double standards of buaji and meher. - Page 2

Originally posted by: ratna.nanda

i'm not jumping into conclusions,but couldn't resist to make a post on this.

-today the entire hungama was created by that slimeball[meher's dad],and yet bua and meher rushes to save him from police station,WHY??and they can't stand abeer,WHY??

-meher's dad abandoned his wife and children,married some lady and is happily living with them,and WITHOUT AN OUNCE OF SHAME OR MANNERS barges into his old house as and when he pleases,and he's most welcome,tolerated by his sister,ex-wife and meher[dont think i'm against her,i adore meher more than any character in the show,but i don't like her tolerating her useless dad.]

-we still dont know what was the reason of mehbeer divorce,but we can assume that abeer never stooped to the level of mr.purohit[well he left meher but didnt betray her ever,as we can assume],yet buaji can't tolerate him for a minute and meher cant stand his presence in her house too.

-isnt this DOUBLE STANDARDS??pls share ur views everyone.

Originally posted by: zaya-firdose

I couldn't agree with you

Don't know why

Whatever meher's dad did was really ridiculous

But as a daughter, it's her duty to rescue her father, just like formality

Though they don't like him

For that u r calling double standard meher... Haha seriously😆

Abeer did totally did ridiculous things in the party, but meher didn't pay heed to his behaviour...

PS: whatever I love Abeer and meher

I disagree with u on this fero I think fr teh first time 😉

I agree its mehers duty to be the fr her father..she is fulfilling her duty by givin him enough money to look after his another family as well..thr is a huge difference between abeer n meher dad...the way bua esp treats abeer is as though he has thrown the sky on her shoulders..truth cannot be changed..if abeer has done a mistake n none is ready to compromise on tat then y compromise on meher dad?

P.s I love abeer and meher n also u 😆

Meher/Bua ji's reaction was more from POV of keeping the family matters internal and since they don't consider Abeer/his dad as family any longer hence the reaction. I'm sure after going home they would have blasted Meher's dad.
Abeer wasn't really at fault here but given the history ones opinion about somebody always gets clouded by the history 🤔

Originally posted by: neetha

I disagree with u on this fero I think fr teh first time 😉

I agree its mehers duty to be the fr her father..she is fulfilling her duty by givin him enough money to look after his another family as well..thr is a huge difference between abeer n meher dad...the way bua esp treats abeer is as though he has thrown the sky on her shoulders..truth cannot be changed..if abeer has done a mistake n none is ready to compromise on tat then y compromise on meher dad?

P.s I love abeer and meher n also u 😆

totally agree with you.. meher dad such crap so annoying I hope thy dnt show his back story all..

Originally posted by: --Megha--

I dont know what is Bua's back story n is she misandrous or just has a wrong impression about Abeer.

I think with Meher, he just was not able to meet her expectations of the ideal Man that she had made up in her mind after she saw how her mother suffered. Anyways we will get to know the reason when they will show y they divorced in the first place. 😃

Originally posted by: malikakas

I don't think Meher had expectations of an "ideal Man". Personally, I think her dad taught her to not really expect much from a man. She didn't want to get married. From the beginning she wanted to settle her career so she could look after her family.

I think the problem stemmed from the fact that they got married prematurely. Abeer was the one who insisted on marriage while Meher was saying no. So I think during the marriage Meher wanted to establish herself professionally first whereas Abeer may have just been wanting to enjoy life. Abeer is a little immature so I could see him fighting with Meher-- if she couldn't make time for him. And her wanting him to be more hardworking.

When Abeer's mom and dad were talking-- they made it seem like Abeer was never very focussed and Abeer's dad used to taunt him but Meher used to fight with the dad that that was the wrong approach and he needed to explain things nicely.

Ratna awesome post! See I don't have an issue with Meher and buaji holding abeer to higher expectations than her dad, who frankly puts the worst kind of leeches to shame with his shameless behavior. What REALLY annoyed me was the precap where buaji decided to DEFEND her brother and talk SHIT about abeer and his dad in comparison to her disgusting brother knowing full well that he's a disgusting tamashakhor trying to cause nuisance and probs trying to weasel something out of kuber. For whatever abeer and his dad may be, for whatever kuber malhotra may have done to separate mehbeer, they're both independently successful people who don't make it a point to leech on people UNLESS they're in their way. Kuber malhotra is a socially respectable personality who wouldn't give a squat about meher or her family if they didn't come in his way. So bua with all her sensibilities can't POSSIBLY believe that kuber decided to fudge over mehar's dad's car! She definitely should know that if her brother was at malhotra home, then it was definitely not on invitation and definitely with the intent to extort money! I'm sorry but when our own is wrong and we still try to save them, then we should be prepared to hear the insults hurled at us and our own, cos then we're both wrong! She should've sternly told her brother to shut up, apologized to the police for having wasted their time and walked out with dignity. But instead she decided to insult abeer and his father in a situation where they're absolutely not in the wrong in subliminal defense of her disgusting brother, so yeah abeer's lash back, this time will be totally justified. Buaji and mehar should definitely call out abeer and kuber when appropriate but they should also learn that sometimes dignity is preserved by keeping your trap shut and accepting that your party was in the wrong!
PS idk why but I always keep feeling like bua and kuber have an affair...far off maybe but idk really strange gut feeling.

Ratna I felt same , but in the case of Meher , thinking of Bua !!