Software Symphony 40 Eggs & Kathakali - Page 109

Originally posted by: blue5sky

Ashy don't know why .. I can't open your PM

Nisha-thanks for the awesome updates!!! You paint such beautiful scenes with your words...I am speechless most of the time. As my family will tell you that is a very hard task to make me speechless!!! 😆

Originally posted by: Seriousreader

Captain...we are almost done with this thread...😲

Where do we go from here?

As the layers come off Bala's character...I seem to like him less and less..

Originally posted by: Seriousreader

As the layers come off Bala's character...I seem to like him less and less..

What is he evolving into...

Originally posted by: Ashu25

Ditto 😡

Prat
He loves his family, he adores Vandu, hes not a crook, hes not a gambler he doesnt cheat on her, he doesnt have a roving eye, he is a committed sincere man, that struggles to make ends meet.
He cares for the Iyers (I know many will jump on me and say whats the big deal, Vandu cares for his parents etc) There are many Balas that make their wives care for their parents and NOT AT ALL appreciate their wife's parents visiting them even for a week.

He doesnt ask Vandu to "go get money from your parents, your mother is earning too, I want trade in stocks" (there are many Balas that do that if mother in law is working)

There are many Balas that got their wife's tubes tied after the first one, because they cannot afford a second one

Bala is not like that at all

He loves II
He admits to Vandu occasionally he is helpless in the case of his parents

He has to have some failings no?

Go ahead and hate him for what he fails at

Originally posted by: Seriousreader

As the layers come off Bala's character...I seem to like him less and less..

What is he evolving into...

simple SR

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Prat
He loves his family, he adores Vandu, hes not a crook, hes not a gambler he doesnt cheat on her, he doesnt have a roving eye, he is a committed sincere man, that struggles to make ends meet.
He cares for the Iyers (I know many will jump on me and say whats the big deal, Vandu cares for his parents etc) There are many Balas that make their wives care for their parents and NOT AT ALL appreciate their wife's parents visiting them even for a week.

He doesnt ask Vandu to "go get money from your parents, your mother is earning too, I want trade in stocks" (there are many Balas that do that if mother in law is working)

There are many Balas that got their wife's tubes tied after the first one, because they cannot afford a second one

Bala is not like that at all

He loves II
He admits to Vandu occasionally he is helpless in the case of his parents

He has to have some failings no?

Go ahead and hate him for what he fails at

Originally posted by: kalviswes

Nisha-thanks for the awesome updates!!! You paint such beautiful scenes with your words...I am speechless most of the time. As my family will tell you that is a very hard task to make me speechless!!! 😆

Gosh-SoSy is taking such interesting twists. I can totally relate to the situation with II and Ranjan. With my first sister--my b-i-l's family is very similar to Bala and Appa's situation...very rosham etc. They were very upset with anything and everything that was given and they still are. My second sister's family is much more easy going-partly bec they are also comfortably off. Unfortunately the problem with the second is that giving to the grand kids often becomes a competition ---not sure why??😕

Kala

I know of many families where the sisters get jealous of each other for what the parents gift each of them, at seemandham, prasavam and baby's Bday, many even fight over what their parents have left for them

after they pass on...

I know of many families where the brothers' wives and daughters(SILs) fight over who got what

Many Iyer families love their daughters more, many love their DILs, its a constant vishwa yudh only. Its very shocking to me how can siblings that grew up in the same house and shared the same room, same salwar kameez and kolhapuris, and earrings fight like dogs after marriage and kids

But its very very common