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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

"And once the storm is over, you won't remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won't even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won't be the same person who walked in. That's what this storm's all about."
Haruki Murakami

Just a collage as the quote says it all ... Wonderful episode highlighting the trials and tribulations of relationships of three different couples with our protagonists in the middle of them trying to hold the pieces together of the two already affected and unbeknownst to them the third one has already started churning which will soon get them sucked in it .

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Edited by GanBarunFan - 10 years ago

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K.S.

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Posted: 10 years ago

hi...nice post..there is no romance or something but i liked todays epi

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: luvabhiya9
hi...nice post..there is no romance or something but i liked todays epi

Thank you .. Yes it was a beautiful episode

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Eyes-Wide-Shut

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Posted: 10 years ago

G haven't watched the episode yet but your collage and the quote has forced me to stay up and watch the epi 😳

Will update tomorrow 😊

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I don't even where to begin with this show anymore because once they embark upon brilliance they just don't stop, and I am so happy that they don't. I do not have to tell you how much I love your collages, quotes and write up because If i do so I will sound repetitive! 😊

This episode reflected love multifaceted approach on life, 2 couples hurting while 1 stand tall amongst all the chaos. MiMi are going through some testing times, Simmi is finally growing up and Bala is getting intertwined is some dubious behavior, amongst all this, there remains a couple so unlike each other with all the odds placed against them yet the thrive in love. Their love is so strong that it will pull through MiMi and Simmi through the rough phase of love.

Now coming to puttar , my man boy! He is a boy in a body of man who had responsibilities thrown upon him. He became the financial, emotional and social head of the family at a young age, he never got a chance to grow up emotionally, he never got a chance to heal emotionally, all he got were responsibilities. While talking to Simmi I saw the MAN in my man boy take charge, he called her 'beta', he gave her all the support, and ensured his unwavering support. It was possible for the MAN to take charge because Ishita is healing the boy within, she is healing him emotionally. As the boy heals, the MAN emerges. I just loved the scene between the brother-sister duo. 😳

My poor babies MiMi, they are immature and they are hurting! I felt so bad for Mihir, my poor boy is hurting and how! While watching these two the following song came to mind, and then I started all the other songs from the movie. lol

Tere Dar Par Sanam Chale Aaye
Tu Na Aaya To Hum Chale Aaye
Bin Tere Koi Aas Bhi Na Rahi
Itne Tarse Ke Pyaas Bhi Na Rahi
Oh, Bin Tere Koi Aas Bhi Na Rahi
Itne Tarse Ke Pyaas Bhi Na Rahi
Ladkhadaaye Kadam, Chale Aaye

Okays I am really sleepy, so I am gonna end it here, I still have update Saturday's post...so on to the next one!

Edited by Eyes-Wide-Shut - 10 years ago

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut
G haven't watched the episode yet but your collage and the quote has forced me to stay up and watch the epi 😳
Will update tomorrow 😊

Enjoy your time with real Puttar .. Reel one can wait

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Coco

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Posted: 10 years ago

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"Sometimes we must undergo hardships, breakups, and narcissistic wounds, which shatter the flattering image that we had of ourselves, in order to discover two truths: that we are not who we thought we were; and that the loss of a cherished pleasure is not necessarily the loss of true happiness and well-being. " ~Jean-Yves Leloup, Compassion and Meditation: The Spiritual Dynamic between Buddhism and Christianity

"When you go through a hard period,

When everything seems to oppose you,
When you feel you cannot even bear one more minute,
NEVER GIVE UP!
Because it is the time and place that the course will divert!"~
Rumi, The Essential Rumi

Gan beautiful post once again. I love quote, it is so appropriate for the current situations in these four couples lives. Your right that this week was all about the dynamic changes in these couple lives and relationships.

Param and Simmi:

What a dramatic change in Simmi. I am so glad Cvs have shown this girl to have a brain. It was probably not easy for her to break her relationship with Param but she did because of her daughter. I loved her line when she said "He doesn't deserve to be a father to my daughter when he can not respect other's daughters"👏 (Something along those lines). This is the same Simmi who blindly trusted her husband. I give a salute to her bravery. I feel bad for her though because nobody deserves a husband like Param. Simmi was never a bad character to begin with. Life struggles and denial changed her. Even now what she has been through will change her for the better. Param no words for him.

Vandu-Bala:

For the most stable couple on the show. I really loved this couple because they were the most sensible and understanding couple. I mean there could have been a drift between them when Sabbu left Ishu but they stayed together. I am actually looking forward to this track because I would love to see how this couple stays together. Although I watched today's episode, I always believed Bala would not cheat on Vandu because he loves his family a lot. That Raina chick just looks plain crazy to me.

Mihir- Mihika:

I am really sad this couple is going through alot because of Ashok. I know Mihir is shorter than Mihika but I don't something about this couple is just so cute. I love these characters from the beginning as individuals and as Ishra's supporters. I sort of understand why Mihika doesn't want to marry Mihir until she proven innocent because she doesn't want Mihir to suffer because of her. Mihir loves her so much that he wants to marry her despite their current situation. They are at the cross roads in their lives and we all know that they will get through this.

Ishita-Raman:

What can I say about couple. They have come so far because they are the most stable couple who has not problem in their relationship. I mean they even colour-coordinated their clothes 😳! I really love the comfort they share now. They are awesome parents, siblings and children. After seeing past the hurt you get a couple deeply in love and cant stay a moment away from each other. The fact they do have different personalties help their relationship become even stronger. Raman's guilt I feel is not wrong nor right because when you love someone and you see them suffer, you feel guilty not matter what because you couldn't stop them from getting hurt in the first place. It is really nice to see these to work together and help their family out. I must say their communication skills are improving.

I know I usually dedicate a poem for Ishra but since this week was about family and relationships, I am going to dedicate a poem to the family.

Family is the strong tie,

That holds you to the ground.

When it seems that you have lost,

All that you

had found.

They are the rock that holds you down,

When you start to float away,

and they can turn your life around,

When you go astray.

They are the friends that you are born with,

They are with you 'till the end,

and when life treats you rough,

your broken heart they will mend.

Although sometimes you may fuss and fight,

and may not always agree,

In the dark, they are the light,

That shows the path so you can see

~Unknown

Edited by cocololo123 - 10 years ago

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Eyes-Wide-Shut

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

Enjoy your time with real Puttar .. Reel one can wait
🤗

😳 - for both puttars but more so for reel 😆

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aparnaatharva

@aparnaatharva

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Posted: 10 years ago

Nice collage Gan.
Relationships that matters in life which ensures we are still be alive and happy to live the life ahead in all phases whether it is good or bad.
Good episode.

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: aparnaatharva
Nice collage Gan.
Relationships that matters in life which ensures we are still be alive and happy to live the life ahead in all phases whether it is good or bad.
Good episode.

Thank you! Agree it was a good episode about relationships strong and weak and maybe some in between.

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Anu

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I was so not looking forward to this epi after seeing the promo but it was a 'not as horrible as I thought it was going to be but still had my guts churning' kind of epi!😛

Wonderful quote and really lovely collage. SO apt for the storylines to come for all four of the couples we saw today. 👏

Great Job!👍🏼

I loved the comparison of the four relationships today- very well done. If vandu had been present in a scene with Bala before we were introduced to Raina that mightr have been more effective, but I understand the actress is not available right now.

ISHRA: Two people who have hesitantly stepped forward to embrace a new love in the last person and place they ever expected to find it. Theirs is the story of a newly discovered love between two every hurt souls healed again by the quiet yet powerful love that snuck up on them while they tried to make the best of an unhappy situation.

MIMI: Young lovers who have been living a relatively carefree life while being indulged by each other and their families. Theirs is the story of the first big and unexpected test put forth before young love as they learn to put their love and faith in each other at the forefront and fight for their love and truth.

Bala & Vandu: An idealized couple whose commitment to each other and their lives are a point of envy and comfort to those around them. Theirs is a love that is comfortable and real, rooted in history and trust now about to be tested in the hardest of ways, for, what is implied as the first time.

Simmi & Param: Two troubled individuals who have stopped being a 'couple' or even 'parents' due to the lack of honesty in their relationship and the fact neither are able to be their real selves within it. Theirs is a love that has soured and been destroyed due to deception and dishonesty and will now come to an untimely though not unwelcome end forcing them to face the reality of their union and come to terms to who they are outside of it and as parents.

In this sense this was a terrific episode. And I know Raina will only serve to make ISHRA stronger but... but... *Princess Ruhi pout* IT'S NOT FAIR! I am sick of third party interruptions ... I want my super sweet ISHRA moments now! *stomps foot*

Okay, tantrum over... I'm going to try to keep your quote in mind and keep positive! ... but seriously it's Christmas season, the season of joy and happiness WHY must the CVs be such joy haters?😭

...Okay, I'm done now, really. Sorry... I'll go sit in a corner and try to think happy ISHRA thoughts...😉

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