so does it mean? - Page 2

I have been watching this serial since the beginning and I feel the same as you that Raman has gone so far away from Shagun and she is nothing but an object of hatred. The only thread that holds him to her is Aditya. If not for Adi, he would not hesitate to throw her in jail. My thought process is that Shagun has filled Adi's mind with bitterness and hatred against Raman and if Shagun goes to jail then Adi will be left alone no where to go. Raman could take him but Adi would rather stay alone than go with Raman plus Raman claiming custody would also be hard since Shagun has branded him as a child abuser in the court and proved him the same.

He had no right to scream at Ruhi today but Ishita already voiced our opinion by telling him that and asking him not to show his frustration over something else on Ruhi. He has accepted Ishita as his wife and his guilt of keeping this secret from her is eating him alive. If he had no respect or feelings for her he wouldn't be telling Shagun today that he cannot hide this from Ishita anymore because she is his wife and she deserves to know. He also said that Ishita is very matured and she will understand. He has so much respect for Ishita and all his tears is for her, knowing that she trusts him with all her heart and he is breaking it little by little by not telling her the truth. I loved the fact that he thinks so high of Ishita. What I did not like was that he had to let Shagun know of his intention to tell Ishita the whole truth. However, from looking at Raman's perspective he was just hoping that Shagun would have the same level of understanding as him when he offered her support after knowing that she had done the accident. He was pleading with her to understand what he is going through and his mental anguish and guilt of hiding the truth from Ishita. This is where he went wrong expecting Shagun to show some concern for the situation he is in. He should know better to expect that self centered woman to show some or any empathy.

I felt bad for both Ishita and Raman since they have come so far from the hatred that they had for each other and are slowly getting to know each other. They can understand each other's pain and turmoil even before one expresses it to the other. It's just sad to see that wicked Shagun's plotting would make them grow apart yet again. This is just a trying time for them and I think after the truth gets revealed Raman should learn to trust Ishita more than he gives credit for her and should not hide anything from her. He knows that she is a better mother than Shagun and would never harm Adi by separating Shagun from him, so there was no need to give into Shagun's words and hide the truth from her. He will learn by making his own mistakes and I think their bond will grow stronger. I have no complaints of what has been shown so far.