What is trust? - Page 4

Originally posted by: peepu

Very good post divya

Here I must say that in the earlier stage jalal was the emperor who ran the empire on the basis of proof. It is also said trust is earned.and in this story jodha has earned his trust gradually and vice versa.

In the later time jalal also has earned jodhas trust.

He kept his word and allowed her to practice her religion and then he kept his promise not to touch her and he always gave respect to her words.

But here what jalal never does is to trust blindly he trusts only his instincts and guts...while jodha on the other hand has a much simpler life and more innocent trust.

While jalal trusts jodha but what is taking this trust away is because jalals instinct is not suppprting him.he supported jodha in case of false pregnancy because of his instinct that jodha is right.but he cant do the same to others simply because jodha asks him to do so.Blind trust is always bad, trust arises automatically it cant be cultivated .

Jodha on the other hand trusts jalal but is not confident as she feels her position shaky in his life.in the harem full of women like ruquaih and maham she has seen in benazir time that she can easily be sidelined.so jodha is once bitten twice shy.

Jalal too is once bitten twice shy after dhakka thing .

Trust becomes strong only when you realise that what is your place in other person's life.Then only it expresses itself otherwise its hidden in insecurity and What Ifs?

Both are fearing What If' s...what if he or she misunderstands

Because they both have realised they cant loose each other.

And this is the reason jodha is hiding about sujamal because she doesn't want to loose jalal, and jalal too is hiding his feelings because he doesn't want to loose jodha.

So both jalal and jodha are not asking questions and expecting trust as they are insecure.once they become more confident in relationship this factor will be strong .

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Originally posted by: divyavm

Thanks Rima. Yes, I am also not sure why Jodha is hesitant to take a step forward. Hopefully, this track will solve that.

Originally posted by: rpeez

Well from what I saw in today's episode, he does trust her. Trust definitely comes from the fact that he knows her very well.

Of course nothing could come between them right now, except his worries on her adventures.

Originally posted by: smithasrk

Exactly my thoughts divya. Even Jodha have already informed Jalal on the boat ride to the salim baba trip that he doent trust her without proof.

This is Jalal,s test to prove his trust to Jodha

Originally posted by: rima4ever

yes i too hope that this track will seal the trust from both ends