Anandi should marry only if she wants to...

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Thewanderer

@Thewanderer

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Posted: 10 years ago

Although Anandi is already married twice , both of the marriages were against her will. Her marriage with Jagya was forced by her parents , with Shiv she was forced by Dadisa and she did it only coz it was her mother's last wish. Atleast once in her life, she should be allowed to marry according to her will and choice. There should not be any pressure from Dadisa or anyone and not even for someone but only for herself.

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Yes, I agree. I wrote the same thing in the ED thread.

Both her previous marriages were forced and both the marriages failed, one due to divorce and the other due to death.

Now let CVs show a marriage because she chose to marry.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

How about letting Anandi do what she wants to do?

They have forced marriages on Suguna Gehna and Anandi or rather bull dozed into marrying against theit will how about showing that a woman wishes to stay single she should be allowed to exercise her will?

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Suguna's marriage was not forced. He approached her, they met on the terrace where she told him she was carrying Pratap's baby. And he accepted her along with the baby... nobody forced sugna to marry again.

Regarding, Gehna, she was also not forced to marry niranjan. There is a difference between convincing someone and forcing someone to marry.

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Secondly, anandi is a weakling who on her own cannot do anything. She needs pampering and support and other people's shoulder all the time to lean and cry.

If left on her own, she is a disaster. She lost one child because of her wrong decision.

And recently she would have died along with nimboli if anant had not reached in time and saved them.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

What did Anant do to save the situation? Nothing.

One can do very well without a person like Anant.

Anant jumped into the well which was the most stupid thing to do.

How did he expect Mangala to pull all three of them from the well?

If Jagya had not come in they would not have come out of that well.

Anandi jumped in because Nandini did not how to swim and she was finding difficult to stay afloat.

The psychologist whom he brought in is no help either she is complicating things.

Then he gives advice like ignore Mangala's concerns because she is ignorant and illiterate.instead of trying to explain things to Mangala how it is necessary and helping Anandi who wants Mangala on board.

Till now he only complicated things.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Gehna was manipulated into marrying Niranjan by telling that Nandu needs a father figure and Nandu was manipulated by Dsa that his mother needs a companion.

Ultimately everything backfired when Nandu became difficult.

Suguna was married off even when she was unwilling because they did not want to deal with a single mother and answer the questions of the society and that led to never ending problems in Suguna's life with Shyam's tausa trying to kill Suguna's kid from her first marriage.

Anandi was bullied and black mailed.into marrying Shiv. But her marriage is not a failure.It was the best ever thing to have happened to her.

There are enough examples in the show how people muddled up things in their life even if they had very capable and understanding life partners.

People do make things difficult for themselves but that doesn't mean things will be fine with marriage😛

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rohini55

@rohini55

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Posted: 10 years ago

Irony is Anandi also joined in the manipulation of Gehna. She advised a reluctant G remarry. She advised a reluctant Jagya to remarry, forced him rather.

And DS told Gehna she will not be dishonouring Basan't memory. Then she pushed Nandu's future as her weapon on Gehna after which she agreed.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Anandi was never even in the picture when Gehna's remarriage talks were going on.

It was entirely Dsa Jagya and Ganga.

Only after Gehna said yes to marriage Dsa called Anandi to inform about it and Gehna just told Anandi about her apprehnsions.

Till Dsa rang upand told her about Gehna's re marriage to Niranjan Anandi was not even aware of it.

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Recently I watched those episodes were they were deciding to get Jagya married again.

It was Sumi Bhairon and Dsa's idea to convince Jagya the same way they convinced Anandi.It was just at that time Annadi realised that she was madly in love with Shiv and was all getting ready to confess her love for Shiv.

That scene in BH just before she lef for Udaipur Anandi tried to convince Jagya and failed.she was leaving as it was time for her to leave that's when Jagya callled her back and said yes to marriage.

She never bullied him or made him promise that he would marry again like she was made to.

He agreed to marriage of his own accord for the sake his parents and he put a condition that she approve the girl.

Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago