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Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Anu gave me wedding saree choices for II and menu and everything, I am not sure what happened... she didnt even PM me... so I dont know the "personal context" either
She said she is in touch with some, if any of you are, then please tell her I am sorry, she has never said or done anything to hurt me, I hope I havent either...

If its because she found a fabulous job thats taking her overseas or buy a bigger house and has to move, or has to go to some wedding... if its for something fabulous then I will try to not miss her

I HOPE IT IS

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Vidya
I refuse to believe ONLY Iyer boys are backwards, all of them are to a certain extent, some change many dont...
Also the case of him asking Vandu to get him something cold was a CLEAR case of cold war with II

I knew it would be misunderstood, he is not a misogynist by any definition. He wanted to let II know " I am uncomfortable asking you for stuff now"

He didnt necessarily want Vandu to get up, it was just a symbolic potshot at II

Agreed it was to hurt II further and indicate you are no longer significant or i wont take liberies with you or you take of...the result is what matters...i don't mean to say he is a misogynist i watch the way youngsters pitch in even at their ' in laws place' today and Bala not even setting things right in his home irks...
I referred to Iyer boys as they seem slow to change though much better than the family driven values in some others i see...you and i have boys it is for moms like us to open up discussion points like Paati trying to tell Bala on nalladhudhana sollara getting yelled at...
Since i see the iyer and non iyer boys in my family and all young people around me being witness to cross culture weddings in very close family circles i am a advocate of understanding and appreciation of each other being the basis of any relationship and having watched a buddhist wedding and the vows the couple exchanged i am viewing things with a fresh perspective...
I got the symbolic pot shot but my sympathies are only with II


i see so many iyer boys and so many others in the family i am trying to see

Pritee
When I beat up on Salman Khan for supporting terrorists people will beg to differ with you, on "being achhi" thing

I have never clashed with Anu and Shev over ANYTHING
I found it cute she was so passionate about Ranjan, a story did that to her... I was so happy

She started appearing less and less and then boom, she is gone...
All those that I am heavily invested in seem to do this to me (I know I am like Deepika Padukone, its all about ME, ME ME)

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Pritee
When I beat up on Salman Khan for supporting terrorists people will beg to differ with you, on "being achhi" thing

I have never clashed with Anu and Shev over ANYTHING
I found it cute she was so passionate about Ranjan, a story did that to her... I was so happy

She started appearing less and less and then boom, she is gone...
All those that I am heavily invested in seem to do this to me (I know I am like Deepika Padukone, its all about ME, ME ME)

YOU ARE SO DAMN CUTE NISHA A BIG HUG TO YOU...THEY WILL RETURN IN TIME...NOBODY WANTS TO HURT YOU ...WE ARE ALL INVESTED IN THE STORY AND THE FORUM VASIS AND THE SUTHRADHAR OR BRAHMA...🤣👏

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Pritee
When I beat up on Salman Khan for supporting terrorists people will beg to differ with you, on "being achhi" thing

I have never clashed with Anu and Shev over ANYTHING
I found it cute she was so passionate about Ranjan, a story did that to her... I was so happy

She started appearing less and less and then boom, she is gone...
All those that I am heavily invested in seem to do this to me (I know I am like Deepika Padukone, its all about ME, ME ME)