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Muktchand

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Posted: 11 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: krystal_watz
Yeah, but still it hurts to be reminded of it so rudely.

agree

but I think Amol knew this lady is nasty always shout...I don't think it hurt him that much as she is new in home. As I said he emotionally connects with AnSh more so if one of them would say it more hurting than anyone else.

Anandi Shiv take him to BH after this incident they talk to him...then meeting his Badi Nani...he was all fine happy. 😛

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Posted: 11 years ago

#72

His happiness won't last if he keeps hearing similar stuff over and over. Something needs to be done fast. Anandi should keep Amol away from Bua's presence.

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Muktchand

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Posted: 11 years ago

#73

Originally posted by: krystal_watz
His happiness won't last if he keeps hearing similar stuff over and over. Something needs to be done fast. Anandi should keep Amol away from Bua's presence.

of course for that we have to see what happen next 😆

how this lady go far...like great Mahabharat story Shishupal Krishna waiting for his 100th sin 😆

I think day she cross all limits its just beginning...Pittal Pallu then A's past Amol being adopted all cycle thing related tradition

still she is unaware of many past of KB people...😆 Sanchi Ira Meenu Shiv 😆

all will come she will react then finally Dadu will take action 😆

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aparnauma

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Posted: 11 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: krystal_watz
His happiness won't last if he keeps hearing similar stuff over and over. Something needs to be done fast. Anandi should keep Amol away from Bua's presence.

They have already told him to stay away from her.By making him apologise theya re mending bridges from their side and now it is her turn to respond.

But the thing is today it is DB tomorrow it will be someone else.

So keeping him away from offending people won't make sense they can't be there to protect him every time they are teaching him to handle her.

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SPuja

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Posted: 11 years ago

#75

Keeping Amol away from abusers/possible abusers is not practically possible. However, they could have shown the parents informing him not to take any abuse lying down, that nobody has a right to mistreat you, that it is OK to inform such things to parents/grandparents, that he should shout/draw attention of others if he cannot get away from the abuser etc. Nothing like this happened - it is similar to Sanchi molestation - instead of blaming her dress, they could have pointed out her mistakes and her options in the situation - but they ended it with someone coming and saving her.

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Awfulggt

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Posted: 11 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Does it make difference to Anandi and Shiv whether DB considers her son as an outsider or as her own?

She addressed the issue then and there when she caught DB misbehaving with her son she didn't hesitate even for a minute - She didn't care whether she is a family elder or a stranger.
Then she tried to counter DB in front of the family which was standing there and watching tamasha.

This lady will be careful from now on because she now knows Anandi and Shiv are aware and they will be more watchful about their son and if he comes to any harm she will be the first suspect on their list.

They also warned their son to stay away from the lady in a way that did not scare him.

Then the next step to tackle is why is this lady behaving this way and what are the reasons for her behaviour?By trying to understand that lady she is only going to reach for the root of the problem.

Yes it does make a difference. They should be able to tell her to never call Amol a stranger. Obviously because he is not a stranger and that is a wrong statement given by DB. Doing all research about DB's intentions is fine. But asking the abused child to say sorry to his abuser is not a sign of good parenting. Glad she is taking some time to go for her biological child😳. She needs to take time till her mindset changes.

I also understand that this mindset will be encouraged in BV. She will be applauded for turning DB into a new leaf even though it is at the cost of Amol's happiness. Not many expectations from this serial anymore , anyway..

P.S : Sorry for the typos in my previous comment. Too late to change...so not correcting..

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hisusmita

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Posted: 11 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: aparnauma

They have already told him to stay away from her.By making him apologise theya re mending bridges from their side and now it is her turn to respond.

But the thing is today it is DB tomorrow it will be someone else.

So keeping him away from offending people won't make sense they can't be there to protect him every time they are teaching him to handle her.

yes, the same way in school Anandi stood and watched how Amol handle his friends who are bullying him after she told him how to handle any critical situation by facing the situation

You have to be there, learn to face the consequences, escaping from everything will not help in life.

Same thing she did in her life , same thing Shiv said to Jagya when he ran away to Laxmigunj village from his family as he cant see ANSH together. They believe in it

Edited by hisusmita - 11 years ago

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