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978187

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: pari-kirloskar
"on a side note i would really appericiate all the arvians in this forum who stood by purvi during these days and i am not speaking this because i am an arvian , i am speaking these because i am a woman"

@ red: arvians.. oops stereotyping...

@ bold black:
🤣
seriously...?????????

purvi ko support karne ke liye.. woman's day ka sahara lene ki kya zaroorat hai...?
must appreciate your creativity...👍🏼

so dint other characters (woman) in PR go thru divorce, pre marital baby, domestic violence , fiance snatching by the other sister etc...?

so those who stood by purvi are only correct? I remember archana, shravani and some others who have gone thru these bad times and thankfully many people have stood by them... so what about appreciating these people or is it only purvi supporters who are appreciated in this forum...?

thank you for posting a reply in this thread, but i would have been happy that instead of only focusing on the last paragraph , you would have read the whole topic.

i know you dont like arvi, thats fine , but i have mentioned this in one of my previous post in another thread that i feel arvi, ovi , armaan everyone has done a huge mistakes in their life and have suffered for the same. and i am saying this being an arvian myself, i know arvi have made many mistakes.

but there is nothing to laugh on such sensitive issues of woman. the reason i have taken purvi's example is because this particular character has all these issues which were treated very insensitively in this forum. many people bashed the character purvi for her mistake and i dont have any issue with them but i had problems when people actually made abusive comments on these womenly issue.

i have made these thread on womens day because these issues are related to a women , isn't it? and not for taking any fictional characters side.

how can i streotype arvians when i myself is an arvian😕 i am not judging or announcing that arvians are mahaan and god . i dont remeber i said that whatever arvians say is "patthar ki lakir"

please read the paragraph properly i have just appericiated this gesture of arvians that they didnt used any abusiveness for these womenly issues only and for nothing else. now just because i am an arvian and i have appericiated other arvians for the support they have shown for these issues, i have to be laughed on.😕

i have not seen pr before 18 years leap but i know that archana has faced a lot of mental and sometimes physical torture from savita😡 , even shravni was a unwed mother , sulochna was thrown out of her house for the sake of money and property by his own son😡 vandita was molested by ajith and later she was married to him and he tortured her a lot, even vaishali was harrased by her husband a lot , these issues even i know. but these things were shown in the show long back and i guess many people might have discussed about it, thats why i didnt talked about it.

ireally appericiate all those who stood by these ladies at that time👏 i guess you have not seen that i even apperciated all the people who supported mansi in the rape track👏👏 and not just purvi

i dont want to comment on fiance snatching matter because that is absolutely a fictional part . i have also told in my post that this is a public forum and everyone has a right to give their opinion , but the abusing of purvi's character is not my issue, my issue is the abusing of these sensitive issues.

if you want to speak anything about these womenly issues then yoou are welcome🤗 but if you want to make it a fanwar or any mocking on such issues , then i guess you are in a wrong thread. PLEASE READ THE WHOLE POST PROPERLY😊

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933624

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: ashvikian4life

thank you for posting a reply in this thread, but i would have been happy that instead of only focusing on the last paragraph , you would have read the whole topic.
i know you dont like arvi, thats fine , but i have mentioned this in one of my previous post in another thread that i feel arvi, ovi , armaan everyone has done a huge mistakes in their life and have suffered for the same. and i am saying this being an arvian myself, i know arvi have made many mistakes.

but there is nothing to laugh on such sensitive issues of woman. the reason i have taken purvi's example is because this particular character has all these issues which were treated very insensitively in this forum. many people bashed the character purvi for her mistake and i dont have any issue with them but i had problems when people actually made abusive comments on these womenly issue.

i have made these thread on womens day because these issues are related to a women , isn't it? and not for taking any fictional characters side.
how can i streotype arvians when i myself is an arvian😕 i am not judging or announcing that arvians are mahaan and god . i dont remeber i said that whatever arvians say is "patthar ki lakir"
please read the paragraph properly i have just appericiated this gesture of arvians that they didnt used any abusiveness for these womenly issues only and for nothing else. now just because i am an arvian and i have appericiated other arvians for the support they have shown for these issues, i have to be laughed on.😕

i have not seen pr before 18 years leap but i know that archana has faced a lot of mental and sometimes physical torture from savita😡 , even shravni was a unwed mother , sulochna was thrown out of her house for the sake of money and property by his own son😡 vandita was molested by ajith and later she was married to him and he tortured her a lot, even vaishali was harrased by her husband a lot , these issues even i know. but these things were shown in the show long back and i guess many people might have discussed about it, thats why i didnt talked about it.
ireally appericiate all those who stood by these ladies at that time👏 i guess you have not seen that i even apperciated all the people who supported mansi in the rape track👏👏 and not just purvi

i dont want to comment on fiance snatching matter because that is absolutely a fictional part . i have also told in my post that this is a public forum and everyone has a right to give their opinion , but the abusing of purvi's character is not my issue, my issue is the abusing of these sensitive issues.

if you want to speak anything about these womenly issues then yoou are welcome🤗 but if you want to make it a fanwar or any mocking on such issues , then i guess you are in a wrong thread. PLEASE READ THE WHOLE POST PROPERLY😊

@ blue : I did read the whole the whole post dear, only after that I posted my commment and this has got nothing with me liking or not liking arvi...

I dint even mention arvi😕

@ green: well .. how will I know what u have mentioned in another thread... I cant sit and memorize what people write in each and every single thread. so i commented based on what u posted in this thread.😳

@ pink : they have supported purvi tthats right but they blamed ovi for miscarraige. is that supporting womanly issue only restricted to purvi is what is my question.?

@orange: yes along with purvi u supported mansi too... whats about others..? archana, shravani and the rest..?

@ black : Fan war? did I even take ovi's name? so where am i supporting or doing any fanwar?

I agree to your whole post except the last line where u are appreciating a particular fann group.. thats what I dint feel right... hence I quoted it..

I have already mentioned that the TM (u) have every right to express your opinion but so do I...

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naava

@naava

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: pari-kirloskar

what i meant was why only support purvi and her supporters, am sure many more female characters in PR have been undergoing a lot of trauma...

The main difference Pari, is that when these issues have occurred with the other characters and they endured trauma, the words used against them may have been critical and maybe fair unfair, but they were never trashy & vulgar like they were with Purvi ..with the exception of Shravani. Pretty bad things were said against her...i don't remember now what all, but it also wasn't right. Except not one word was ever spoken against her for carrying a baby out of wedlock, it was only because she came between ArMan. Still the things said weren't right. But Sachin was always welcomed as an innocent child and no bad things were said about him as a baby like was said against Pari .

There's a huge difference between stating one doesn't like the actions of a character and speaking vulgarly about the person. There is a way to express disapproval or even dislike in a respectful manner, but this was not the case on the forum regarding Purvi and even Pari when they were facing these things. The same accord over the same issues was not given across the board in an equitable manner. This is why Purvi n Pari were used as the examples.

Edited by naava - 11 years ago

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PrincessAshVik

@PrincessAshVik

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

First of all, AMAZING post Topic Maker:):)

@Pari: Hello:)
I think, the TM talked only about Purvi because she is the only character who has been bashed left right and center in the forum.
Yes, the others have been through all other problems as well, but they have been sympathised with or whatever but Purvi's character is the one that is the most 'criticised' or in simple words, bashed.
Please correct me TM if I am wrong:)

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amu_mannu

@amu_mannu

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

i completely agree with you @naava

sachin was welcomed with open arms...
pari and purvi were thrown out of the house...

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978187

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: naava
Ashvikian, what a beautiful topic.You are 1,000% correct. You stated and wrote it so well. I also was so revolted that such terrible vulgar things were written and thought about these very important issues. Because that is what it is, against the issues that face all women and it made me sick to see these comments on this forum.
1,000 +1 Likes to your thread. 👍🏼

thank you so much dear for this appericiation, it really motivates me. thank you for understanding that these are very sensitive issues and should be handled very sensitively, many women in real life are facing these issues. thank you😊

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978187

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: ashvikluverrr
Kudos to you for writing this..much needed post..!!
You've covered each and every point..Take a bow 👏

thank you so much jago. thats really sweet of you. its such motivational comments made by you people that encourages me. thanks again.😊

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978187

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird
I agree, Adoption is the best step one can take!
No arguments.
BUT I have mostly seen posts from people who support Ovi saying Archana shouldn't ABANDON her bio child.
See, the theory is simple all your kids should be treated equal. You cannot differentiate.
The Ovi Purvi situation happened to Purvi first, but Archana forgave her and got her back within a month. But she never even inquired about Ovi for 20 years 🤔

rest of the points i agree

thank you so much for commenting dear. you are waneka right?? you are an rithvik fan isnt it? even i am . i have seen you on nb forum too. thanks for understanding my topic and agreeing to it. even i feel archana is not a good mother , ovi was 19 and purvi was 18 not very much mature to take any decisions like the way they have taken. it was archana's duty to look after them properly, its sad not a single armaan child including purvi could have been happy.

i dont have problems from anyone whoo wanted that archana should have supported ovi, my problem was when some people delibrately differnitiated between an adopted and bio child, thats it. anyways its nice meeting you dear😊

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beautifulchaos

@beautifulchaos

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#19

@ TM : A huge round of applause for the topic and a wonderful write up..👏 👏👏 You have written about each issue pertaining to a woman very sensitively and with a lot of maturity. I gather that you have attempted to contemplate about these issues with Purvi and Pari, the characters as symbolic--

And you were right to do so TM. I can only imagine the amount and extent of intolerance any woman would face in the REAL society for having faced either one or the other problem(s) you have listed when a symbolic character has been termed with such names and expressions in the Forum.

Irrespective of what others feel, there could have been no better day for you to have started this topic except woman's day -- and yeah it is my point of view-- no amount of preaching or mocking is going to change it...

Edited by bitasta - 11 years ago

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beautifulchaos

@beautifulchaos

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

and are you any better? 😆
mocking her? if she is mocking the TM you couldn't rise above it and stop bullying her
All you arvi fans are always looking to instigate other fan groups
😲

@ Bold : So do we????? Isn't that STEREOTYPING btw????

The TM simply wrote something from her perspective using Purvi as a symbolic-- and she was accused of praising Purvi and not other characters of PR. She was even ridiculed for choosing woman's day to make a thread. Her choice, her privilege-- who is anyone to ridicule her choice???

So who bullied whom???

And a request : Please look at those threads that have been closed recently if you feel like doing so. Just see who has got the maximum numbers of MODS warnings of late. If you are objective enough you'd know who had mocked whom. It seems some people just love provoking and instigating other fan groups.

Mocking, name calling- both characters and the members of opposite fan groups, concocting non existent story lines, converting every freaking thread into Arvi basing one to name a few, have become an everyday norm for someone. If Challenging such MEANNESS is called bullying, so let it be so. But if someone calls me a BA***RD, then I would definitely retaliate. Sorry but I have not become such a BIGGER person to tolerate name calling of such lowliness..

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