Dangerous Views: 5-APR-2014 EBP(pics pg 2 , 6) - Page 3

Originally posted by: dsr11

thanks gauri. shlok's ways are different from normal people. we all say mean things to people when we are angry. i used to do that too and i used to be unapologetic at one time. now i learnt to, thanks to my better half😛. just a few days back we celebrated our 10th marriage anniversary😊.

its really annoying to see shlok hurt aastha at every turn but i don't think divorce will help him change. he would become more bitter. actually he spewed so much venom yesterday because he is hurt hearing aastha tell her mom that she will leave him. you may ask why aastha should change him? because she loves him and he is her husband, as simple as that. do we leave our kids or siblings or parents when they say something mean? then why do that with a spouse?

aastha is capable of love alone but kalindi is capable of pulling people back to the ground😛. hopefully she will do that for aastha's sake. i don't want aastha to act like a door mat though. she should not let go of her principles for the sake of love. i am feeling confident about that now.

hey..belated happy anniversary...😆
me too dont want aastha to act like door mat at all...i just want if he is showing so much attitude...even she should show him some...just to make him realise...that he cant act this way again..
even i believe to maintain relation...even i tend to say bad words to my loved ones..and close friends when angry...same is other way round...but at the end..we love them..and so we forgive them..or they forgive us...

but i feel..if the person who talks bad in his anger..doesnt realise it and does same thing again...so he/she should be treated a lil strictly so that he/she doesnt repeats the rude behaviour...

Originally posted by: dsr11

thanks sladjana😊

nice collage..he realises his mistake..but doesnt do anything...poor baby aastha goes on crying...

belated happy anniversary rekha..🥳

Originally posted by: sagar_ayush

U r right Rekha(hope I m correct in naming u)..This Aditi track is brought about to explore many aspects of Ashlok relationship..trust,respect,understanding which is not there in their case..Loving each other is not enough for a relationship to work for a longer period..
Another aspect which u mentioned is principles..Astha's upbringing has made her a person to not tolerate anything wrong specially when it is related to her dear ones..In this track though she loves Shlok from the bottom of her heart she is not ready to bend or compromise with her principles which the Agnihotris do for whatever reasons they have..
Regarding divorce we all know now that the divorce is not going to happen ..I was never in favour of divorce..though I wanted a short separation track..As this is Ashlok love story so divorce will not mean that they will be separated forever or they will marry some other person & settle down..I dont like the concept of starting the same love story from scratch as we have seen the same things repeated in every other show..
I would like to see how Ashlok relationship develops from now on..Hope the cvs come out with something interesting..

Originally posted by: jia.astk

Rekha.. Nice positive take on the scene and good analysis. He should not have said the parayi, upbringing part and that I too felt he got it what went wrong and wrapped himself in blanket.

Anyways..lets see how they take this story forward.

edit...also wanted to add that romantic in me wants they stay together but the feminist in me says divorce is better. If Astha stays he will understand her undying love ..but its getting longer , hope he gets a much needed jolt. He does have many feelings of love : care, concern, attraction, etc., etc., I have said it before too :) ...point is if he trusts her then he should give her some hints about it at least.

my hubby dear is also silent type but speaks up when necessary...😛, I am more kind of vocal .so I said Men are from mars and women are from Venus. Men dont express everything out in open their actions speak volumes, but Shlokie's words spew venom ..sometimes, that's his outlet.

Regarding the fist and hand , it was there when Varad gets a call and Sojal tries to see the number , that's when they have argument and this is shown in background too. May be it will come later too as it is in Varad's room.

Originally posted by: gauriangel

hey..belated happy anniversary...😆
me too dont want aastha to act like door mat at all...i just want if he is showing so much attitude...even she should show him some...just to make him realise...that he cant act this way again..
even i believe to maintain relation...even i tend to say bad words to my loved ones..and close friends when angry...same is other way round...but at the end..we love them..and so we forgive them..or they forgive us...

but i feel..if the person who talks bad in his anger..doesnt realise it and does same thing again...so he/she should be treated a lil strictly so that he/she doesnt repeats the rude behaviour...

Originally posted by: supandifan

belated happy anniversary rekha..🥳

nice analysis..👍🏼

Originally posted by: dsr11

Sagarika,

i think aditi track skewed the actual theme a little. this track was supposed to show that shlok is torn between baba vs aastha but because of aditi factor, it looks like aditi vs aastha. the reason why we were all so angry when shlok didn't trust aastha was because we thought he trusts aditi over aastha, because thats how it looked on the surface. if we felt that shlok trusts his father over aastha we would not be so angry at him because any person would trust one's own parent over wife in the initial phase of their marriage.

you echoed my thoughts exactly regarding divorce.

Rekha(you got my name correct. did i get yours right?😊)

Aditi was brought into the show basically to introduce a wider angle to the Swati storyline which is a very important part of the basic story with which the show started..The cvs intended to spice it up & not to end it so easily as it happens in all daily soaps..dragging..I think cvs are somehow messing it up as they are unable to give a clear picture to the general audience..It looks something from the surface whereas they want to show something else..they need to give a clear picture..Anyway..hoping a proper closure of this track..
Yes..my name is Sagarika..

Originally posted by: dsr11

thanks bharathi(did i get your name right?)😊