Originally posted by: --Anna--
Bang on post Nithya! 🤗
As you may have noticed, on other posts also, I do agree to all your comments. We do think alike. 😊
When I talk about Swara and Lakshya, I think of a couple who may have fallen in love or most with the idea of being in love. They might have truly liked each other at one point of time but they are not in love anymore. More so, even though I cannot comment of Swara Lakshya love story because I have not watched the show from beginning - from what I heard during the revelation it seemed as if this relationship was kind of forced on Swara by Ragini. It seemed that Ragini had to convince Swara to accept Lakshya even though she did not want to. So this was the point where I did not feel Swara and Lakshya were together because of love but because of a mutual liking and because of Sanskaar and Ragini's interference.
Coming to the most important issue of trust - I do understand that Misunderstandings can happen and it is quite possible that Lakshya misunderstood Swara after watching the video. But that along with Ragini's suicide was not enough reason to jump into matrimony. He did not believe in Swara at that very moment - that could have been a reaction to the sudden pain - but to jump into matrimony is just not acceptable. That step of Lakshya's showed to me that he did not love Swara enough to even wait for her to clear the misunderstandings. No matter how much Ragini manipulated the situation - if he truly loved Swara - he would wait for her - and if she did not show up - he would have given this whole thing a day or two to think. But his jumping into matrimony with Ragini is proof enough of how subconsciously he never wanted to be with Swara.
Also, fine, like most of the fans claim that Lakshya took the decision in anger. Fine. Acceptable. Some people's anger is just way too much to control. But he never believed Swara when she showed up. He never believed Ragini's confession under drugs, heck he did not even believe Swara and Sanskaar when Sanskaar confessed to everything with proofs. He once did not think that why would Sanskaar blame Ragini? If Sanskaar could name his mother - he was blaming Ragini for a reason right? Why did he not believe in Swara and Sanskaar then and try to do some digging on his own? Lakshya's love for Swara was weak and his trust on his friend Ragini was always more. So no, Lakshya does not deserve Swara. More so, he forced Swara to marry Sanskaar even after promising Swara and Sanskaar that after the sindoor drama he would let them be. If Swara is married to Sanskaar today - it is because Lakshya's love for Swara was weak and he did not mind seeing her with Sanskaar then. Now if he cares, because he wants his favourite toy back. 🤢
Lakshya gets no sympathy from me at all. He deserves Ragini because he made her the way she is now. Playing with her emotions constantly - she had to turn into an obsessive delusional person and she did. Also, Lakshya knows Zilch about Swara. He does not understand that Swara does not want anything to do with him. He keeps making her irritated and when I see Swara beg in front of Lakshya, I want to puke. How can he let Swara beg him to take care of Ragini? If he really loved Swara, he should take care of Ragini by himself knowing how important she is to Swara. Is that not what love is? Sacrificing your happiness for the sake of your lover's happiness and not even feeling the pain? If Swara loves Lakshya (which she does not now!) he needs to give her space and not force himself down her throat. If she wants to come back to him - she will. But if she does not - then a guy needs to accept that too. 😡
Coming to Sanskaar, the man who started with revenge - realised his mistakes - redeemed himself completely - who would not love this guy? He is smart, uses his brain and knows who Swara really is. Even before Swara says something - Sanskaar is well aware what she wants. He loves her - but he is NOT forcing himself on her and that is the sign of a true gentleman. He wants Swara to be a part of his life and be happy and these days, he is the ONLY reason she smiles. Swara, the happy go lucky girl - is finally back and only because of Sanskaar and if that is not love then what is? 😳
Sanskaar may have done terrible things in the past - but he has made up for it. Right from being thrown out of the family, the house, the rape assault charges - it has not been an easy journey for him too. Yet, he has managed to handle it all so well and maturely. He loves Swara - he has confessed - but if she does not want to do anything with the love bit of their relationship - he is not forcing her. He is giving her much needed space.
The contrast between two guys in Swara's life is very clear :
(1) Lakshya knows how important Ragini is for Swara but he does not want to treat Ragini right because if he does he will not get Swara back. Sanskaar knows Ragini is upto something but if Swara wants to give a chance - they are doing it together.
(2) Lakshya is constantly in Swara's personal space and is forcing his love down her throat. All scenes of Swara Lakshya is mostly Swara hurt, irritated and crying. Sanskaar is madly in love with Swara but he leaves her alone in her space and gives her time to breathe and Swara respects that. Her child like smile is back.
(3) Lakshya does not care about Swara's family's reputation. He was going to create a scene in Baadi the other day even after Swara begged him not too. Sanskaar heard the conversation on phone and he ran to Baadi so that nothing bad happens.
(4) Sanskaar may have tried to tarnish Swara's image before but note, Swara was not married then. Lakshya is tarnishing Swara's image by showing up in her room late at night. It is much more worse when she is married. Extra marital affair for a girl in an Indian society is far worse than a girl dancing in a club under the influence of a drug.
(5) Sanskaar did not have a gun on his head to help Swara out during the whole Ragini mess. He had apologised and Swara forgave him but he still made the effort to stand through thick and thin and finally completed his redemption and made up for his mistakes. Lakshya has been forgiven but he still does not realise how awfully he treated Swara and he shows no sign of redemption. First redeem then think of getting together with Swara. More so, Lakshya still is putting the blame of this whole thing on Ragini, though it is his own fault too. That is NOT acceptable.
(6) Pray tell me, why did not Lakshya fast for Swara if he loves her so much. So she should fast for you (the thought of which is pukeworthy to me) but you did not fast for her? Sanskaar did it right - even though he and Swara were never a couple of sorts? So Swara should do it for him to show her love but how is he going to show his love - by manhandling? 🤢
I am sorry to say, the more the show progresses, Swara and Lakshya's love story seems like a bitter story of infatuation to me and nothing else. Love is not first love - it is true love and what Sanskaar has for Swara is true love and beyond. 😳
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