REALLY A CRITISIM FOR CHARACTERS OR ABUSE OF WOMEN ISSUE:Mod Nt pg5 - Page 3

Originally posted by: ashvikian4life

thank you so much for commenting dear. you are waneka right?? you are an rithvik fan isnt it? even i am . i have seen you on nb forum too. thanks for understanding my topic and agreeing to it. even i feel archana is not a good mother , ovi was 19 and purvi was 18 not very much mature to take any decisions like the way they have taken. it was archana's duty to look after them properly, its sad not a single armaan child including purvi could have been happy.

i dont have problems from anyone whoo wanted that archana should have supported ovi, my problem was when some people delibrately differnitiated between an adopted and bio child, thats it. anyways its nice meeting you dear😊

OMG What a beautiful writeup! I seriously dont have anything to say.. You have covered everything..

Originally posted by: FlawlessAshvik

OMG What a beautiful writeup! I seriously dont have anything to say.. You have covered everything..

You know when Purvi was being called 'sadak se uthayi hui' , and that she should have been thrown in dustbin, eaten by vultures etc I always thought what would certain fellow forum members who were in case adopted feel :'(

Nicely written :)

@ashvikian4life

Originally posted by: naava

The main difference Pari, is that when these issues have occurred with the other characters and they endured trauma, the words used against them may have been critical and maybe fair unfair, but they were never trashy & vulgar like they were with Purvi ..with the exception of Shravani. Pretty bad things were said against her...i don't remember now what all, but it also wasn't right. Except not one word was ever spoken against her for carrying a baby out of wedlock, it was only because she came between ArMan. Still the things said weren't right. But Sachin was always welcomed as an innocent child and no bad things were said about him as a baby like was said against Pari .

There's a huge difference between stating one doesn't like the actions of a character and speaking vulgarly about the person. There is a way to express disapproval or even dislike in a respectful manner, but this was not the case on the forum regarding Purvi and even Pari when they were facing these things. The same accord over the same issues was not given across the board in an equitable manner. This is why Purvi n Pari were used as the examples.

Originally posted by: pari-kirloskar

oh really...?

purvi was taunted for being adopted?

NO dear.. i think u misinterpreted..

agreed she was mocked, taunted but it was...

not for being an adopted girl but for her foolish decisions which always wrecked others lives and hurt others.

no doubt her intentions were good but in the name of good intentions can u spoil one's life?😲

and let me tell u something dear.. which I havent revealed till now. I myself am adopted.

wen a person is adopted we feel grateful and obliged ... not hurt the bio siblings for sure...!!!

Wonderful post.
Certain words were really awful. And targeting adoption was the worst thing ever heard. Discrimination between bio and adopted was something hard to digest. First of all adoption is one of the best thing but if u cant treat the adopted child like ur own child than better not to go for adoption. But here attitude toward adopted purvi was worst. Everytime people call her dustbin girl. For what? For ovi ofcourse. Purvi messed up ovi's life. But ovi was not less. Even she messed up purvi's life.

I dont know why child out of wed lock is crime.? Its not crime according to law. And why to expect from everyone to follow religion.? She wanted and got it. End of the story. Now a days actors moving towards live in relationship. They live togather for years before marriage or never get married if fed up with each other. But people still love them like crazy. Many actresses were pregnant before marrige (i dont want to take name) and then married. But still lots of respect for them. Why purvi was exceptional? It was all about mocking ArVi fans? Or any jealousy that one actress has big fan followings and another actress doesn't?

Craze of purvi bashing was going on like anything. Taking username as slappurvi, thispurvi and thatpurvi. Its like supporting woman violance. Isn't it? But I dont find any special crime committed by purvi that people need to go crazy. And craze for someone who does not exist.

Blaming someone for natural miscarriage was really weird. Its like 18th century saas taunting her bahu for not taking care of khandan ka chirag. LOL. Stress r always unnecessary. Which stress or tension on this earth is necessary? None. Still people take it.

Purvi was decent character of ekta show. And I feel there was nothing special about her that we need to hate her so much.

The topic is reviewed and necessary action are taken against all those members who were seen involved in creating MIDs , Sterotyping/Mocking Fan grps deliberately to start a fight ..

It will b better if members stick to the points raised by the TM without getting personal or rude or else those will get further WL rise ..

For further concerns, please feel free to approach any member of the Development Team of this forum!

Regards,
I-F Development Team

Each and every character of pr bashed badly and also damaged by cv...