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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with your post..
I didn't understand both the mothers..

Nausheen..spineless mother..not questioning her daughter.
Yesterday she was full of smile when she saw her daughter dressed for wedding with Sahir...today also in flashback scence she is happy for her daughter wedding with z aki..but telling her ammi that she doesn't know y arzoo marrying sahir as second wife...she is talking as if arzoo is a third person...

Alvira...o god...I don't know how to define her character...she acts so selfish. ..
in zaki wedding she was calm and didn't smile...even anam was so happy in the wedding...for sahir wedding she was so happy...I don't know whether she is zakis real mother...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i agree, even after what nausheen had gone through one would think she would do something a little more to not let her become the second wife. but then nausheen isnt that strong so where is dadi, because out of anyone i would think dadi would do something or at least be around. but heres the things neither the sisters or the mother bothered to notice arzoo upset and sad, its written all over her face, she had a long face throughout, how can a mother just miss that even the sisters. i know when im uset and try to cover it up my mum notices it and me the same for my bro. is it because they didnt spend much time with her during preparation which is strange in it self. one more thing why has no one questioned alvira, sahir, arzoo of what happening, about objecting to be a 2nd wife, about where zeenat is, what happened, like thats not realistic that literally no one would ask these.

also independents is irrelevant, i would think since arzoo and nausheen have a great mother-daughter relationship she would say something.

to be frank, it sucks to see nausheen let it happen, sucks to see arzoo herself let it happen and agree to marry and it sucks that sahir blackmailed/forced her to marry him, the cvs continue to make sahir more worse every ep it seems like for some reason or another. well arzoo as well reducing and butchering her character.

it would be a nice change if for once they showed married in a happy way, where the two actually wanted to marry and not some sad forced one where everyone is upset. or at least show a girl going against the forced marriage and not letting herself be pushed around and have no choice. either one would be good and really different to see.

i agree with everyone, what are the cvs doing making a girl marry a already married man, seriously and in doing so ruining the characters in the process especially considering how much arzoo hated safraz for what he did and hated the 2nd wife
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Rojaa-

Nausheen is a black mark in the name of mother ! Marrying a man who already has a wife shoud be considered as unacceptable by a mother. The guy is NOT divorced for god's sake.

I Wonder who is writing this track, apparently he / she doesnt even think from a woman's POV, let alone a mother's pov. They could have easily made Nausheen disapear during the marriage sequnce, For exemple show her being away for some work or may be even in hospital.


Exactly my issue has been with the writers always ...they are So lost n cause character inconsistency Plus show disjoint tracks 😕No wonder they don't get TRPs ..how are the viewrss supposed to connect with them
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I may be the voice of dissent here but please don't kill me for that. Its just my POV. If we analyse Nausheen's character right from the first episode, its pretty evident that its Arzoo who wears the pants in the family. Right from her decision to leave for Mumbai to the couple of episodes ago, where she questions her mother about taking money from Sarfaraz, its obvious that she is the one in charge here.

When they show her in love and agreeing to the Nikah with Sahir, they don't show her asking Nausheen for permission, infact Nausheen isn't even around at that time. Later when Arzoo gets molested, her mother leaves her alone with a man, who sleeps in her bed, n yet she is happy about it the next day ?

Yes its true that Arzoo hates her father to the extent that she refuses to add her name to his and its a fact that her mother has suffered, but isn't her mother at fault too. How many times, despite Sarfaraz treating Nausheen shoddily, she has gone behind Arzoo's back to talk to him and even ask him for his help time and again. Each time he treats her badly, throws her out of the house, she simply cries and goes back to doing the same thing again. She is a weak, pathetic character. Even this time she has put Arzoo in a spot by taking money for her Myra's education without informing her. Ok, you took help lady, now stand up to Farah and tell her that its your right to do that, but no Nausheen only cries, while Arzoo is left to fight battles on behalf of her mother.

Has Nausheen thought how the money should be paid back ? No its Arzoo's job to do that. The only reason Arzoo agrees to either of the marriages is the financial security. Zaki helps her to pay half of the money and the second half will come from the meher that is given to the girl during marriage. I am sure in today's episode they will show her agreeing to marry Sahir only because he will offer her unconditional support for her family in return so that they do not lack anything ever again.

If Nausheen had been really strong, she would have been the one telling Arzoo that they should leave Niyamat house and restart their lives and that she didn't have to marry anyone till she established her career. But she does no such thing despite the fact that the marriage is happening in a hurry,what is the hurry for god's sake ? Nausheen is too busy crying or enjoying Zaki's cheesy lines to question anything. She doesn't use her brain at all and no wonder Arzoo is making all her life's decisions on her own.











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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ajj ki epi ke baad why was nausheen even wondering why arzoo agreed to marry sahir?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soaps1

Ajj ki epi ke baad why was nausheen even wondering why arzoo agreed to marry sahir?


Infact when she picked up the knife I was like finally she stated the facts n rather than being a cause of all the issues , she will do the "DER aaye Durust aaye suicide " 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The lady and her younger daughter emotionally blackmailed Arzoo ! Myra even blamed Arzoo for not marrying Zaki ! And i thought Myra will play cupid to SAAz and even wanted Sahir-Myra scenes
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It's these ladies like nausheen who are shame to motherhood . I am serious put your daughter in to all the problems and behave helpless in front of hubby not fight back for rights and then easy target put the burden on daughters. Today it's this helplessness of nausheen which made arzoo decide to marry a married man .
Girls do respect parents and not dare to make decisions on their own until and unless they have parents like nausheen and safaraz do really don't stand by their daughters.
This is practicality dear when daughters are put in a situation where they have to support themselves financially and even feed their family at the cost of burning their own wishes , what do you expect from those daughters .

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