Originally posted by: libsrocks
Her methods will never work in real life...no one is as dumb as Shekhars and Singhs...people know everything about right and wrong but it's their own attitude that they ignore the right and go for wrong so Anandi's lectures will barely work on them
I am not saying that being implusive and untolerant towards wrong things is good thing...everyone has to make adjustments but Anandi literally sees the wrong things and choose to ignore...there is lot's of difference between an animal and human like DB...people try to adjust better with animals because they know that animals are more easily influenced with the bad things and trauma of their life...DB hasn't compltely lost her mind that she will forget the ethics i.e not to interfere in other people's household...people kick out animals also if their violent behabiours harms the children but here Anandi asks Amol to keep on trying to behave nice with DB...as a mother she should ignore DB and keep a close eye on her actions near her child...in reality DB's continous absuses can cause problems in Amol's mental growth but BV has given a perfect child to perfect couple 😡
How do you know that they don't work???
Every relationship in life requires patience and perseverence to make it work.
Good relationships don't happen just like that.
They have to be worked upon.
Anandi worked on every relationship of her life without compromising on her values
Anandi - DS Is DS dumb? She was a very smart powerful woman who made her life with her own abilities.
But somewhere along the way she became arrogant and thought she knew better than anyone else and nobody was strong enough to stand up to her Even Bhairon would give up after sometime
Little Anandi came and started questioning Dsa and did she like that?No. But what changed DS?
Obviously all the things that happened in her family like Suguna becoming a widow and pregnant and Gehna rebelling and most importantly the hardest blow she got from her Ladesar Jagya rebelling against her.They all rebelled against her traditional values because they were affected by them this is what the little girl was trying to tell her all the time only when she realised that she had been wrong and Anandi had been right did she start trusting Anandi.
Anandi has always been the same with DS respectful never compromising on her beliefs but still obliging her because she wanted to make her happy and that is the basis for the strong relationship between Anandi and Dadisa.
Samething with Shekhars too - they are all so called modern gave lot of freedom to Sanchi without teaching her responsibilities she had been questioning them but when did they listen to her? Only after they realised what Sanchi did with her freedom.All the while she has been respectful to them caring for them and their well being specially Ira.That's the reason why they started respecting her and valuing her
Sanchi also the same thing happened
Sje worked on those relationships patiently and ultimately they realised her value and it is mutual thing.Today Shekhars and DSa stand up for her because they value her.
As for DB isn't she better than Dsa???
With one rose she melted And if one does that constantly won't she melt and start seeing Anandi's POV???
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As for practicality What is practical according to you??? Shout and scream at DB and walk out of the family home????
For the sake of DB does she have to cut off ties with Shekhars and walk out?
She wants to be with Shekhars and DB happens to be one of them if one has to live under the same roof one has to make adjustments and at the same time tell them that they don't see the issue the same way as them.
That's what she is doing and Teaching Amol to do.
They made clear to her they will not tolerate DB's behaviour to Amol and at the same time they gave her an assurance that Amol will not do anything to offend her and if she has problem she better tell them and not handle Amol on her own.
There are three ways of doing any given thing the idealistic if not impossible way then rash impulsive way without caring for the consequences and there is a middle path.Middle path is the toughest route and Anandi choses middle path practical from her perspective
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