Originally posted by: PyaarDostiHai
In all honesty the show has taken so many unexpected turns in the past few days that I don't really know where we're going. I just hope the CVs do. 😆 But maybe it won't end at a saas-bahu type serial at all? It's possible at least.
As for their connection being artificial, well I don't know. It's like, when you're super close to some one, you are able to pick up right where you left off, and that's the way it seems with Neha and Aman. They were obviously close childhood friends, and I think Neha helps Aman remember a time when he was truly happy, making him even happier around her. So I don't think they have an artificial relationship, or even that it's necessarily too soon to fall in love. I do hope Neha is given time to mature before their "love story" truly starts but I guess that's not happening 😒
I think it's rather interesting that Neha at the moment doesn't truly see how different the world around her is, and that's exactly the point. When you're young you don't really care or notice how the world is. It doesn't make much of a difference in your life so why bother? It's only when you mature that you start seeing the world and reflecting on the changes. I'm sure we'll see this in the future.
@lovely_lady Hi I don't think I've seen you around before. Sorry I think I ended up replying to you more than the TM. Sorry @sunyy too! I'm Mia, btw, what are your names?
I'm not saying that Aman and Neha's connection is artificial. I totally understand it. There are just some friends with whom you can instantly pick up your friendship again, regardless of time apart. And that's what Aman and Neha's friendship is shown to be like. My issue in regards to artificiality, isthe love angle. Like you said, being around Neha makes Aman remember a time when he was truly happy, aka the past. But the past has gone and only the present and future remains. Aman presumably loves the Neha he knew from 12 years ago. She has yet to mature and even figure out who she is. Same with Neha's love for Aman. She loves the 14 year old, carefree, cricket obsessed boy. She's unfamiliar with the bogged by responsibilities, serious Aman. Their love is artificial in the sense that they do not know each other's present personalities. They have yet to understand each other, see the type of person each other has turned out to be (or has yet to become in Neha's case). Their love is artificial in the sense that it comes across more as a love for the nostalgia of their relationship, rather than love for the deep, innate qualities of each other.
I think, at this point, they are only at the crush stage. Love is yet to happen. Which is why I'm a little annoyed with the whole love angle.
Like you said, Neha is still emotionally immature. She hasn't noticed how the world around her has changed. But in order to adapt and actually begin living in the present (along with loving the present Aman) she needs to see how and what has changed.
But like you mentioned, the CVs have taken many unexpected turns so hopefully the love angle will drop in the coming days and more focus will be on Neha's journey to adapting.
btw, nice to meet you Mia! I'm a lurker LOL, always lurking in many forums and commenting on select topics. My name's Isha! :)
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