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Posted: 11 years ago
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IT HURTS!

You can't just forget or let go of a catalytic component of your would be life when you've invested so much emotion, feelings, time and tears into it...and how can you let go of something that has helped to build you up, how can you ignore an important aspect of your growth and foundation?

Samuel Butler said "Any fool can paint a picture, but it takes a wise person to be able to sell it."

They sold us Paro and Rudra from day 1. And. For once it's not about the happy ending, its about the story...

...A story so powerful that it was able to drive the point across that soul mates exist, it made me ask the question "How does a soul recognise a stranger"

The right words have a way of finding you when you need to hear them.
You take my happiness and I will take your sorrows...

...This is what Paro was to Rudra even today this is what she still leaves him with.


Who can understand my hurt?...only those who are hurt by this betrayal.

How do creative people not understand the essence of creativity, to be creative means to provide inspiration, creativity is not something you learn; it is something you are, to be creative is to be meaningful...

They have turned 8 months of a Larger-than-life Fairy Tale into a lie. It was a lie, everything was a lie. Paro and Rudra meant nothing to them, nothing! Less than nothing!

We the viewers were something to be picked up, manipulated and disposed of.

These 2 months of mediocrity was deliberately and calculatedly prompted to take us hostage.

They scoffed at our Hope, Faith and Belief system and told me to get over it because such is life.

Strike 1

They have trampled on our educational status, people can take everything material away from us, no one can take away our education.

Strike 2

Today they desecrate the religious domain.

Strike 3.

These so called creatives have no right to be in this industry, to be on a platform that can sway minds. TV is one such powerful medium that is easily accessible and such an easy tool to indoctrinate people into believing anything

"Art, like morality, consists in drawing the line somewhere." ~G.K. Chesterton

4 days are left and yet still I hope...am I fool to feel this way?

The longing, makes every uncertainty roar to life and when the silence stretches, when the hours and days and weeks pass without a word, I feel my security slip, my piece of mind crack, and the distance leaves the door open to fear and doubt.

I couldn't bring myself to watch 11/09 and 12/09 episodes, and even todays episode, because I feel this way.

Is waiting this hard for everyone? Do others feel this way when alone...Do they wonder like I do? Do they worry? Doubt? Do they approach this with more confidence, with less fear? Is there anyone who actually still hopes in a twisted way that in some miraculous turn of events we actually get the climax we tadap after.

How does one differentiate listening to their head or following their heart...does foolishness = believing that, what you feel in your heart, really wins out over common sense, where your head rationalises every foolish thought you ever had...the war between my head and my heart has my brain scrambled and my soul tortured, how does one go about making the right choice




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Posted: 11 years ago
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hail these cvs!! they should commit suicide !!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Arishma...I am glad...so glad that I decided to quit...but unhappy that I saw the segment when Paro comes & how I wish I hadn't ...it broke my heart which was on it's way to healing ...Why was she looking sooo sad ? & your lines in bold are a PERFECT answer to that...damn these CVS...damn...damn...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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"Khat Gaya Sab Andar Tak Khat Gaya, Kuch Jal Raha Hai Kuch Beh Raha Hai"

I've been feeling like this ever since CVs killed off Paro. Ever since they brought in doppleganger Myrah. I feel like this everytime they use PaRud parallels. And today when they so crudely rewrote Rudra/Paro from Shiv/Parvati to Shiv/Sati!!

My Hope & Faith seems to be trampled on at every turn so now my only hope is that this continuing heartache will subside with the shows ending.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Rudra married Paro 3 times

The 1st time...He filled her maang by rubbing her blood into it

The 2nd time...he threw the sindoor into the air and it filled her maang

The 3rd time...he forcefully thread it through her maang during their hate marriage

Myrah can have him in this lifetime, can have the slow, shallow version of a man who walks in silence, who screams in silence, who is just a poor silent reflection of himself, who lives just to get through the day, lives just to ensure his promise to his Paro is kept fulfilled, that he looks after their love = Dhruv.

Rudra Pratap Ranawat, a pale comparison to Paros dark knight, the jallad, that's who she fell in love with, that's who we fell in love with, not this robot going through the motions.

Even where he denies his feelings for Myrah to Maithili, there was no depth, I felt no hunger, no passion, none of the things I feel when I replay Paro and Rudra vms, their love scenes, even the manifestation of her in his dream telling him to move on, that's all I can picture in my head, that last scene held so much promise, such a powerful moment, so beautiful.

But no matter how pretty Sanaya looked after in her blue sari, all I see is just that Goodbye from Paro, telling an empty Rudra to fill his life again, Myrah, a small gift from her to him...if they felt the TRP pressure with the original story not working, then why are they repeating the same script, same cast, same scenes again with their modern version..I just dont get that, because its most definitely not working now.

This comes to mind, in the end of Hum dil de chuke sanam, when Nandini tells Sameer sorry, she loves Vanraj...cut to Sameer is shown saying, "you can have in this lifetime, but the rest of her lifetimes she belongs to me"

...All I remember is this...shaadi ya vivah janam janam ka saath hai...Rudra made Paro his dharampatni 3 times...

...saat janam saat vachan

No, Rudra will never forget Paro, not when he tells her that their son is the epitome of her, not when Myrah has her face and represents the embodiment of her emotionally...



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: babyji

Arishma...I am glad...so glad that I decided to quit...but unhappy that I saw the segment when Paro comes & how I wish I hadn't ...it broke my heart which was on it's way to healing ...Why was she looking sooo sad ? & your lines in bold are a PERFECT answer to that...damn these CVS...damn...damn...


the irony of Paro asking Rudra to ask Myrah why she followed him to the haveli,
I was being ridiculous and I said this on my tumblr acc on Friday, it seems even more ridiculous now


Edited by arishma108 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: arishma108

Rudra married Paro 3 times

The 1st time...He filled her maang by rubbing her blood into it

The 2nd time...he threw the sindoor into the air and it filled her maang

The 3rd time...he forcefully thread it through her maang during their hate marriage

Myrah can have him in this lifetime, can have the slow, shallow version of a man who walks in silence, who screams in silence, who is just a poor silent reflection of himself, who lives just to get through the day, lives just to ensure his promise to his Paro is kept fulfilled, that he looks after their love = Dhruv.

Rudra Pratap Ranawat, a pale comparison to Paros dark knight, the jallad, that's who she fell in love with, that's who we fell in love with, not this robot going through the motions.

Even where he denies his feelings for Myrah to Maithili, there was no depth, I felt no hunger, no passion, none of the things I feel when I replay Paro and Rudra vms, their love scenes, even the manifestation of her in his dream telling him to move on, that's all I can picture in my head, that last scene held so much promise, such a powerful moment, so beautiful.

But no matter how pretty Sanaya looked after in her blue sari, all I see is just that Goodbye from Paro, telling an empty Rudra to fill his life again, Myrah, a small gift from her to him...if they felt the TRP pressure with the original story not working, then why are they repeating the same script, same cast, same scenes again with their modern version..I just dont get that, because its most definitely not working now.

This comes to mind, in the end of Hum dil de chuke sanam, when Nandini tells Sameer sorry, she loves Vanraj...cut to Sameer is shown saying, "you can have in this lifetime, but the rest of her lifetimes she belongs to me"

...All I remember is this...shaadi ya vivah janam janam ka saath hai...Rudra made Paro his dharampatni 3 times...

...saat janam saat vachan

No, Rudra will never forget Paro, not when he tells her that their son is the epitome of her, not when Myrah has her face and represents the embodiment of her emotionally...




No Rudra married Paro 4 times...you forgot the to mention the most important one-- when he ties the mangalsutra and promises ' Mein tu. Hamesha'... That was their real marriage...

Totally agree with you...Rudra can move on with Myrah but he will never love her with the passion n intensity with which he loved Paro...she can be his companion but not his soulmate...
Edited by SingaporeFan - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SingaporeFan


No Rudra married Paro 4 times...you forgot the to mention the most important one-- when he ties the mangalsutra and promises ' Mein tu. Hamesha'... That was their real marriage...

Totally agree with you...Rudra can move on with Myrah but he will never love her with the passion n intensity with which he loved Paro...she can be his companion but not his soulmate...




You both ROCK...yes...that's it...let Myrah have him in this janam but (1) Rudra will never love her to the point of madness (2) in all next janams he will only be Paro's ... Bas keh diya
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: babyji




You both ROCK...yes...that's it...let Myrah have him in this janam but (1) Rudra will never love her to the point of madness (2) in all next janams he will only be Paro's ... Bas keh diya



I am watching Myrah as Paro, superficially it is Sanaya playing both characters, but as I wait for these tiresome episodes drag itself out, I will just be watching Paro in her 4th shaadi ka jhoda, thats all, running to Rudra, if Paro has said she was the Sati of the story and Myrah is the Parvati, then that is how I will accept that Myrah is Paro, bas Paro has told us that Myrah is Paro
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Each of the sentiments here strikes a sincere chord. The CVS have really made a joke of rudra. He has not fulfilled any if the promises he made to paro: 1 main, tu humesh 2. Aakhri saans tak(maybe they meant parody ki aakhri saans take),3 main humesha tera intezaar karoonga. Dunno if I can ever get over this mess. Can't even enjoy the old episodes now-hurts too much. So many qns unanswered , so many if moments uncaptured. Such a shame, a really beautiful story with awesome characters n actors, just finished by the creators themselves. What a shame really. We are all so hurt...

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