Yash told Gurp she is too blunt?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Atleast that's what it seems like from the promo 😊 I am probably one of the few (if not the only one) who is not running around with Go Gurpreet Jhanda!!
With all honesty there is no right and wrong in this situation. It comes down how you prioritize things.
Yash's mom is stubborn. I think she honestly gave Gurpreet and Yash a chance that Gurpreet didn't take. Remember the dance during Garba. All the mom were asked who would you like your sons to dance with? Yash's mom was hesistant but she went along with Gurpreet. I don't even think being vegeterian is a issue as many have have mentioned it. Nandita is not a vegeterian and she likes her just fine. A long time ago yash's mom mentioned every girl comes to talk to her but Gurpreet never comes asks about their family. If I was a mother and someone was interested in my son but never came to me I would find it disrespectful. (speaking from personal experience. When I started dating my ex I never made enough effort to get close to him mom, bechari tried to give me a chance but she always kept missing her son's old girlfriend) It's human nature once you start finidng those little things you dislike in a person you start disliking the person as a whole.
I honestly felt really really sorry for Gurpreet the day Yash came with the groceries. Yash's mom should've had a talk with yash and Gurpreet at the same time. Other than that unless she was forced to say something about Gurpreet she has never said anything bad. She even talks to Gurpreet in a formal tone. I don't think she likes other people butting into her business.
It's quite nice how everyone looks at the word " RESPECT" so differently. I don't find Gurpreet respectful. I always taught my younger sibling don't call yourself a nice person if you are only nice to those who are nice to you, you can only call yourself that if you have the strength to be nice to complete morons who don't even know what the word means. I feel the same way about some who is suppose to " RESPECTFUL". Someone used the example of rapist before..which I didn't find suitable at all 😕. (sorry don't remember who and I can't write so many replies with the same thought over and over again) Is yash's mom anywhere close to a rapist?? What do we mean when we say sankskar?? Isn't the only sanksar that separates us from the western world is the fact we respect our elders sooo much and we know how to keep a family together. Gurpreet is a free woman. Yash's mom didn't go around snatching her food or giving her mean looks throughout the house. The only thing she does is she ignores her these days and she told her son she doesn't want Gurpreet as her daughter in law. Does the woman not even have this much right????
I think she should've came clear earlier and since she doesn't want to talk about it people need to stop asking her and then paint her as a the bad villain when Gurp dear cries. All 3 get their portions of blame. She definitely has NOT been respectful to Yash's mom. Like in today's promo how she stated loud and clear no one in this world would want to get a mother in law likes this. Did Yash's mom ever say no one wants a daughter in law like Gurpreet? she simply said over and over again the traits I want in MY daughter in law I don't see it in gurp. I am sure Priyanka, Pooja, Nandita and probably many other girls would not mind yashdeep's mom.
Thanks god Yash said that was too much. The boy might be confused, and a little too young for marriage but atleast he finally stood up for his mom. 😊 All this hungama over two people who say they are friends, they don't love each other and never did it mean that they will have to get married to each other only.
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Chingaari thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wow!!
i agree with ur words :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Gurpreet is too blunt but his mom is not? She goes around and tells the entire world that she likes nothing about Gurpreet, and that's not blunt? SHe doesn't tell the exact reason EVER as to why she doesn't like Gurpreet and that's not rude?

Just because she is elder, she is allowed to say all this?

If I was there, my first goal would be to find a guy I think I can get along with. And then just be cordial with all the aunties. I think it is more important that the bride and the groom gel and and get along and then try and talk to the mom.

By the time Gurpreet and Yash figured out they liked each other, Yash's mom had already written Gurpreet off! And the guy is not strong enough to go against his mother then Gurpreet has the right to fight for her right and her respect just like Yash's mom is claiming to do till now.

And what I hate the most is how Yash's mom brings in society and how people in their family will look... she is not letting Yash make a decision on what he wants, it is his life and he should be allowed to!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I have to agree with alot of what you said in the 1st post....again not taking sides coz its not a wrong or right thing...but when yash and his mother were talking on the sofas on one side yash said he wanted to talk to gurpreet..so his mother said yes ok i'll call her but u talk in front of me...then she even called out to gurpreet and they showed gurpreet answering...now if someone is calling my name i normally go see what they want....if that someone was the mother of the guy i like...i'd make sure i got there asap...but she ever went she carried on in the kitchen..

as much as i like gurpreet this was wrong of her...seems like shes been getting chances but has not been taking them...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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its a relief to find someone who thinks like me.. 😆 ..yash's mom seems decent and she has never said anything bad to gurpreet.. think this lady is just very very private.. probably thats why she likes nandita and pooja and probably she actually does nt have any other strong reason for other people to tell(but mind you this is very common reason to dislike people) introverts usually dont like extroverts and here gurpreet is arrogant and disrespectful(maybe she needs to grow up a bit... thats all)

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sapnon_ki_pari

Gurpreet is too blunt but his mom is not? She goes around and tells the entire world that she likes nothing about Gurpreet, and that's not blunt? SHe doesn't tell the exact reason EVER as to why she doesn't like Gurpreet and that's not rude?

Just because she is elder, she is allowed to say all this?

I am sorry I never saw such things. Yash's mom never once went public and expressed she does not like anything in Gurpreet. She told her husband and she told her son..She is a private woman and she told them about it. Every other time she was pushed and pushed.
The moms are in this show for a reason. Gurpreet should've taken the initiative to get to know yash's mom along with yash. It's not only a matter of week. She has been getting to know yash for quite a while now. They even had their date, they danced together. They talk dowstairs, upstairs etc.
Again not everyone sees the situation through the same eyes.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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True Perfangel,

Mommy Y always said she doesn't like Gurpreet but she never wanted to tell the specific reasons on National TV. She was never rude to her. Totally agree with ur words.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sapnon_ki_pari

Gurpreet is too blunt but his mom is not? She goes around and tells the entire world that she likes nothing about Gurpreet, and that's not blunt? SHe doesn't tell the exact reason EVER as to why she doesn't like Gurpreet and that's not rude?

Just because she is elder, she is allowed to say all this?

If I was there, my first goal would be to find a guy I think I can get along with. And then just be cordial with all the aunties. I think it is more important that the bride and the groom gel and and get along and then try and talk to the mom.

By the time Gurpreet and Yash figured out they liked each other, Yash's mom had already written Gurpreet off! And the guy is not strong enough to go against his mother then Gurpreet has the right to fight for her right and her respect just like Yash's mom is claiming to do till now.

And what I hate the most is how Yash's mom brings in society and how people in their family will look... she is not letting Yash make a decision on what he wants, it is his life and he should be allowed to!





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Posted: 15 years ago
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1 thing i must tel u....u r a wonderful writer 👏👏

last week i 's feeling sorry 4 d gal BUT wen i saw how she sed "rrey yeh kya baat hui...apni baat kahi aur chaley gaye ...?" 2 yash's mom...d "feeling sorry 4 her" vanished frm my mind in dat very sec. 😊... i mean how can u say/talk like dat wid ur elders 😕 ?? & gur ses she likes her son 🤔....bout 2moros precap...dont even want 2 comment bout dat 😳....

i kno yash's mom 's also behaving weird in some point like wen she 's not telling d exact reason 2 why she dislikes Gur....but den also i found my ans...she didn't want 2 point out d negative points of gur so dat ppl dont reject her only 4 dose negative points
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but now look @ gur....wat d heck is she doing 😕?? spoiling her own image wid her own hands by behaving like a disrespectful,rude gal infrnt of d whole world 😲 !! is being blunt means 2 b
disrespectful,rude 2 ur elders 😕?? she her-self's showing her negative points 2 d world...so i dont think yash's mom needs 2 point out nefing nemore 😳


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

I am sorry I never saw such things. Yash's mom never once went public and expressed she does not like anything in Gurpreet. She told her husband and she told her son..She is a private woman and she told them about it. Every other time she was pushed and pushed.
The moms are in this show for a reason. Gurpreet should've taken the initiative to get to know yash's mom along with yash. It's not only a matter of week. She has been getting to know yash for quite a while now. They even had their date, they danced together. They talk dowstairs, upstairs etc.
Again not everyone sees the situation through the same eyes.



she said it to the mothers when the girls where out of the house judging those jewelry boxes

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