Ishaana mahaan sacrificing ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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This is extremly disappointing . She comes to nikhil and says to him to go to
laajo . Then he will go as laready he told that he wnt go to laajo without ishaana
acceptance permission .

So Nikhil Bharadwaj Goes to laajo when ishaana tells him rather forces him
to go . šŸ‘ŽšŸ¼ .Again he giving preference to ishaana and her words and her
opinions . If Ishaana asks him not to go and marry her he will do in seconds .

Ok This is what love is nikhil i mean u only said ur love is true even though u
realised late ?

U feel u love laajo and u dont even value it u will keep ur valuable love
on laajo at the feet of ur girl friend and u will look at her and say do whatever
u want to do with my love I wont say anything ? I will do wahtever u says ?
Like really he loves laajo ? Iam sorry to say I dont think so this is not called
love .

Always we will think that u came to laajo only because ishaana told u
to go . Otherwise u would nt have come and claim her love . So this
is the way u respect and value ur love and u call it as true love
and defending ur so called behaviour under guilt towards ishaana ?šŸ˜•

Sorry if u cant respect ur own love and stand up for it then nobody will
respect it and see it or feel it as love Mr Nikhil . Dont blame us for not
trusting u or ur love on laajo .

So finally Ishaana Mahaan she given away nikhil to laajo then only
nikhil will come to laajo and laajo will get nikhil . Iam sorry iam not
liking this . šŸ‘ŽšŸ¼ I feel pain .

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I will reply tomorrow reserved swapna, I have to finish my notes from last 3 days, then I have to go for a meeting early ,so friends I would see everyone tomorrow hoping to see a good episode, I want barkha exposed,thoda bahut kum se kum...am really hoping for that ,may be Cvs will keep it for later, as they believe in one dhamaka at a time...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Elloo Ziks😊
I didn't like precap either... Ishaana will tell him to go to Laajo and that's not what viewers want to see.

But if we want to find some excuses for Nik's behaviour, we can explain his weakness towards Ishaana by the fact that he had a crappy childhood. She has always been the one he turned to, Bharka being a sadistic mother. She tortured him with the death of his brother, making him responsible for what he was not. She's always playing that tune whenever she wants to hurt him. So Nikil grew up completely insecured, no one to share his life with, except Ishaana.
That kids scene was a hint.. It was there to show that she has always forgiven him and that's what she is going to do once again...
I guess CV's didn't want to paint her blackšŸ˜†

As for Nikhil, he does not want to hurt her and is ready to sacrifice himself to make her happy. Complete rubbish for sure It's something that comes from their childhood, and their long time friendship.

But today's episode did not show a versatile Nik's. We saw someone defending his wife and not afraid to shout out his love to the whole world. If you take all these facts into consideration, we can assume that even if Ishaana ask him once again to marry her, he will surely try to find a way out. Laajo has always come first... The wedding, her sickness...
When it comes to her, he has always turned his back to everyone, never even caring if the world comes crashing down. The fact is that whenever he feels that he might lose her, he just comes out of his confusing mode in a jolt. That's true love no?
The truth is that has never intended to let her go. But while she was @ his house, he took her for granted, thinking she would always remain in that guest room.. Meaning ( his life) But the day she dumped him, everything changed, bringing forth his love for Laajo, which he refused to acknowledge.

That does not mean that i want Laajo to forgive him all his misdeeds and his lack of consideration. He should make to suffer a little before she accepts to take him back.
You should try to forgive Babua ji. Think about how Saraswati is going to make him suffer...🤣🤣


Edited by Carina - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Carina

Elloo Ziks😊

I didn't like precap either... Ishaana will tell him to go to Laajo and that's not what viewers want to see.

But if we want to find some excuses for Nik's behaviour, we can explain his weakness towards Ishaana by the fact that he had a crappy childhood. She has always been the one he turned to, Bharka being a sadistic mother. She tortured him with the death of his brother, making him responsible for what he was not. She's always playing that tune whenever she wants to hurt him. So Nikil grew up completely insecured, no one to share his life with, except Ishaana.
That kids scene was a hint.. It was there to show that she has always forgiven him and that's what she is going to do once again...
I guess CV's didn't want to paint her blackšŸ˜†

As for Nikhil, he does not want to hurt her and is ready to sacrifice himself to make her happy. Complete rubbish for sure It's something that comes from their childhood, and their long time friendship.

But today's episode did not show a versatile Nik's. We saw someone defending his wife and not afraid to shout out his love to the whole world. If you take all these facts into consideration, we can assume that even if Ishaana ask him once again to marry her, he will surely try to find a way out. Laajo has always come first... The wedding, her sickness...
When it comes to her, he has always turned his back to everyone, never even caring if the world comes crashing down. The fact is that whenever he feels that he might lose her, he just comes out of his confusing mode in a jolt. That's true love no?
The truth is that has never intended to let her go. But while she was @ his house, he took her for granted, thinking she would always remain in that guest room.. Meaning ( his life) But the day she dumped him, everything changed, bringing forth his love for Laajo, which he refused to acknowledge.

That does not mean that i want Laajo to forgive him all his misdeeds and his lack of consideration. He should make to suffer a little before she accepts to take him back.
You should try to forgive Babua ji. Think about how Saraswati is going to make him suffer...🤣🤣


Ghosh , Shania you are right on spot, I also felt this , I think there is some telepathy between us. How come we think on same lines?šŸ˜‰ Guess we are the evil people ...Ha ha ha..šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜† By the way Ishana is not painted black but she is grey!!!!šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜† Well I agree that Nikhil's behavior owes to his turbulent , lonely childhood . His only friend was Ishana so may be he gave her importance above everyone and everything. Nikhil's life is so tangled and latched on to Ishana that he wants to let go of her but cannot do so. 😲 . The reason from my POV, for Nikhil falling in love with Laajo was that, He was lonely though he had Ishana. Ishana knew about his childhood guilt but never tried pull him out of it, or try to bridge his feelings with Barkha. She only hogged the importance given to her and took Nikhil's feelings for granted.So Nikhil's heart was very much empty as there was no humane touch of Love. Laajo changed the equation!!šŸ˜†šŸ˜† So all the confusion and the mess!!! Gustakh Dil!!!!šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜† As for the confusing mode , ya it was too confusing !!!šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜† At last he stood up for his Laajo. So true You start to know the importance of people you value more when they leave you. Waiting for the transition from guestroom to his room minus Ishana Nikhil will have a tough time in Sonbarsa." Usko toh apne ghutne ragadne padenge"šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜† Laajo may show some attitude and he deserves it. I want to him to plead and plead...!!!😈 I think he may have to spend some time beside Parbati's and Jamuniya's side !!!šŸ˜†
Laajo's mom wont agree for anything less than that...šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜† I think Nikhil has already started to dream about fighting it out with Saraswati and Parbati!!!ROFL
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Morning Varshi😊
Happy that we think on same lines.šŸ˜‰
But you wouldn't be very happy if i tell you that only freaking evil people can do that 🤣🤣
We can read other people's minds and see what they hide in their hearts😈

Grey suits Ishaana lol, I'm starting to feel sorry for her. I think it comes from the kiddos scene.

Coming to Nikil, he's a very nice guy who is completely lost, Laajo is the only one who can save him from himself. But Saraswati will not let him go unpunished, and as you said , he'll be on his knees ( i like that) šŸ˜†šŸ˜†

Now we wouldn't want him to squat little Jamuniya's place huh? Saraswati will surely tie him @ Paaarbati's side🤣🤣

I'm sure Swapna will forgive him after thatšŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†
Edited by Carina - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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actually here I too go with Shania and arsha's views. Nk's first priority has always been Laajo in any major event, yes it may seem he is seeking permission but he is actually giving his intent, that this is my heart's desire now you choose what we should do.
I feel his confession was amazing, it had a huge depth to it, it gave us glimpse of his struggles, finally he has acknowledged his heart used to tell him from long time ago but he never listened, we have seen awareness between the two, it is just that it is serial and they had to milk it to make story last for long time.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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In yesterday's childhood scenes too, Ishana was making Nikhil accept her terms, and that's how it's been all along. Ishana has always been the decision maker until now. Nikhil needs to hear the truth and then make a decision for himself, otherwise he will always feel that it was Ishana's grand gesture of sacrifice that lead him to seek out Lajjo once again.
Nik does not need Ishana's charity, I do hope that the production house does not upset our collective apple cart of expectations.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Carina

Morning Varshi😊

Happy that we think on same lines.šŸ˜‰
But you wouldn't be very happy if i tell you that only freaking evil people can do that 🤣🤣
We can read other people's minds and see what they hide in their hearts😈

Grey suits Ishaana lol, I'm starting to feel sorry for her. I think it comes from the kiddos scene.

Coming to Nikil, he's a very nice guy who is completely lost, Laajo is the only one who can save him from himself. But Saraswati will not let him go unpunished, and as you said , he'll be on his knees ( i like that) šŸ˜†šŸ˜†

Now we wouldn't want him to squat little Jamuniya's place huh? Saraswati will surely tie him @ Paaarbati's side🤣🤣

I'm sure Swapna will forgive him after thatšŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†

Shania, If for speaking our mind and unsettling others mind ... we become freaking evil people , I am on for it as far as I have company... LOLROFL And count me with You and Swapna.
I guess we are making Paaarbati famous!!!šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†
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Originally posted by: londonkababu

In yesterday's childhood scenes too, Ishana was making Nikhil accept her terms, and that's how it's been all along. Ishana has always been the decision maker until now. Nikhil needs to hear the truth and then make a decision for himself, otherwise he will always feel that it was Ishana's grand gesture of sacrifice that lead him to seek out Lajjo once again.

Nik does not need Ishana's charity, I do hope that the production house does not upset our collective apple cart of expectations.

jatinder "I completely agree that Nikhil has always given in to Ishaana's demands since childhood, so now he needs to hear the truth and decide. Since childhood this pattern of spoon feeding actually lowered his self confidence, on top his brutal mom never helped him. You could see throughout his mom also was all about ishaana and her choices. He never mattered. But now for Laajo only his happiness matters, this is where he will become a man he has to be... and I sincerely wish Ishaana is not leaving bad taste in our mouths by ultimate act of sacrifice. I wont mind if she admits where she was wrong, then apologize to Nikhil and leave, that way he wont feel guilty. I want Nikhil to not even feel anger for Ishaana as it is still a emotion. I want him to feel free of ishaana and he should feel nothing at all, just let go. And move on.
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Originally posted by: Carina

Elloo ZiksSmile

Hi carina 😊 Love ur analysis its perfect yaar and respect ur views . šŸ¤—

But My views and take are somewhat different yaar . Hope i am not
boring u with all my views . Sorry to disagree .
😊 Hope iam not hurting
anyone .

I didn't like precap either... Ishaana will tell him to go to Laajo and that's not what viewers want to see.

Yeah exactly this is not we want to see after so much waiting.

But if we want to find some excuses for Nik's behaviour, we can explain his weakness towards Ishaana by the fact that he had a crappy childhood. She has always been the one he turned to, Bharka being a sadistic mother. She tortured him with the death of his brother, making him responsible for what he was not. She's always playing that tune whenever she wants to hurt him. So Nikil grew up completely insecured, no one to share his life with, except Ishaana.

This is all ok yaar i agree the childhood bonding emotions everything . But
yaar i am disappointed that he comes to laajo because of ishaana and in future
he will think that ishaana is so great and he will feel guilt through out
his life . Yaar tired tired of this guilty confused nikhil really Cant bear his helpless
confused puppy expressions . How much we want to defend nikhil naa
his love on laajo is very very weak at this stage iam saying . His bonding with Ishaana so strong and the decision of his life now also she is making for him .

My point is god cant he just make a decision and act on it by himself without
any interfereence? Ok i agree his childhood is like this his mother is like this
thats y he is like this behaving like this what is this all yaar ?

He did so many wrongs in his life and he is still doing and all those wrongs
were well defended by his childhood and his relationship with mother .

How long he will defend himself? all his deeds ? His entire life ? People
do change right at some stage with some experiences but he until now
he is still weak cant decide for himself once atleast.

Iam sorry carina i wont buy those reasons. Here i have different opinion
why because all children whose childhood is not well and whose relationship
is not
well with their parents and may be whatever reasons but iam sure
many of them
wont be
like this . This much confused this much weak no never .

In my view if life is not smooth then
the persons will become more strong more decisive rough and tough . They wont look for anyone actually but there are
exceptions also i guess nikhil is one among them.


My point is the persons whose life is hard they will become more strong
emotionally at maturity
levels . But he turend opposite.


People who have no problems in their lives yaar beleive me if
any small problem comes they will either collapse or run from try to
escape .

Nikhil should have been more strong because of the same reasons his
childhood , his mother .


I hoped and beleived that he will take the decision to be with laajo by himself . But again Ishaana needs to come into the scene and she needs to sacrifice she needs to force him to go to laajo . She has to actually push him .


That kids scene was a hint.. It was there to show that she has always forgiven him and
that's what she is going to do once again...
I guess CV's didn't want to paint her blackLOL

I agree completly here .

As for Nikhil, he does not want to hurt her and is ready to sacrifice himself to make her
happy. Complete rubbish for sureWacko It's something that comes from their childhood,
and their long time friendship.

Sorry i disagree Whatever the childhood and longterm relationship if he truly
loved laajo he wont be ready to sacrifice to make other person happy . Heis not correct here .


But today's episode did not show a versatile Nik's. We saw someone defending his wife and not afraid to shout out his love to the whole world.

Yes he is opening his mouth a little good for himself . I agree .


If you take all these facts into consideration, we can assume that even if Ishaana ask
him once again to marry her, he will surely try to find a way out.

Iam not so sure about this . I doubt him .


Laajo has always come first... The wedding, her sickness...

Here also iam sorry i disagree laajo never came first until now . ALways ishaana
Marriage the circumstances are different reasons are different . He married laajo
because his grandfather requested or ordered aagin there was due to some other
's influence he married not because he preferred laajo over ishaana . Laajo
was never the reason for marriage .

I never will agree . Sickness case any husband who have human values will behave like that . Its not a great thing . In that case he proved himself that he is a
Good human and he is a good friend . He asked permission from Ishaana she told
him to go then also if u remember . He surely did nt prefer laajo over
ishaana there also .


When it comes to her, he has always turned his back to everyone, never even caring
if the world comes crashing down. The fact is that whenever he feels that he might lose her, he just comes out of his confusing mode in a jolt. That's true love no? Day Dreaming

Iam sorry i never ever felt like this . Yeah in sickness i observed a change in him
his behaviour towards laajo . His thinking towards laajo changed .

The truth is that has never intended to let her go.

Just like as he never ever intended to let ishaana go when he married laajo?

The fact is He actually
Let her go so long back and intended to let her go . Its not always physical presence .

In his mind and heart and in his life she is not there . He never feel that she is
there . Not giving wifely rights not treating her as his wife means letting her
go only in my view .

He let her go long long ago .I agree she is there in his house he never told her
to leave his house . But he never let her in any area of his life he even wanted
her to love and marry another person . Does nt that mean letting her go ?

But while she was @ his house, he took
her for granted, thinking she would always remain in that guest room.. Meaning ( his life)
But the day she dumped him, everything changed, bringing forth his love for Laajo, which he refused to acknowledge.

I agree he never think what will happen in future ? After laajo went also
he is happy with ishaana that never effected him . See the episodes after laajo went
to sonabarsa he was so happy with ishaana . he just missed laajo that too in his house as he is used to see her . SO initially if some person lives in ouyr house
and leaves
suddenly we will miss them like that only he missed her . Nothing more than that .

During sickness of laajo only after and during his visit to sonabarsa something changed.


That does not mean that i want Laajo to forgive him all his misdeeds and his lack of
consideration. He should make to suffer a little before she accepts to take him back.
You should try to forgive Babua ji. Think about how Saraswati is going to make him suffer.
..ROFLROFL

I agree completly .😊



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