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Posted: 11 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: onirfans

Each and every character of pr bashed badly and also damaged by cv...

not only purvi but also ovi , archana ,sulochana ,ankita all r bashed by some people...

even ovi and archana bashed always each and every thread...

even some people told ovi should die , should killed and thrown out etc etc and blamed for her dead baby who is actually dead by accident ( for not her fault) and swapped by her sister ...how its painfull u suddenly came to know not only ur child dead but ur dead child also swapped by husband's ex relationship child...i am really surprised that some people not only mocked her, fun but used very odd language for her...whatever vulger language used for ovi that i felt bad to write so can not write ....is not she is women, did not she deserve some sympathy like other woman ...

archana she is also bashed and blamed for soham death if u will be tell whatever purvi did that was with good intention then whatever archana did that also with good intention. ...is not she is a women

sulochana and ankita they also women ...

pia also bashed here, some people also raised question that pia is not llegel bcz arovi r divorced , her some thread also opened to gave lecture that pia has not right to use her father name 😲...is not she innocent like pari


like them onir and arjun r may not be woman but they r human ...

onir who reunite arvi and did so many sacrifices and in return he did not get anything but still he bashed very badly, some people told him namard ,useless bcz he did not sleep with purvi😆 he respected woman and what he got the word like namard useless ...did not it bad...


so hats off for them who stand to support them for them does not matter the group is minority or majority , they stand for them what they feel right👏.


hello onir fans thanks for your comments. i see you have certain problems regarding my post, and i need to clear it out

i know that the creatives have ruined every characther on the show so badly and for that these characters have been harshly bashed over here in this forum but in my whole post how many times did i took cvs name hardly once just to say that the cvs have not done justice to these sensitive issues and not how they have progressed or degraded any character isnt it

like you said ovi has been bashed like anything in this forum as some people didnt liked the character at all similary many people also used the same for purvi. mocking or laughing at any character has become very common in this forum no doubt about it. i knoe some people used some abusive terms for ovi but dear could you please compare them with the words that are used in for purvi, i guess you will automatically realise ehat i want to say

ovi has been bashed for her works but purvi has been not only bashed for her mistake but was abused for the issued that i have mentioned. and there stands my problem. seriously idont have any problem that you or any one else are disliking, critising or even bashing purvi for whatever reasons you have, but my problem is with those people who instead of critising a fictional character , are actually abusing the sensitive issues of women like the ones i have mentioned in my post..

regarding miscarriage and divorce, i sympathise with ovi and i have even mentioned it in my post. i dont feel that either purvi or ovi should be held responsible for their miscarriages, its a misfortunate thing for any woman😭

regarding pia, the one where you said that pia was called illegal, even i agree to you that no child in this world is bad everyone is a gift of god . you asked me a question that is pia not innocent as pari. my answer is ofcourse she is. but my point here says was pari not innocent like ovis first baby. pia has been called illegal, thats wrong . but what about pari she was called b****rd, gaand khoon, and all sort of nasty languages , and the reason was she was born out of wedlock. some people even abused her before her birth and also wished that she should thrown out of the house or should DIE, i guess i have not seen anyone saying so low for pia, thats my problem that why people hate a child for the reason he /she is born out of damn wedlock.

as you said that although this thread is for woman but onir and arjun have also gone through a lot. you are having problem that people called onir namard, evn i feel that onir was nice guy although he was not my favorite but yes he was a nice guy but atleast today onir has his medical license , a loving wife everything, he suffered a lot for various reasons but also got back everything that he deserves. he i s ahappy man now but regarding arjun the languages that he has been told is something not even used for humans and you would definately know that. for me arjun was the person who lost almost everything, his mom, dad, love , friendship, his idol , he even lost his four kids out of which two died and two are alive and still not with him, how painful is that. but ofcourse i know that the reason behind all these are either his own mistakes, others mistake and his own destiny

regarding using the name of the other characters, like archana , sulochna, and all , so i feel that what all they have gone through is very sad and my full sympathy is with everyone of them. the issues like molestation, rape, forced marriage, harrasing daughter-in-law by mother-in -law both physically and mentallly, dowry, kids throwing old parents out of home etc are shown properly and are discussed in this forum n number of times

but the issues which i have taken were not discussed in depth and thats why i have put theses issues here

this thread is not about the mental trauma that every character has gone through, this thread is about the sensitive issues that a woman in real life goes through and thats why i have mentioned it.

purvi's fictional character had all these issues and thats why i taken her as an example and just because you hate that character doesnt mean that you cannot see the actual motive of mine is to highlight these issues and not to praise any character. have a look at the post carefully

even though i am an arvian and liked the gesture of other arvians that most of them have not made a mockery of these sensitive issues especially baby out of wedlock or pre maritial sex etc, have not made me blind . i have even appericiated every people on this forum who have supported any women issues , see that in one of the replies that i have given .
hope you understand and have a nice day dear.😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: ashvikian4life


hello pari , i must say you have a preety name. i actually didnt knew that you are an adopted child , i am sorry if this thread has made you upset on this topic. by the way happy belated birthday, i have seen your birthday thread.😊 i am really glad that you understood that what was my motive towards posting this sensitive thread. and its absolutely fine if you misunderstood me, it happens with everyone after all at the end of the day we all are humans😳
nice meeting you😃


am glad...😳 thank u for ur wishes...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

It seems like you had mentioned all the purvi's characteristic on women's day like adopted,divorcee,unwed mother etc etc ...

agree adoption is very appreciable job ... we should not blame women for her miscarriage and out of wedlock child is not at any fault...

i am not blaming her for miscarriage or adopted or out of wedlock mother or for any other purvi's characteristic of your list ... but my point is why are you using fiction character for real world's women's day?????

i mean There is number of women are adopted but that all the adopted women are not having nose poking nature... number of women are out of wedlock mother but they are not going to exchange their child...number of women are divorcee but each and every women have not divorced their innocent husband for first love...

What you think in real world all adopted child or out of wedlock mother or divorcee woman have done such type of things????? Biggg no... every woman have not done such type of things...than why comparision with all the women??

on women's day we can remember characteristic of Rani laxmi bai or Kaali maa or durga maa or adhya shakti devi parvati who can be mentor for any each and every woman... why on women's day ...representation of real time problem using beloved fictional character?????


nari shkati ka roop hai... dats why they said " Naari tu narayani " ... but point is nari should be dignified ...



hello tania welcome to my thread.
i guess you are getting confused betweeen the character and issues of a person. a character is something which he/she gets from ttheir childhood and their identified for that whereas the issues related to them are the incidents that happened to them.

so the points which i have discussed in my post is about the issues that purvi has gone through and not her characteristics

why cant i use a fictional character as an example/? this is pavitra rishta forum, i have taken up a character from the show which had shown this vers sensitive womenly issues, so whats wrong in that, nothing. i have opened this topic on womens day because i wanted to highlight the issues which a women in real life goes through and those issues were related to these fictional character, so whats wrong in that? or you have considered this as my sin that i have taken some issues of these fictional character which you hate the most on womens day😕

its good to see that you have no problem in the issues that i have listed. great thinking👏 but their are certain people on this forum who actually had made up an mockery of these issues in this forum only. you or some others might hate purvi for reasons better known to you and you have critisied her for that, i dont have any problem regarding that. but there also people who abused a woman for these very sensitive and taboo issues, i have a problem from them and thats why i wrote these topics

regarding rani laxmibai , i feel she is the proud of womanhood in the whole world, ireally admire her. not only laxmi bai but many women are there who is an inspiration to womenhood isalute them for that👏 regarding maa durga , maa kaali etc they all are symbol of women power and comes under the category of god and not humans. they are, is and will always be worshipped by us.

i could have written about many inspiring women but is it necessary that if its womens day then we have to only talk about the positive or inspirational aspects. iguess a big no we can definately write about the problems that hte women are facing in todays world and specially the one that are not talked much.

as you your self has said that nose poking, baby exchange and etc does not actually happens in the real world, but if i am not wrong i have not at all used these things in my post. i have used the issues that this fictional character has shown like pre maritial sex, unwed mother etc and people made a mockery of the things in public forum and not that fictional character.

baby swapping , unbelievable sacrifice etc does not exist in real world but in real world women do face these issues which i have mentioned in my post and this particular fictional character has been shown to suffer from theses things.

i guess you to read my post carefully that i have not told that purvi is the best, did i? have i told that purvi have not made any mistake? have i told that purvi is my favorite character? i guess a big no. as a fact i am an die hard ashvik fan. more than arvi fan i am an ashvik fan.

even one of your friend @pari kirloskar , even she thought that i have made this post on womens day to praise a fictional character but later on even she realised that i was actually highlighting the issues of woman and this fictional character has shown these issues, thats why i took her as an example.

this is my thread , i am the topic maker of this thread . it wholly depends upon me that whom i want to take up as an example. just because certain people has extreme hatred towards this character, which i cant change, but no body has a right to ask me a question that why i did this.
i dont need any tom , dick or harry's permission to to write what i feel . i cannot help it if someone feels that i have commited a sin by highlighting theses womenly issues that were shown on a particular fictional character of the show , that are extremly hated by few people.



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Posted: 11 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: ...Fenil...

😆 Lots of MIDs users .. 🤣


hello dear, welcome to my thread. dont mind me asking but what does MID means , i mean i am new here, so i dont know what it means , i have seen this term in mods note also. please help me if you dont mind.😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: ashvikian4life


hello dear, welcome to my thread. dont mind me asking but what does MID means , i mean i am new here, so i dont know what it means , i have seen this term in mods note also. please help me if you dont mind.😳

MIDs mean wen one person creates many accounts to login.. multiple IDS...

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