Originally posted by: mechocoholic
This show has seen a lot of drama and chaos, over the last couple of days, and some of it has translated onto this forum, and healthy discussions are fine, even respectful arguments are ok, but many forum members are getting too personal, launching attacks on other members, calling them bigots and such things, also many members, are using unpleasant language to describe India, and Indians, which is completely uncalled for, i believe that mods should atleast keep such things in check.....i can understand that the issues being discussed are volatile and touchy, nevertheless, some decorum must be followed.....
You yourself are using words such as "not sanskari bahu" towards participants of reality show. Calling somebody not sanskari is an attack and abuse that is very unpleasant way to define a contest . Your description of an ideal bahu and use of uncomplimentary and judgemental language for Gurpreet is hurting many members of the forum. To us Gurpreet is a women and human being putting her down and calling her not sanskari dimishes all the women reading your post.
If you so touchy you should refrain from passing judgement and calling women contestant ' not sanskari because by doing so you are hurting rest Indian women on this forum and tring to sterotyping them re. right and wrong.
You are using unpleasant language to describe an Indian contestant and saying or agreeing with participants who are saying that nobody would marry Gurpreet is extreme abuse.
You should first observe the decorum you expect from others towards a women contestant that represents many Indian women.Many of us (Indian women) are not submissive and don't take open abusive criticizim lightly.
For me human beings especially women are more valuable than any culture or any country. I will not sit back let them being bashed or called not sanskari..
Edited by April2007 - 15 years ago
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