double standards of buaji and meher.

i'm not jumping into conclusions,but couldn't resist to make a post on this.

-today the entire hungama was created by that slimeball[meher's dad],and yet bua and meher rushes to save him from police station,WHY??and they can't stand abeer,WHY??

-meher's dad abandoned his wife and children,married some lady and is happily living with them,and WITHOUT AN OUNCE OF SHAME OR MANNERS barges into his old house as and when he pleases,and he's most welcome,tolerated by his sister,ex-wife and meher[dont think i'm against her,i adore meher more than any character in the show,but i don't like her tolerating her useless dad.]

-we still dont know what was the reason of mehbeer divorce,but we can assume that abeer never stooped to the level of mr.purohit[well he left meher but didnt betray her ever,as we can assume],yet buaji can't tolerate him for a minute and meher cant stand his presence in her house too.

-isnt this DOUBLE STANDARDS??pls share ur views everyone.

Bang on ratna!

Wth I soo hate her dad..he has no shame..no manners n no guilt.!! How he asked abeer dad if he has any affairs ...shit! Looser!! He thinks all are like him..he gives a damn to meher or her mum or his own sis and his son..hw he says meher will take care of em..he is supposed to take their responsibility..

After all this still meher n her bus are thr to save him..bua gives all lectures to abeer as though all the mistakes in their relationship was by him..thali ek haath se nahi bachthi...m sure in mehbeer relationship both are equally responsible fr ruining it! Meher being soo bold and todays gal who doesn't choose to compromise wit abeer and she is ok to compromise wit her dad???? Abeer is any day better..he might hav divoreced meher but he stil is loyal to her..8 years n he is still single and still is concerned abt her..he doesn't let anyone talk against her and still is thr to help her n be the in all situations unlike her dad who is still visiting them only fr money and only money!

Meher n bua needs a reality check wen it comes to tat looser dad n also abeer!

Originally posted by: neetha

Bang on ratna!

Wth I soo hate her dad..he has no shame..no manners n no guilt.!! How he asked abeer dad if he has any affairs ...shit! Looser!! He thinks all are like him..he gives a damn to meher or her mum or his own sis and his son..hw he says meher will take care of em..he is supposed to take their responsibility..

After all this still meher n her bus are thr to save him..bua gives all lectures to abeer as though all the mistakes in their relationship was by him..thali ek haath se nahi bachthi...m sure in mehbeer relationship both are equally responsible fr ruining it! Meher being soo bold and todays gal who doesn't choose to compromise wit abeer and she is ok to compromise wit her dad???? Abeer is any day better..he might hav divoreced meher but he stil is loyal to her..8 years n he is still single and still is concerned abt her..he doesn't let anyone talk against her and still is thr to help her n be the in all situations unlike her dad who is still visiting them only fr money and only money!

Meher n bua needs a reality check wen it comes to tat looser dad n also abeer!

exactly neetha,i'd love to see abeer pointing out these facts to meher soon,highlighting their double standards.
ps:hope abeer stays for a looong time in meher's hose,hain na??

Originally posted by: ratna.nanda

exactly neetha,i'd love to see abeer pointing out these facts to meher soon,highlighting their double standards.
ps:hope abeer stays for a looong time in meher's hose,hain na??

Oh well m very sure abeer will stay in mehers house fr a long time..i did check the promo n thr is lot of seriousness in abeer actions..m sure he is thr fr a reason n it will not just help meher but also ot ll be a huge help to the whole family...at least wen meher shameless dad keeps popping in to the house abeer will give him left right n centre with his words! Coz mummiji hardly says anythin..meher is always numb and bus just keeps screaming but abeer has a way wer in he will teach a lesson to her dad..tede ko teda ji samhal saktha hai 😆

I'd like to differ. There are always two different scales to weigh two different kinds of people.

Originally posted by: pritirays

I agree with the post, it does look like double standard on Meher and Bua's part!

I think it is because he is Meher's dad and Bua's brother. With Abeer - he is no one to Bua and Meher divorced him, so no one to take his side in the family? Think about it like this - if Meher and Abeer had a kid, and it was living with Meher, then probably Abeer would have been allowed some visits? 😕

Today I got a glimpse of why Bua is so irked with Abeer - its his attitude and "badtameezi" 😆 Abeer does not behave that way with Meher's mom, but with Bua he makes sure to irritate her. Maybe she played a big part in the separation, not in a negative way, but more like being overprotective for Meher, encouraged her for separation and since she is an attorney, she might also have been Meher's lawyer? Thatswhy Abeer hates her so much?

@bold that's why i guess abeer hates meher's bua.

seeing meher's atitude,i dont think meher would have allowed abeer any visits,bua would have most probably encouraged an abortion too.
but if there's indeed a rumoured mehbeer kid track,meher might have kept him/her well away from abeer[maybe to avoid a custody battle] and even her bua[meher wouldn't want her kid to be dragged into the midst of all this mess.]

Originally posted by: --Ari--

I'd like to differ. There are always two different scales to weigh two different kinds of people.

first i'll start with mehers dad- he is a creep a looser and i hate him 🤬 And i am sure everyone in the family does as well. no one gives him any bhaav. Its all formality. Going to rescue him is more like a family ki izzat kinda thing cause no matter what he is still her father and buas brother. He doesnt care for what he does but naam inka kharaab hoga so they came to do damage control before he did more damage.

Second kind of person is abeer. The thing about immense love and expectations is they put you up on a too high pedestal and from there on whenever you do any mistake no matter how big or small it feels monumental. Definitely abeer was not the only one at fault and he cant even be compared to a looser like mehers father...but that being said he was a person they loved...respected...and had lots of expectations from...so obviously the bitterness of that will be more than for someone who they stopped caring for long ago. Mehers father is a no body to them... while abeer still affects meher and while trying to deny that she ends up being rude to him .

though i agree with u,but once upon a time they might have given enough respect and love to meher's dad too,and in precap,meher's bua was very well defending her dear brother.
but surely dont u think a sensible person like meher ought to understand that whatever they are doing to save 'family ka naam and izzat' is actually a boost for meher's dad to carry on his shameless antics??

I couldn't agree with you

i guess despite the fact that Meher's dad is using Meher n Bua for Money, they feel obligated to look after him in his time of distress. I guess maybe it stems from the fact of being protective about ur family or just a fear of what people wud say? 😕