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RoxyC

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Posted: 10 years ago

why jodha does'nt feel that shariff is trying to touch her?i think she should take SB with her everywhere for advise. really i am shocked😲 BB NEEDS A TIGHT SLAP FM EVERYBODY.😡 she cannot handle her disgusting husband and giving cold shoulder to jodha? ungrateful spoiled brat. BB and shariff deserves both each other. i hope jalal finds the truth and throw them out fm the palace. its a shame that BB is jalal's sister. before i was feeling bad for her ,but no more.😡

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Cleo12345

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: RoxyC
why jodha does'nt feel that shariff is trying to touch her?i think she should take SB with her everywhere for advise. really i am shocked😲 BB NEEDS A TIGHT SLAP FM EVERYBODY.😡 she cannot handle her disgusting husband and giving cold shoulder to jodha? ungrateful spoiled brat. BB and shariff deserves both each other. i hope jalal finds the truth and throw them out fm the palace. its a shame that BB is jalal's sister. before i was feeling bad for her ,but no more.😡

Before we start blamimg Jodha, Let us look at this situation practically.

A sicko jerk, husband's brother/ brother in law develops an unhealthy crush for a married woman...is this unheard of in 21st century? NO.

I consider this a form of abuse. Women go through stages of DENIAL( no, I am mistaken...he is family) ...CONFUSION ( am I being oversensitive? ...am I overreacting?)...ACCEPTANCE ( something is definately wrong...I was repulsed when he touched me... He is not as nice as i thought he was)...ANGER ( how dare he? ) FEAR( omg...what will happen if I bring it up? It is my word against his...will they believe me? my sis in law will be devastated...my husband will be devastated)...HELPLESSNESS (they believe me but why is no one is doing anything about it? ...oh yes...I get it...he will divorce my sis in law if they confront him).

What options does a woman in Jo's situation have?

1. Avoid the jerk... Temporary solution. Will only make the jerk more desperate.

2. Tell his wife...very few wives are able to overcome the jealousy factor and make an attempt to accept that their " perfect marriage " is not so perfect afterall. Blaming the husband is tough...emotional and family repercussions ( ego issues too)...easier to make this " other woman"

(who is a victim in this situation) look like the real culprit in this situation...she must have done something to entice him. He loves me.

3. Tell her husband...unlikely that he will be supportive right away. A big insecurity and jealousy factor here ...and it is diificult for him to suddenly accept that his brother/ brother in law is wrong . Even when husbands know that their wife is innocent, most don't hv the guts to go against the family and confront the jerk right away...they need a proof before they do that. Easier to take out their frustration on the wife in the meantime. Not sure what Jalal would do ...but let us admit that he hasn't been the most calm and composed husband when threatened by the presence of another man in his love life.

4. Tell mom in law...HB...no way...she loves Jo but is unpredictable. Wanted Jo to commit suicide during Jo's FP track.

5. Tell a family member they trust...SB? She is sane but lacks guts... Didn't utter a word in protest or get up from her seat to stop Jodha from drinking poison during Ben track. Can't count on her open support or expect her to go against the family.

6. Confront the jerk...he will get hostile and vengeful. Such men do their best to isolate the women by poisoning everyone's mind against her...as this makes her a more vulnerable and easier target.

7. Get a shamsheer n just put the jerk in his place( hell)... Not practical...he will become the victim and she will be an outcast.

It is easy for us to say that Jo should do this...or that...but think of it practically...most women in a situation like this go through the stages I hv mentioned above...Jo too will go through all these stages.

It is sad to see Jo being questioned here...shouldn't we be making posts on how to expose jerkuddin and his selfish wife? I would love to read the opinions of other married women on this subject.

I never feel sorry for women like BB...never did...she CHOOSES to be a victim. I dont hv a problem with that as long as she doesnt subject innocent people to unnecessary torture just because her idea of staying married is more important than the happiness of people around her.

Edited by Cleo12345 - 10 years ago

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anshita priyadarshni

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Posted: 10 years ago

Let s make a post how jalal shuld react with sharif after knowing abt his crush with jo what say

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bokul

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Posted: 10 years ago

for jodha the only man having SKLL is jalal

rest khyber shariff all are good people

saare duniye ek taraf aur jalal doosri taraf

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sonamrai

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Posted: 10 years ago

as per jo all people like khy sharif are good and they are having a right of forgiveness but jallu do bit wrong he is not having any right to forgiveness

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susan

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Posted: 10 years ago

i guess jodha feel it from yesterday episode when shariffu give baby to jodha jodha looking shariffu weird type

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AKT.JA

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: sonamrai
SKLL means?

Stree Ke Liye Lalsa = desire / lust for a woman

This phrase is famous among JA fans as Jo had accused Jallu of this character flaw during their early phase. :)

Edited by AKT.JA - 10 years ago

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bokul

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: sonamrai

SKLL means?

stree ke liye lalsa

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RoxyC

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Posted: 10 years ago

let me clear this first. i am a fan of jodhaakbar too. but that does'nt mean i have no right to critize. nobody is perfect. when a guy touch you, and the way look at you, its very clear what his intentions are. this is not the first time. the problem is whoever she trust and try to do favour turning out to be a rotten person. her judgements are not always right.😲

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MaddyO

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: RoxyC
let me clear this first. i am a fan of jodhaakbar too. but that does'nt mean i have no right to critize. nobody is perfect. when a guy touch you, and the way look at you, its very clear what his intentions are. this is not the first time. the problem is whoever she trust and try to do favour turning out to be a rotten person. her judgements are not always right.😲

For Jodha, SD means just BB's husband. Jodha would never in her dreams also imagine that anybody can have such thoughts about her when she is married and pregnant. Jodha ONLY thinks about Jalal all the time. Why would she even think about SD?!
SD had told her about Ben that is the only reason she even talks with him.

Obviously CVs are showing Jodha go to meet BB only cos this is SD's truth out track.
Jodha obviously does not want to talk with SD also. She left immediately when SD came in. Jodha did not feel comfortable but she might be thinking when handing over the baby it was unintentional.
Only BB knows the truth and instead of confronting her pathetic husband she is giving dirty looks to Jodha!

I want Jalal to find out SD truth and then thrash him and threaten to kill him. Obviously BB will beg Jalal to spare SD's life.

About judgement I agree with you. Jodha thinks everybody is good hearted. Jodha thinks Ruk is nice too! Jodha doesn't see Ruk's reality also.

BTW even Jalal can be faulted for wrong judgement in getting BB married to SD!

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