Ishaana mahaan sacrificing ? - Page 3

Originally posted by: londonkababu

Hey Guys,

The snobbish attitude of the Bharadwaj family in Delhi was not acceptable to us viewers.

We humans are social animals and do not like change or anything that is too different, However, the snobs never gave Laajo a chance to settle, they thought that her village ways were an embarrassment to them, and never appreciated Laajo, and her good qualities.

When Indians first arrived here in the UK in the early 1950's there was an outcry among many of the English people, and every Indian family will tell you of racial abuse received. Yet, today in 2014, the Indian community is the most educated, and the wealthiest and in all top professions, in fact our national health system would come come to a halt if Indian Doctors and nurses left.

The point I am making is that Laajo needed to settle and be made welcome, and she would have made an improvement in the Bharadwaj family, like sugar in cup of milk.

Over to you guys, have a nice day.

Originally posted by: Carina

Hello Swapna, 😊

I do understand your point of view, Nikil's made so many mistakes.. I felt like banging my head on a wall whenever he was being foolish😔

Ha ha then always u have to bang ur head yaar why because he is always foolish
i wonder when he was clever ?🤣

But you know Swapna, some people are strong minded and some... Well... They are weak.

I agree

NIk's one of them, his childhood trauma and Barkha's indifference destroyed every ounce of confidence that he may have possessed

He may have possessed . ok but those reasons are not good enough
to explain his weak character yaar sorry in my view .


. But he found back that confidence with Laajo, that's why he felt for her. Laajo fights life's vagaries @ every step, never lettiing them take over.

Found back the confidence he dos n't have it in the first place . But i agree laajo
affected him in some ways . 😊

I am really convinced that Laajo has always come first in his life after he met her. That's why he married her .

I completly disagree here . For marriage reasons were different yaar .


and could not dump her @ Sonbarsa when his mom asked him to. Even after that horrible promise she made about forgiving him for his brother's death.

(Barkha is a horrible woman)

He came back home with Laajo, it was never about his or her family, but always about her.

Here i slightly agree not because he preferred laajo over anyone but because
he shown some human values here and surely dont want laajo to suffer . I agree
he has no intension to humiliate laajo . But its not that he prefered laajo over
anyone . There is a lot of difference .

Here carina i see in different u saying that its always about her . But iam saying
because his heart and mind didnt accept to leave laajo like that in sonbarsa there
because he is a good hearted person and dont want any person to suffer because of
his actions .

Its not about who he prefereed family or laajo .Its about the goodness of the
person . He felt responsible in that situation he thought that its not fair to leave
laajo like that .

He dont have decisive power that we all know he cant leave laajo he
cant take that decision . Laajo left him and ishaana left him but he he has he
ever taken any decision by himself until now ? No right there also same he by
himself could n't leave laajo . Hope iam making sense here .

I strongly beleive he never given any such importance to laajo until nowadays . Its because of circumsatnces and situations and due to his inability of taking decisions
and also basically he is not a type of person who hurts others.thats' y he could n't
leave her .

Do you imagine what those villagers would have done to her if he had not married her?

(horrible people)🤢 Even her parents let her down @ that time. Something that really shocked me, was her mom trying to marry her off to an old man. She even said something like " Laajo should have been left in that river" ( I think i got that right during that episode)

Nikhil married her to save her from a fate worst than death itself. That's true love for me❤️

Oh no i wont agree laajo's would have been better life than current situation in
life . Carina a girl whose marriage cancelled dure to some reasons on the marraige
day its different i agree people would have insulted and humiliated her family but
its not that serious .

Marraige cancellation its not all comapred to divorce . A girl whose marriage hot
cancelled there all most 100% chances that she might get another life . Its not a big
problem yes even in that village sonbarsa . But now lifelong to live as divorcee
marriage not happening is another thing , after marriage husband leaving his wife is completly another thing carina hope u understand .

But for a divorcee woman its a complete different thing it effects the whole life
people can forget if the marraige cancelled with time or when another one happens
even girl also its a problem i agree but not at all canbe compraed with divorce .
Divorcee life is more horrible to woman .

He was already in love with her the first time he saw her, just watch the first two episodes and you will see it.

I saw the episodes he was attracted to her he is definetely not in love its not at all
love because she is completly different from his circle he attracted to her . Even i think
he is not even attracted he just admired her beauty . Is that called love ?
No not at all .

Nikhil needed to have strong people around him, instead he got that family of his and a shallow girl friend. Laajo showed him another facet of life, and that's what making him stronger day by day.

I agree laajo's entry in his life has chaged his perception to some extent .

Have you watched today's epi? His father was again a disappointment...He was no support to him, trying to make him change his mind. Indar does not want any disruption in his life, kind of selfish if you want my opinion.🤢

yeah i was feeling like really is he nikhil's father ? So disgusting the way he talked
his body language .👎🏼 I agree

I really love tthis scene, Nik's nailed it with some well deserved words... He said " Laajo used to be alone, but not anymore, I'm @ her side now"

Meaning " You people mistreated her before, try it once more and you will have to deal with me"

That was fantastic, really loved it 👏

yeah i too loved it . But in that scene i feel he lacks somewhere . Those dialogues
should have said more powerfully with much much confidence . But its ok its nikhil
iam talking about .

I think everyone should be given a second chance in life. Niks needs that chance to redeem himself. We all feel for Laajo, that's why we want him to suffer for his behaviour, but they do belong together.

You will maybe come to forgive him 😆😆

Hmm i dont know not everyone it depends on the mistakes they committed . Some
mistakes and some persons wont deserve second chance .

As long as nikhil is concerned i dont know i mean if it is real life
iam not that confident that he deseves second chance may be or may not ha ha
just confused like nilhil .😊

Sorry for long post, but Nik's an interesting character to study and discuss 😊

Sorry for my long long long post . Yes Nikhil's character is interesting to discuss
as noone knows how he behaves with his ever confusing and weak mentality .🤣

Originally posted by: Carina

Thanks for agreeing with me DI😛

We might convince Swapna before long 😆😆

As for Nikil's father, i didn't like him saying that Laajo will never fit in their society. That makes him a poor character in my opinion, just like his crazy wife. I mean WTH? People do change, they are able to adapt themselves to their environment. Laajo Is very smart and he knows it, if well guided, she can mingle with that snobbish crowd and still keep her values.

I hope to see him supporting Nik's when he goes to Sonbarsa. 😲

Originally posted by: sami01

I agree about that jatinder,we have adapted to foreign countries so what is city, here too in Canada I see girls from villages, within 6 months they r so well adjusted, there are social programs run by govt. to help people integrate. Neither Nikhil nor his family bothered to sit with Laajo and discuss what sort of clothes she would wear, All her saris were pretty nice(we know her old in-laws had made them buy expensive banarsi saris for dowry) they could have told her to put sari with straight pallu etc,,instead they went on mission to insult her. Even in party making fun of Laajo not drinking, well I don't drink..I refuse it in any party, it is simple...doesn't make me backward, it is way I was raised...so WHAT basically they r stupid idiots who need to wake up, and when Laajo finally becomes what we think she will ,all these people will have popping eyes...I find this soap extremely wonderful for showing positivity of life, how people from any background can be successful with hard work and determination👏👏👏

Originally posted by: ziks

carina go through my reply yaar . Written such a rong reply .
waiting for ur views again on this 😊