Shaurya raping who is to blame?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Who is to blame ?
shaurya
his parents
his friends
I'm sure as the story progresses there will be more people to blame that Durga will seek revenge from
the society that doesnt allow women to speak up and looks negatively on the woman that is raped rather than just the rapist?

Shaurya's mother/father and friends are just as bad as him


GANG rape or not I'm not sure but shaurya was definitely the main one in raping Payal. However, knowingly being part of a crime is just as bad as committing it.

His friends after the rape case ended they didnt just stop there want ridiculous bets they make get this girl get that girl 🤢
they can do much better with their money and time help with the business and do social work but instead they go the wrong path but I think it is because of parents they get lazy and take money for granted

So who is to blame:

  • shaurya is to blame - the main culprit
  • his parents for supporting him esp sakshi for covering up his every mistake and buying it
  • and his friends too for making such cheap bets and endorsing such a heinous thing as rape
  • society/ government

how on earth do none of these people know the difference between right and wrong completely money blinded people but society makes their mentality so much worse
  • no punishment/ dragged or closed rape cases
  • wrong outlook on rape and woman being raped inviting it

Shaurya doesnt even deserve a second chance.. don't know how involved his friends were to say about them but these cheap bets are inexcusable

So in your opinion who is to blame?

Shaurya's character
As well as everyone's mentality
shaurya needs better friends
his parents needed to at least punish him by internal means from the start even if he wasn't sent to jail
and we need a better society where people's outlook on the criminal is different. the culprit is solely the rapist and people/society that supports him

On a side note I hope this show plays at least a small part in decreasing rape in India and doesn't glorify rape or rapists
This show needs to have one simple but effective ending- punishment for Shaurya
Edited by -Priya- - 11 years ago


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi. Nice post. Here in shaurya's case everyone are to be blamed. After the rape case atleast he should have stopped, but no. He continued. On top of that his friends also made bets to increase his mistakes. Now to top all his mom is planning to get him married. Don't know who is the poor girl who will fall in this trap. How on earth could Sakshi decide that getting shaurya married. Anyways he will continue to do this. What difference did Rajnath make by talking with shaurya? He told him to be diplomatic. What does that mean? Is he asking shaurya to listen or go against Sakshi. Sakshi on the other hand scolds Akash for not getting details of actions of Durga. Why is she blaming Durga for the change in her son when her husband is sleeping with her best friend. This is a good serial at this point of time where rapes are increasing day by day. The serial should give a good message that rapists should not be forgiven. Lastly the commissioner deserved what he got.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: srividyahv

Hi. Nice post. Here in shaurya's case everyone are to be blamed. After the rape case atleast he should have stopped, but no. He continued. On top of that his friends also made bets to increase his mistakes. Now to top all his mom is planning to get him married. Don't know who is the poor girl who will fall in this trap. How on earth could Sakshi decide that getting shaurya married. Anyways he will continue to do this. What difference did Rajnath make by talking with shaurya? He told him to be diplomatic. What does that mean? Is he asking shaurya to listen or go against Sakshi. Sakshi on the other hand scolds Akash for not getting details of actions of Durga. Why is she blaming Durga for the change in her son when her husband is sleeping with her best friend. This is a good serial at this point of time where rapes are increasing day by day. The serial should give a good message that rapists should not be forgiven. Lastly the commissioner deserved what he got.

Yes I completely agree with you he shouldn't be forgiven if he is forgiven then I feel this show will be without meaning. if Shaurya is shown to be a hero at the end or Durga falls in love with him and lets her love be stronger than her desire for revenge then I feel this show will give the wrong message to the audience.
The commissioner deserved but not his daughter

The story should have one ending- punishment for Shaurya. better if punishment is not death so he suffers like Payal did
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Many are to be blamed that Shaurya got away from the punishment he deserved.

His parents for sure because they with their money and power saved him from imprisonment.

The judicial system that was bought so easily by Goenka's money and had the evidence destroyed.

As the saying goes ... "Birds of a Feather ...Stay together"... his friends and the company that Shaurya hangs around with are just like him.

They revel in playing games and betting on who can Bed with which girl for Sport.

The Spawn of the Rich and Famous have this belief that being born with a Silver Spoon in their mouth entitles them to run roughshod over anybody they like.

Mother's who think their Sons are their pride and can do no wrong and turn a blind eye to their wrong doings by simply excusing them by saying..."Boys will be Boys"

And of course the Society on the whole where men are not taught to respect women
and always blame the women first and make excuses for obnoxious behaviour of men which in turn makes them believe they can do anything just because they are MEN.

This show will be the first if they show Durga gets her justice and people like Shaurya and the Goenka's gets what is coming to them for thinking that being Rich and Powerful is enough to get away with Rape and Murder.

People like Shaurya have to be taught a lesson for their disgusting and depraved thinking that women are born to be their Toys and that they can play with and then Discard them without a second thought and with no consequences for their abominable behaviour.




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Everything is to blame!
- Society looking down upon women, looking at them as sex objects and blaming them no matter what (boys only make mistakes, whereas girls put fake charges on innocent boys pr seduce them).

- Unbridled power in hands of rich people. They automatically get respect, are thought to be cultured and sophisticated. Either nobody believes they are wrong. Or they can shut up anyone simply by paying mooh maangi rakam in bribes.

- Parents are most at fault in case of Shaurya and his lame friends. They never discipline their kids, never teach them difference between right or wrong, cover up their blunders. Rajnath slimebag was lecturing Shaurya for stupidity and lack of tact in handling his affairs and wanted him to learn how to eat meat without getting bone stuck in his throat!😲 He did not ask him to be responsible and adhere to values or laws!
His parents are bad role models too. They themselves are manipulating, cheating on their spouses, getting people thrown/maimed/killed and sleeping around. What will they teach their kids?

- Corruption is a disease. Anyone who can cough up money can control anything from local administrative bodies to judiciary.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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every one n everything involved here in shaurya case including shaurya except d genuine victim n ppl related to victim who supported d victim n supporting n fought n fighting for justice.
Edited by Savz_Startling - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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A father who supports the son in his wrong doing, a mother who is too busy looking good and staying number one instead of guiding her son in the right direction, friends who are more enemies than friends.

Who is not to blame?

Shaurya's father who should guide him and make him see he is doing wrong doesn't scold him for the wrong doing but instead tells the son to be careful and not get caught. What to expect from a man who himself is having an affair with his wife's best friend.

Shaurya's mother is too busy blaming Durga, a girl who just entered their lives mere days ago, instead of looking at herself for her the way her son behaved with her.

So I would blame the parents first who reinforced wrong behavior instead of punishing him for the wrong behavior.

If they had punished him for the first mistake he ever made instead of overlooking it they wouldn't be in the place they are at.

In the end if the parent's are too busy doing the wrong thing how is the child going to learn any good things from those parents, top that off with rich, useless friends and you have a person like Shaurya who will never feel remorse of his wrong doing, nor will he stop the behavior because he knows his parent's will bail him out every time.


Edited by ll-Shilpa-ll - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It is just funny how Sakshi doea not think of their family's kaali kartoot but calls Durga a kaala saaya instead!🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think it is obvious - for the RAPE - Shaurya and Shaurya alone is to blame. There can be no discussion about the fact or wishing away the fact just because the rapist happens to be a chocolate faced, light-eyed guy. A rapist is a rapist. Let's not try to deflect the issue and blame all and sundry in order to give the hero a clean-shit or an escape route.

What happened subsequently and in the cover-up there are other people involved and equally guilty. Not just in their individual acts of crime but also in the act of rape as "Accessory to Crime, after the fact".

So far the tally of crimes reads as:
1 count of gangrape - guilty Shaurya and friends as well as the Goenkas and Commissioner as accessories to crime.

Tampering of Evidence - guilty Goenkas and Commissioner

Intimidation of witnesses, Threatening to cause bodily harm, Injuring, Attempt to Murder (2 counts Nitya and Bagchi), Kidnap, 2nd Degree Manslaughter (2 counts - by assissting in suicide of Nitya's parents), Harassment to such an extent that it cause Insanity - guilty Sakshi Goenka and Shaurya; accessory to crime Commissioner


PS: Problem lies as a whole with Indian Society. Women feel so proud of having given birth to a son that they feel that their responsibility is over. People spend more time training their dogs than their sons. Most often in these kind of homes you would find wonderfully trained dogs who go to dog shows etc. and insanely uncouth sons, who are no better than stray dogs.
Edited by -Purva- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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everybody is to be blame here bt mainly shaurya itself kyun ki kisi ka acha ya bura bana usi ke haath mein hota hai lekin uski parents uski galatiyon keliye use punish karte toh essa kuch bhi nahi hota,abt his frnds thy are worst frnds one could ever have agar shaurya ko ye pata hai toh he must have leave tis frndshp bt no tat means it is more of shauryas fault tan his frnds abt t govt wat should i say we all knew how it is

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