime examples of that.

The aim of the post though was to raise a question do you really think that the show can go on perpetually interesting without going SNS or SSK way only with swasan... if ragini as a character is completely gone? Secondly, do we need to malign the actors and the people here and be intolerant to others opinions on the forum just because they don't match ours? that is what is happening right now. which i feel is not okay.

Originally posted by: foresight

🤗 🤗 big love to you Sree. I so miss those days when we discussed the plot. I remember there was so much detective work that went when we had ragini kidnapping to the extent that we analysed the photos of the hand to see whose hand it was. those were some amazing days! it is sad that instead of the plot we are now discussing real lives of actors...and that too at a stage when CVs and RS could very well turn it into their bigger kitchen politics drama ever.

Originally posted by: Sree8410

Good old days Sapna! Like you said we could discuss a lot about the possible upcoming track but for that we need to stop behaving like kids. I still don't get the reason for most of the fights here. I stay really far away from this place now. Just come to read FF now. On that note, are you planning to trouble your beautiful brain and give us something to read😳. I've finished learning you 3 SS😉.

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Even I enjoyed Ragini a lot earlier but then CVs instead of showing her character growth have made it simply take a U turn for turning it positive and that is not only hard to swallow but also hard to relate to- hence the lack of interest.

She could have been turned positive in a 1000 different and interesting ways. But no we will get Ragini ne sab kuch pyaar ke liye kiya which makes you switch off the TV so that the minds of your children are not corrupted.

Now regarding people who confuse between the actors and the characters - the lesser said the better.🤢 In my opinion they seriously need help. How can one make aspersions on actors basis roles they are playing? It would be like lynching the child who plays Ravan in the school play.

Regarding tolerance see we all have to be tolerant of each others opinions. A forum is meant for a healthy discussion. But people here are turning into a street fight and a slanging match. 🤢

But there is one more factor that should be considered - if one belongs to a minority fan group there would always be twenty posts arguing against his one post - it should not be labeled harassment. Its natural. One should take it in stride. 😊

Originally posted by: foresight

I am sapna.

thanks Tanii...i am glad my words connected with you. i hope the atmosphere on this forum changes soon. i would rather everyone fights over amazing ideas they have to make the forum the best (in reality minus the negativity) and ideas to make the show best vs. KKB, SSK, SNs etc rather than in-fighting amongst ourselves. aren't other forums already doing that to us.