double standards of buaji and meher. - Page 5

Then coming to my comment on Meher had to tolerate Abeer. I meant it only in her room that night which was forced by her mother.

I don't put the entire blame of divorce only on Abeer. I am not sure whether you have read some of my earlier posts where I have mentioned the fault lines between them where I had held both of them responsible for the divorce. Sound is not heard with one hand, but with both hands. Also in yesterday's post also I mentioned before opening up to the office on their relation if Meher had given an ear to the explanation of Abeer, she could have calmed Abeer. Because she knew Abeer saving her from the swimming pool was not to show off, but out of genuine care of her, though all the other things he did was vendetta type. Actually the lack of proper communication on such matters had led to where matters are today.

Abeer leaving her has left a deep scar in her mind which she feels can only be healed if she defeats him, and Abeer who feels he has got over her as she cheated him cannot hold his emotions in her presence. They want to prove to each other and as I said about Shiv-Sakthi. What will both gain by proving. If Matchstick burns, petrol also will burn. If you hurt your better half, you yourself will get hurt as ideally life partners are part of each other in true sense. They have to take this journey to rediscover themselves. But for that to happen, first they have to admit they did a mistake which unfortunately both are not accepting.

Thank you.