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@MithiBani

Trailblazer

+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

#31

Hey Bhagwaan!!! When did Purvi ever say that Gurpreet is Sikh thersfore her generalization is all sikh girls while and rest of the girls on show are Indians their generalization is Indians?? WHEN??

All she meant was DON'T GENERALIZE. Period.

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Rani

@April2007

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: mechocoholic

Yes...it's like banging ur head on the wall....only u end up getting hurt.....no use....

I guess this can be contrued as personal attack..

I should report this to moderator..

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mechocoholic

@mechocoholic

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: April2007

You are totally wrong..

I love India more than you will ever do...but that doesn't mean that I am not aware of its faults. I love it despite its faults but I am not going to hide the faults and twist history.

Firstoff, u cannot compare our individal loves for the nation...how childish....

secondly, i too love my country faults and all......and that is why i don't see the relevance of just hammering the negative points out of context for a mere show???????????

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Purva

@purva

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 16 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: April2007

Since you brought toleration and Sikh prime minister..I will remind you killing of Sikhs on streets of Delhi in 1984 and killing of muslims in Ahmedabad.

I think you read the post that says that making general statement about India would be same as making statement about Sikh girls..clearly Sikh girls are being thought diff than other Indian girls (meaning hindu girls are Indians ) Sikhs grils are just Sikh ..not India enough.

For the last time... that was an example to show how WRONG it will be to do the same.

Edited by purva - 16 years ago

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mechocoholic

@mechocoholic

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: April2007

I guess this can be contrued as personal attack..

I should report this to moderator..

Please do, i was merely advising someone else, i didn't even mention anyone's name....

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Rani

@April2007

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: mechocoholic

Firstoff, u cannot compare our individal loves for the nation...how childish....

secondly, i too love my country faults and all......and that is why i don't see the relevance of just hammering the negative points out of context for a mere show???????????

The show is about women and men...we see the behavior of women differently based on our reference point and culture...the culture we are referring to is Indian..that is how whole debate starts. Watching the show has been a social and pychological experience for me. The behavior of each contestant is a learning lesson..although we don't see everything but still if one was to analyse the behavior it is a learning lesson.

I am sorry if I said anything to hurt your feeling. It was never my intention, my intention is to have a healthy and strong debate..

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Rani

@April2007

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: mechocoholic

Please do, i was merely advising someone else, i didn't even mention anyone's name....

Nah...I have broad shoulders, I can take all the mean comments that come my way..

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mechocoholic

@mechocoholic

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: April2007

The show is about women and men...we see the behavior of women differently based on our reference point and culture...the culture we are referring to is Indian..that is how whole debate starts. Watching the show has been a social and pychological experience for me. The behavior of each contestant is a learning lesson..although we don't see everything but still if one was to analyse the behavior it is a learning lesson.

I am sorry if I said anything to hurt your feeling. It was never my intention, my intention is to have a healthy and strong debate..

As is mine.....

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

Alumni

+ 8

Posted: 16 years ago

#39

How many times I will hv to repeat myself to place all your complaints in the sticky rules topic which I made specially for you people..

Also if anyone is hving any problem regarding any post or any member...u hv two options available..one is report button and another one is pm service(pm me)..why not use that instead of wasting your energy making these pointless topics ??..

First let me make something clear...certain words whether abusive or not depends on the context in which it is used...for eg:Words like "B" or "S" r outright abusive so no question of them getting used in any context...

Now coming to words like fake..this is one word which can be used for constructive criticism but again it depends on the context in which it is used...for eg:If we write a sentence "XYZ acts in a very fake manner"...its nothing more than constructive criticism because we r talking about the contestent in the show and because the contestent is appearing on national television we hv every write to do constructive criticism on her actions as long as we know our limits..but if we write a sentence addressing a member from this forum ..for eg: "You are supporting XYZ because you r also fake like her or u r bigot"..so in this case u r directly making personal attack on that member who is supporting XYZ and you hv no right to call the member of the forum a fake person simply because its a virtual world where noone has seen anyone and neither that member is appearing before you on national TV.....and so here in this context fake or bigot word becomes a victim of personal attack..

Same goes for the words like "No sanskari"...when we r judging a contestent who is appearing on our tv screen everyday and that too in a reality show...as a audience we hv the right to talk about her actions if it comes with a proper justification..but if this same word is used against any member on this forum..it comes under personal attack because like I said we hv no right to judge someone we hv never seen..

In short all I want to say is when u do constructive criticism of certain contestents make sure in what context words like "fake" or "Sanskari" or "No Sanskari" are used...Also these words hv nothing to do with what an individual's Indian values or culture because mostly I hv seen members getting personal and questioning each other about their sanskars when such topics r raised..this is where the word sanskar is misused..

Lastly its my last and final warning to stop making such topics addressing the mod(U r suppose to use the PM service here)..because I can see even these threads r turning into war zone and god forbid if a GM steps in this forum and sees all this...u all will be straightaway banned...try to understand this...I m just trying to b as linient as possible with you people..try to co-operate with me..sort out your personal differences and remember its just a reality show which will b over in two months..so enjoy it and don't get personal at the drop of a hat...

From now on such topics will be trashed immediately ..

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