Yash told Gurp she is too blunt?

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Nishita123

@Nishita123

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Posted: 15 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655
Remember the dance during Garba. All the mom were asked who would you like your sons to dance with? Yash's mom was hesistant but she went along with Gurpreet.

Thats not correct. It was Yash who chose Gurpreet, since Yash's mom said Jiska number nahi aaya hai usme se kisi ko bhi select karo......and then Amria said specifically that you chose or you can ask Yash........and then they asked Yash........Yash said mamma aap decide karo......and Momma Yash kept laughing , didnt say a word !! then Yash went ahead and chose Gurpreet for dancing.

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Shruti

@lastmin

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Posted: 15 years ago

#22

Hey guys,

I just watched today's epi online. I think we forget that there are many portions of the interactions that happen that are not shown to us. We don't know what happens between the individuals there on an hourly basis even.

I haven't seen the episode which Yash' s mom mentioned saying Gurpreet was screaming that she was hungry in the morning.

Firstly I think there musy have been some silly things that happened which never got resolved and so those became issues!!

I really don't think only the D--L should be respectful, even the M-I-L should be. Ignoring someone's existence is very hurtful an disrespectful. These hurt even more when you don't know the reason behind them - which is what I suspect Gurpreet feels. Also we have to understand that Yash & Gur had formed a bond of sorts - but never got to talk after that which is frustrating for a young girl.

Secondly why was Yash's mom so insecure that she wouldn't trust her own son to speak to Gur? What did she think was going to happen? Well - to me that tells me that the mother is as insecure as Gur and that she does not want to lose her son to Gur.

Yash' mom seems to get along with other girls such Priyanka who has been kind of spoken for already - why ??

Believe me friends - I have been there and done that!!!

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Rani

@April2007

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Posted: 15 years ago

#23

I found it very strange that mom Yash said that when she says that she never ever changes her mind, once she says no it can never be yes. Mom Yash was taking pride in her extreme stubborn behavior. She even said that in her house Yash should know that whatever she say goes..Yash's dad doesn't count.

Gurpreet is very accomplished and artistic girl, she doesn't need mom Yash in her life.

I bet Gur is hurt by insults showered on her on national tv, she doesn't want Yash and his mom. She is reacted to the personal insults that she is not good or has lots of bad points.

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sanjana

@..Sanjana..

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Posted: 15 years ago

#24

I dont agree she has taken more than enough insults from yash's mother.

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cal_pun_gal

@cal_pun_gal

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Posted: 15 years ago

#25

hahaha once more i m here to share my views

1. a lot of u brought the issue up that mothers have been observing and we only see half an hour...may be Yash's mom noticed few things in gurpreet.............ok.........well think may be gur also has been observing yashz mom during rest of the 23 1/2 hrs n who knows how much she puts up with it....

2. he said, " she is too blunt." I JUST HOPE THAT HE GETS A GIRL WHO IS MEESNI..means not blunt at all n keeps everything inside her and only takes it out when it is for her use .....he will realize that it is better to have a life partner who is open n blunt.

3. yeah yashz mom cant tell her reasons on national tv cuz it will be even more stupid than k suba uth k khaane ke liya chillati hai....no1 in their right mind will let whole india think of her being negative if she has a proper reason

4. SHE SHOULD HAVE NEVER BEEN ON THE SHOW ALONG WITH HER SON.......PERIOD......cuz they both r not mature.....i dont think she knows how to adjust with others.

5. I agree she only shows her interest in those who r taken..........Pooja with hitty but she is in for more exposure for her career. Nandita - girl is not even gonna stay in India n she is not looking for marriage material in this show..her intellectual level is much higher than yash n they will not be happy as a couple .......Priyanka....already taken...she knows that she does not have to worry about these girls snatching her son away.

6. MOMMY ITS ABOUT THE TIME U CUT THE UMBILICAL CORD NOW....CALL OB/GYN STAT

7. RESPECT - its two way road...i have said it earlier n i will say it again.......some1 mentioned earlier about " OUR CULTURE" i will be the first one to break ur illusion that not everything is goody goody about our culture.....i love being indian, i m proud of my culture n heritage but that does not mean that i m gonna close my eyes if there is something that is wrong....i m not saying western culture is great...both cultures have good n bad aspects ...but as we r talking about OUR INDIAN CULTURE i will give u few examples..........we r still from the same culture where sati became a tradition after ppl forgot y it was initially started; it is teh same culture where dowry is still common and girls r burnt n tortured cuz they dint bring enf; its the same culture where child marriages still happen, we r still the culture where we make fun of hermephrodites just because they r different; we r still the same culture where every 10 -15 yrs we have a huge rift/riots on name of religion; we r the same culture where we think being fair is pre req to be married in some families; we still belong to same culture where even upto this day majority of ppl think that sons carry family name and prefer sons over daughters (esp few major states); n the list can go on...............................

I m not trying to put down our culture here.........all i m saying is that dont take things for granted just because u think that it is part of a culture........respect does not only mean saying ji mummy ji, ji daddy ji etc...respect does not come from cooking food for ur MIL daily, or go n hug her everyday..it also shows if u can have healthy argument n discussion....i have the utmost respect for those ppl who i get into big discussions/debates with n they never lose their temper...they always try to see ur side of the story b4 they show their side.....u can speak for urself n stand for what u believe in, n have different point of views of everything n still get along, accept each other n love each other n still respect each other for who u r...i think gur tried to do that initially...she asked yash at couple occasions about his mother or what she can do to make her more comfortable around her.......gurpreet dint get up n started cursing yashz mom, that would have been disrespectful..............yashz mom is being disrespectful to gurpreet cuz she still has not shared the real truth y gur is not good for her son.........if she is rejecting gur, she has every right to know the REAL reason

insult level is different for every1...for some ppl one word does the trick n for some long statement dont make an effect......i m sure gur felt hurt n disrespected in this situation.......i have a lot of respect for those ppl who stand up for themselves cuz it takes a lot of courage to do so......this world will crush u into pieces if u dont stand up for urself.....

.....WHY SHOULD U COMPROMISE ON URSELF CUZ THATS ALL U HAVE .......

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Thoo

@mermaids

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Posted: 15 years ago

#26

I dnt blame Gurpreet for talking so loud with Yash's mon...coz Yash mom deserve that...she treated Gurpreet so rudely....pls support Gurpreet

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sheela

@Aamnakideewani

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Posted: 15 years ago

#27

i think she was guyz jis lady ko kabhi aap aoni mil ki jagah dekhte the uske baray mein national tv pe aise baat karna was not at all gud

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nitu islam

@nitu123

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Posted: 15 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: Aashi3
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I felt like slapping Yash when he said she's too blunt..wasn't he the one who said he likes her because of how she is? bold..chanchal..blah blah blah? This guy is confused..his mother is a hitler..the dad is joru ka ghulam..i pity their family. What bond does the mother keep talking about? A bond is created when both sides understand each other and value the understanding..as yash said in the beginning..there are many things his mom hasn't understood..and when the question was asked that what if he likes gurpreet and he wants to marry her but his mom doesn't agree, what will he do? He said he won't get married..does anyone remember that? Everyone should look at themselves before pointing fingers at others. If you put yourself in her shoes..i don't think you would be against her. Yash's mom is rude and stubborn..and if she gets a seedhi saadhi bahu..she's gonna eat the poor girl alive. As i have said before..respect is EARNED..not just given because the person is an elder. I don't blame Gur..because the lady is not willing to listen..she says w/e she wants to say and expects everyone to follow..who does she think she is? Giving orders like that? Ma ho ghi apni bete ke liye..bakion ko apna hukam kyun chala rahi hai? And part of the reason why she behaves like that is because she has no daughter of her own..too bad for her. She doesn't point out Gur's flaws not because she's concerned about her well-being but because she doesn't have realistic reasons for her irrational actions. 😡 There's a limit for everything..after that you just can't take shit like that. If Gur doesn't know how to talk to her..it's because the lady has no manners and doesn't know how to talk to potential DIL either.

ohhh ...m scared of ur angry emos. 😲....🤣🤣... chill gal 😛 !!..'ve some cola/something whch 'll cool u down 😃😆 !!

i fink watever i wanted 2 say bout gur's behaviour 's well told by mr. shekhar suman in 2day's epi 😛 so do cheq d video NOW 😛!! m sure u 'll understand wat he said & y he said it 2 gur 😉 ...

ok u r getting personal ...but if u soooo want d ans. den here it's - m still against her RUDE,DISRESPECTFUL behavior 😊..which 's so uncalled 4 👎🏼...watever might b d situation u / at-least i CAN'T insult some1's mom like dat infrnt of ever1 😊 it 's downright low,cheap behavior 🤢

p.s. i's stating my views....if u don't like it den IGNORE it 😛...DON'T quote me again stating personal attacks or i might report 'em....😊

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shruti

@-Nymphadora-

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Posted: 15 years ago

#29

i completely agree...gurpreet had the complete right to blast at yashs mom....she was getting on my nerves...anyway!!

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Amrita K. De0l

@Amrita.De0l

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Posted: 15 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: Aashi3

I felt like slapping Yash when he said she's too blunt..wasn't he the one who said he likes her because of how she is? bold..chanchal..blah blah blah? This guy is confused..his mother is a hitler..the dad is joru ka ghulam..i pity their family. What bond does the mother keep talking about? A bond is created when both sides understand each other and value the understanding..as yash said in the beginning..there are many things his mom hasn't understood..and when the question was asked that what if he likes gurpreet and he wants to marry her but his mom doesn't agree, what will he do? He said he won't get married..does anyone remember that? Everyone should look at themselves before pointing fingers at others. If you put yourself in her shoes..i don't think you would be against her. Yash's mom is rude and stubborn..and if she gets a seedhi saadhi bahu..she's gonna eat the poor girl alive. As i have said before..respect is EARNED..not just given because the person is an elder. I don't blame Gur..because the lady is not willing to listen..she says w/e she wants to say and expects everyone to follow..who does she think she is? Giving orders like that? Ma ho ghi apni bete ke liye..bakion ko apna hukam kyun chala rahi hai? And part of the reason why she behaves like that is because she has no daughter of her own..too bad for her. She doesn't point out Gur's flaws not because she's concerned about her well-being but because she doesn't have realistic reasons for her irrational actions. 😡 There's a limit for everything..after that you just can't take shit like that. If Gur doesn't know how to talk to her..it's because the lady has no manners and doesn't know how to talk to potential DIL either.

.......yu've said it ol in once gal ! 👏👏👏
i liked it nd I so agree wid yu ! ..😊😊

.Im so pissed at yash nd his mom .😡.dunno wot exactly dey r tryin to do or prove man ...Im ol lost nd confused 😕! [btw, here in states v r pretty far behind den IST] so ish wajhe se I dunno much of wots goin on in the show at da momnt ...bt yur reply fo dis persons post's made me reply yu 😃 !!

I dnt knoe much.. bt i think yash is not worth gurpreet* AT ALL !
ush bande ko shayad nahi pata ke usko kya chihiye so ...I guess ushe nikal na chihiye nxt ! .😊...

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