REALLY A CRITISIM FOR CHARACTERS OR ABUSE OF WOMEN ISSUE:Mod Nt pg5

few days back in the show , mansi's rape track was shown. i feel rape is the worst crime of human. a rapist should be humiliated infront of everyone and should be punished. and the same thing happened with raunak. i am glad that the show showed that a rapist cannot be spared at any cost . i was even happy to see that forgetting about the fan wars everyone sympathised with mansi or rather i should say a rape victim.

but there are certain women related issues which i observed with the character of purvi on the show, but unfortunately the creatives used it for some idiotic twist and turns.😡 but the thing that irritated me the most that how insensitively those issues were handled in this forum. some sensitive topics are:

ADOPTED CHILD: i feel that adoption is the one of the biggest step towards humanity. a child who lost everything in his/her life should be given love by someone unconditionlly. in the show we saw archana picked up purvi from an accident spot as no one was alive in that accident except for baby purvi and archana adopted that orphan and made purvi her own child. now in the show whenever something happened for purvi or ovi, many times i have seen the comments like archana should take only ovi's side as she is her bio child and purvi is adopted. and this comments are not very recent it has been coming from a long time. people made mindset that a mother should always take the side of her bio child and not the adopted one. whoever purvi, ovi or archana may be wrong in this situation but the fact that a mother should not care about her adopted child but should only her bio- kid is something very weird. comments like sadak se uthai hui ladki, kudaddan se uthai bachi were the terms that were used for an adopted girl. some people even went ahead and told that archana should have thrown baby purvi to the trash and vultures would have eaten her tiny dead body😡 . is this the way we are gonna behave with a adopted baby. make the adopted baby and its foster parents realize that adoption should not be done and people should only love their bio kids.🤢

PRE-MARITIAL SEX - now this matter is quite personal but still i would talk about it. in the show it was shown that arjun and purvi who loved each other had physical relation before marriage. purvi was loved by everyone here but the moment it was shown that she had pre-maritial sex she suddenly became so negative in many people's eyes. i want to ask why? people called her b***h, mis****s, rakhel, characterless, pr*****te and what not. some words are so vulger that i cant even write it here. for what reason. a woman if having physical relation with her lover , thats absolutely her personal matter. she is human she can live her her own way. she doesnt need tom, dick and harry's permission for that. so many men do this thing but nothing is been said to them then only a woman. in the latest research done in india near about 50% of the population is involved in it and many people dont disclose these matters. was that correct to abuse a woman for what she is doing in her personal life?????

UNWED MOTHER - now this is quite sensitive. in the show it was shown that purvi got pregnant before her marriage and she decided to give birth to that baby. but the way people reacted on it was worse. a woman was abused like anything for conceiving befpre marriage. kuwari ma , bin bihaai maa, shameless and many other worst languages were used for her. and the reason because she was blessed with a child and she didnt killed that baby. some people even suggested her to die or should undergo a abortion process as she cannot live with her child in the so called samaj. a divorcee, unwed or widow every mother is mother and she should be respected for that. but no just because she didnt went through some rituals and she doesnt have a man with her she can never have a baby.just imagine how painful it had been for a mother whose family and the father of the child are not with her in these difficult times especially unwed mothers . these kind of abusive behaviour towards such women forces them to either die or abort or throw the baby in trashes.😭

BABY BORN OUT OF WEDLOCK - this is the most horrible thing that i have seen in this forum. a small baby who doesn't know what is good and what is evil , and baby who can never harm anyone is abused for taking birth out of a damm wedlock😲 in the show it was shown that pari is arjun and purvi's daughter who was unfortunately born out of wedlock. but still this doesnt change the fact that she was innocent. i have seen people calling pari najayaaz, ,illegitimate and some people even wished her to die. she was abused with all sort of 3rd class downmarket vulgar language and the reason her parents didnt went through marriage rituals🤢 some people even said that arjun her father should not care about her as she is not his real daughter 😲according

to the laws of supreme court the baby born out of wedlock also has some rights on his dad's property and the father of the child has to fulfill his duties towards that child, that means even the law doesnt make a child different by calling him/her with such names. its not about being part of dad's property, its about the love and care which most of the times these kids dont get. have we ever thought about that

DIVORCEE - this is very painful for any women to go through this phase. i can understand loving or living with someone and due to some problems or misunderstanding, if they are seperated it becomes very difficult to cope with it. both of them might be having fair share of mistake in that or might not . whatever it may be but it surely effects them . if a women has gone through divorce it is not necessary to call her a "divorcee" everytime. no woman would want to get divorced so calling her a divorcee is very inhuman i feel. in the show it was shown that purvi got divorced from onir and arjun and some people were mocking her by saying "2 times divorcee" is the way we are gonna mock a already in pain woman.🤢

MISCARRIAGE - every woman in this world want to experience the happiness of motherhood. she becomes happy when she realises that a baby is growing inside her. but due to any reason she might soetimes loses this happiness in the form of miscarriage. this is so painful for any mother to lose a child. but the worst thing happened when a mother who lost her child is to be blamed for that particular thing. during pregnancy the woman becomes quite sensitive physically and emotionally, any thing could affect her. but if she miscarried the child for any xyz reason then how can she be blamed for that i still didnt understood.😕 people in this forum mercilessly bashed purvi for miscarrying her own child. i even sympathise with ovi for the same why a woman who loved her child from the day she realised its existence inside her would be responsible for this

now this was all i want to say,

NOTE: i have taken purvi's example because i have seen these things on the show and its reaction in this forum. purvi , ovi , arjun , onir , archana etc are all fictional characters and its obivious that the sacrificing and unbelievable things which are shown in the show are not possible in real life but the issues which i had discussed do exist. SO PLEASE IF YOU WANT TO COMMENT ON THESE ISSUES THEN YOU ARE WELCOMED BUT IF YOU WANT TO START OVI V/S PURVI WAR INTHIS THREAD THEN PLEASE IGNORE THIS THREAD, TRY TO UNDERSTAND THIS THREAD HAS BEEN MADE TO DISCUSS THESE SENSITIVE WOMEN ISSUES AND THE WAY THE FORUM IS REACTING TO SUCH ISSUE AND NOT A FANWAR PLEASE'

even i am a 22year old girl and i live in a small town in india. i told my information so that nobody should have a misconception that i dont live in india and i dont understand theses things . and yes even i am an arvi fan but i have not made this topic to fight for them . even i dont like the idea of live-in relations and pre-martial sex , but that doesnt gives me any right to abuse anyone else who are praticising these things.

this is a public forum, everyone has their right to speak freely here. if something is wrong mods are there to stop it. i didnt mean to offend anyone. till the time these was fan war going on or characters bashing , debate going on , i was ok . but when people stareted bashing , abusing, mocking and calling all sort of vulgar names to woman for issues written above and didnt even spared a baby, i coudnt control myself . being a woman , i cannot stand such insensitivity and mentality towards woman.i feel that if still we cant change our mentality of abusing a woman for these things we can never be able to change the world for woman.

on a side note i would really appericiate all the arvians in this forum who stood by purvi during these days and i am not speaking this because i am an arvian , i am speaking these because i am a woman

thank you for reading😊

1,000 +1 Likes to your thread. 👍🏼

and are you any better? 😆

mocking her? if she is mocking the TM you couldn't rise above it and stop bullying her

All you arvi fans are always looking to instigate other fan groups

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thank you dear i am glad that you liked my post . it really motivated me.😊

@ilovedhanjanird : well said dear...🤗