What is trust?

Guys, I have a question I am confused about- what is trust and what should it look like between Jodha and Jalal?

Here is where the question starts: Has Jalal proven his trust for Jodha? Is it trust without proof?

I feel pre- Ben poison track, Jalal always needed proof to completely trust Jodha. The fake pregnancy track he was eagerly waiting for the effects of the antidote and the Shivani track, it was the letter that proved her innocence. He also told her off on her bad judgement for Shivani- this was justified on Jalal's side but does not show his trust on her.

And then he says he trusts her after the fake pregnancy track and then after the letter MU it flew out of the window.

Of late, after the Ben poison drinking saga, he has been trusting Jodha more. I think the murti khand is the best example - he believed her before he found the proof.

However, is this enough of a track record for Jodha to tell Jalal about Sujamal? I wish she had given the benefit of the doubt but even Jalal didn't trust her opinion on Sujamal the other day saying she is thinking of Sujamal as a brother and not a soldier.

I think the CVs are trying to show that Jodha and Jalal's trust in each other is still at nascent stage and this track will strengthen this trust both ways:
- Prove Jalal's trust in Jodha
- Solidify Jodha's trust in Jalal

I hope this is what they do! However, in the meantime, would love your thoughts on where these two are in the trust spectrum and where they should be!

I know a lot of folks in the forum believe Jalal has proven his trust so really want to hear your POV!

yeh bhi ho sakta hai think par yhe sab karte karte bhaut time ho jayeng jab jalal jo se mohabbat karta hai to us par trust bhi karna chahi ya agar is baar bhi vo koyi evidence mangega to lagega ki vo usse sachi mohobbat nhi karta hai

Nice post.










Jodha and Jalal's trust/faith in each other will also bring them closer and help them confess love to each other. Isn't it obvious that when someone supports or trust you especially when others are against you, one feels elated, proud, respectful and love for other person?

trust in itself is a very tricky word..its just like a thin line of hair which can be easily crossed and once crossed its very hard and sometimes next to impossible to build that trust again..jodha by consuming poison proved that nothing is more precious to her more than her husband's life not even her own..jalal trusts her in that respect..but hiding about her bhaisa will hurt him more not because she has committed a crime by hiding a traitor's whereabouts but the fact that he has not been able to win jodha's trust!

and by the end of this track jalal might win jodha's trust on rationale thinking if he acts in a sensible way after knowing the truth or finding the truth himself and not listening to anybody and everybody...and here it all depends on the cvz how they will handle jalal's intellect!

Omg omg... I wrote the exact same thing in your take 5 post. This is scary...🤗

i feel jalal trust jodha to some extent

Originally posted by: copacati

yeh bhi ho sakta hai think par yhe sab karte karte bhaut time ho jayeng jab jalal jo se mohabbat karta hai to us par trust bhi karna chahi ya agar is baar bhi vo koyi evidence mangega to lagega ki vo usse sachi mohobbat nhi karta hai

Yes, I hope he trusts her this time without any evidence or even with evidence against her! He can be hurt for her hiding but not doubt her intentions.

Thanks for posting!

Good post Divya!

Trust is a very layered and broad range strand Divya. And like love, it doesn't happen. It has to be built...over time and experiences.

Originally posted by: ashpat

Nice post.

I agree with u that Jalal trust her more now after she drank poisonous kheer to save his life and he did not need proof like before in murti issue. But, I feel this track is a test for Jalal's trust in Jodha. Is his trust strong enough to handle the upcoming allegations on Jodha as helper to supposed traitor "sujamal"? After Jodha saved Jalal's life, he should trust her completely without proof but only time will tell I mean his reaction to upcoming track should seal the fate of his trust on Jodha. He can get upset and mad at her that why did she hide but should not label her as traitor after she proved her loyalty by risking her own life.

Now, about Jodha. I did feel earlier that after Jalal had told jodha that you can come and tell me any bitter news or problems and I promise I will listen to u and solve ur problems; she should have told about sujamal. But, when Jodha told him that her brother cannot be an attacker etc; he dismissed her saying that he is enemy and i don't want to discuss further. If he had listened to her more then may be she would have told him about sujamal. I wanted her to tell that she met sujamal but if she had told him then may be he would have found and killed sujamal bec he did say that he will not leave him. It is a very difficult situation for Jodha.

As I already said Jodha saving Jalal, she proved her loyalty and earned her trust of Jalal (or should I say I hope she did). Now, let's see if Jalal proves his loyalty by supporting her and believing her without proof and therefore earns trust of Jodha. (what I mean by this is Jalal believes that she is NOT a traitor or adultress depending on what MA says. May be he believes that she went to see sujamal to find about the truth and not help him escape- obviosuly Jodha need to tell him why she went to meet sujamal and then believes her).

When I read your post, it reminded me of something I read somewhere " Hope is wishing. Trust is believing. Faith is knowing."

If I use above phrase and put into Jodha and Jalal's context, Jodha and Jalal are still in trust phase; although I feel they both should be in faith stage especially Jalal (after jodha risking her life). What I mean is jodha and jalal believes each other with or without proofs but there will be time soon hopefully after this track ends when they will KNOW that other is right even if someone tries to instigate them against each other.

Jodha and Jalal's trust/faith in each other will also bring them closer and help them confess love to each other. Isn't it obvious that when someone supports or trust you especially when others are against you, one feels elated, proud, respectful and love for other person?

Ayesha

Thanks Ayesha for the detailed post. I like it a lot- particularly the quote as I think through this track they will move both deeper in trust, love, and faith- hopefully, right to the confession!