Is that so easy ?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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NO my post is NOT about Saaz, nor Zaki. Sahir was supposed to be a ruthless businessman and passionate lover, that he is . Arzoo was supposed to be independent and angry young woman, that she is (debatable though ) Zaki, his character doesn't matter. So my post is not to rant about Saaz, nor Zaki.

There is one particular scene that left a really bad taste in my mouth!

'Ammi i know you are angry on Arzoo, even i don't know why Arzoo agreed to be Sahir's second wife ' YES I'm talking about Nausheen Begam

IS that so easy for a mother to allow her daughter become a second wife, a polygamous marriage ? The easiness with which she talked about her daughter becoming Sahir's dusri biwi , that was disgraceful to motherhood !

The daughter doesn't owe an answer to her mother about her marriage? That too in such situation? Are girls in India become THAT independent? I know they haven't, at least i haven't so i can speak for myself.

After the medical system, the concept of marriage and sensitive issue like molestation, now it's the turn of the most pure and most respected relation in the world to get ridiculed in the hands of Cvs : Motherhood !

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Forget the logic and common sense for this serial, Di.

Mothers in general are a deviation from normality here. Be it Alvira or Nausheen.

Dulhe ki Ma aur Dulhann ki ma dono abnormal hain. Nausheen was so casual when she told Dadi about the Nikaah. Lagta hain faint ho gayi thi, magar ek cup taaza chai peekar inko josh aagaya.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I was going to say exactly this and saw your post!
Yes it's absolutely ridiculous to say the least!

Nausheen hasn't asked Arzoo what happened the night of the cab incident and she was all happy about her marrying Zaki...who doesn't even work for a living and about whom she knows nothing!

Then Sahir stopped that wedding and Two days later Arzoo married him and Nausheen is left saying this dialog??

It's unfathomable..it's not even about independence or freedom...it's about how concerned as a mother she is...doesn't she care what the outcome of her daughters decision would be?

At least she could asked Alvira where the first wife was and what happened...she could have stopped Arzoo...anything but this nonchalance...worried expression and acceptance!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Rojaa what a fab post 👏
I m glad amidst the SaAz n sahir praises u made this post


Nausheen khan has been shown to be weak woman I am sorry if it sounds rude but even after being flipped arnd by her so called hubby ..so many times n being with dadi whose apprently more stronger than Nausheen herself n has Been the pillar of emotional support for The family, Nausheen has a long way to go , to be called a mother n to take decisions or allow n help them to take decisiosn for themselves

It's cos of her tht ARZOO has a steep learning curve ahead of her ..cos anyway Sarfarz was away Nausheen looks Lile was more a creeper than a support

She Has messed up with her daughters both emotionally n morally ..n Zara is as selfish as a bee and myra will soon be a scarred kid 😕
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nausheen she is beyond me ... i don't know what she is i never understood nor i think i ever would 🥱 the least bit of respect i had for her i lost it the day she let zaki sleep with arzoo ... uss ke baad she is just down and down
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Posted: 10 years ago
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My mother was horrified when she saw Nausheen's reaction she was actually questioning her parenting. In a way I understand why Arzoo couldn't handle her own situation because even though she learned the sadness of Nausheen's life she couldn't get an example of a how to better the situation obviously her mother is an example of great stupidity!😡
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettypri

I was going to say exactly this and saw your post!

Yes it's absolutely ridiculous to say the least!

Nausheen hasn't asked Arzoo what happened the night of the cab incident and she was all happy about her marrying Zaki...who doesn't even work for a living and about whom she knows nothing!

Then Sahir stopped that wedding and Two days later Arzoo married him and Nausheen is left saying this dialog??

It's unfathomable..it's not even about independence or freedom...it's about how concerned as a mother she is...doesn't she care what the outcome of her daughters decision would be?

At least she could asked Alvira where the first wife was and what happened...she could have stopped Arzoo...anything but this nonchalance...worried expression and acceptance!

Even if we ignore all that happened post that molestation incident, this second marriage is thing is way too different.
Exactly its not about freedon, nor independance. It makes Nausheen looks like she is using Arzoo get a heavy bank balance !
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ecrivain


Rojaa what a fab post 👏
I m glad amidst the SaAz n sahir praises u made this post


Nausheen khan has been shown to be weak woman I am sorry if it sounds rude but even after being flipped arnd by her so called hubby ..so many times n being with dadi whose apprently more stronger than Nausheen herself n has Been the pillar of emotional support for The family, Nausheen has a long way to go , to be called a mother n to take decisions or allow n help them to take decisiosn for themselves

It's cos of her tht ARZOO has a steep learning curve ahead of her ..cos anyway Sarfarz was away Nausheen looks Lile was more a creeper than a support

She Has messed up with her daughters both emotionally n morally ..n Zara is as selfish as a bee and myra will soon be a scarred kid 😕

Nausheen is a black mark in the name of mother ! Marrying a man who already has a wife shoud be considered as unacceptable by a mother. The guy is NOT divorced for god's sake.
I Wonder who is writing this track, apparently he / she doesnt even think from a woman's POV, let alone a mother's pov. They could have easily made Nausheen disapear during the marriage sequnce, For exemple show her being away for some work or may be even in hospital.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: feminist

My mother was horrified when she saw Nausheen's reaction she was actually questioning her parenting. In a way I understand why Arzoo couldn't handle her own situation because even though she learned the sadness of Nausheen's life she couldn't get an example of a how to better the situation obviously her mother is an example of great stupidity!😡

NOt only stupidity , total selfishness. She very well knows what is to marry an already married man. Its more like Nausheen doesn't care about it as long as Arzoo provide them a shelter and money.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hey Roja ...🤗 thanks for this post and here is my rant ...

blood boils up when u think abt the heights of insensitivity n stupidity portrayed under skin through Nausheen Sheikh character 😡 as a mother of 3 grown up girls 😲
Absolute LAYOFF to all women n mothers across globe😡...

At the least even a lady who is unable to provide next meal to her child will NOT be able to live with the fact her lovely daughter is entering as a second wife to someone PERIOD...

i would add on - not any blood relation of tht girl including siblings Myra/Zara characters can be allowed to digest this fact so easily -COME ON

I request CVs - if u are not sure how to handle this weak plot Nausheen which u have created in your story JUST KILL HER DAMMN IT🤬 ...Aarzoo or any girl doesnt need such a person around BAS

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