why do they hurt sentiments of vegetarians?

Amma insisting she would not eat in a place where they cook non veg in the same utensils is reasonable.

Agree with Seetha, in cross-cultural marriages, you need to to be extra careful about offending sensibilities of any side, so while Ammaji came across as rude and brazen in making a fuss in eating at their place, Pintoo came across as foolish and inadvertently inconsiderate, guess this is the CVs plan to hype the drama quotient, so just be patient and hope this irritating track passes off!

Finally the track is picking.

Originally posted by: Missesha

Finally the track is picking.

Hi All,

This is my first post in HNN forum. I joined this show pre-dominantly for Pratyusha. Have been watching it from day one.

I find Ammaji too insensitive and fussy, but today I couldn't sympathise with Pinto either. When they were so careful about every aspect of cooking vegetarian food what was the need of bringing a fully-cooked fish.

In cross-culture marriage, one needs to be extra careful and sensitive towards other person's mind-set, as the cultural up-bringing and behaviours of two-parties are not the same.

Ammaji is giving no time to Saagarika to adjust, clearly knowing that the girl has no exposure to Benarasi culture, rituals and expectations, and this is becoming increasingly tough on Sags.

On the contrary, Pinto and Saagarika also never took a step back to think, how this marriage will unfold, and if there were some points they need to clear before-hand.

Today, what Sag's questioned Bunty was something, she should have thought through before. She was quite cautious about Arindham, but went with a flow on Bunty.

Let's see how the show unfolds.

Well-said👏

But I guess that is the basis of drama in this serial, how SagUn adjust amidst the pulls and pushes of varying characters. I also feel Sagz did not think of all the problems before marriage because she was in love and when love overpowers your senses, everything else, all reasoning goes for a toss, so marriage will reawaken her lost powers now😛. also, in an early episode, when Pubali teased her about Bunty, she was very rational and said, are you crazy, have you seen his family, so now is the time for introspection for Sagz and Bunty and how they manage will be the crux of the plot!

Originally posted by: vibraj

Agree with Seetha, in cross-cultural marriages, you need to to be extra careful about offending sensibilities of any side, so while Ammaji came across as rude and brazen in making a fuss in eating at their place, Pintoo came across as foolish and inadvertently inconsiderate, guess this is the CVs plan to hype the drama quotient, so just be patient and hope this irritating track passes off!

I am a vegetarian myself and come from Orthodox Brahmin Family. Had seen these kind of situation. But with time my people got adjusted. But not everybody, these kind of issues are very sensitive. Off course while deciding life partner Bunty have not thought of the consequences but Saagarika was clear what she want from her partner, as in the case of Arindom. She also knows there will be lots of adjustments to be made accordingly she is trying on her part but Amma is not giving her time, that is the sad part, but then in this materialistic world who thinks about other's. Even Bunty never had a clue neither he gave Sag's a chance to think about it. He was all over her. Let's hows CV's will handle this situation.

@ Vibraj,

Originally posted by: Missesha

@ Vibraj,

Yes, I agree... Sags was so rational in the way she said, that she wouldn't dare to fall for Bunty due to his crazy family... but as you said love overpowered her rational mind and it is only now that her rationality is back. So let's see how she tackles.

But often in reality, lot of couples burn out due to cross-cultural differences, particularly when the MIL (or one family) is non-co-operative and does not want to show any signs of acceptance or adjustments.

I am not sure of Bunty. I like him, because he is sweet and makes efforts in keeping harmony, but he is not stern and will never be able to put his foot down on any matter. Will this burn him down at some point?

Your analysis of Bunty is very spot on, sweet, caring but cannot be stern and put his foot down! Hopefully, in the course of the serial, our character will evolve!

In a love marriage, its often very easy to overlook the details; and especially when the marriage takes place in a hurry - chat mangni, pat byaah.