REALLY A CRITISIM FOR CHARACTERS OR ABUSE OF WOMEN ISSUE:Mod Nt pg5 - Page 4

Originally posted by: onirfans

Each and every character of pr bashed badly and also damaged by cv...

not only purvi but also ovi , archana ,sulochana ,ankita all r bashed by some people...

even ovi and archana bashed always each and every thread...

even some people told ovi should die , should killed and thrown out etc etc and blamed for her dead baby who is actually dead by accident ( for not her fault) and swapped by her sister ...how its painfull u suddenly came to know not only ur child dead but ur dead child also swapped by husband's ex relationship child...i am really surprised that some people not only mocked her, fun but used very odd language for her...whatever vulger language used for ovi that i felt bad to write so can not write ...<font color="#ff0000">.is not she is women, did not she deserve some sympathy like other woman</font>...

archana she is also bashed and blamed for soham death if u will be tell whatever purvi did that was with good intention then whatever archana did that also with good intention. ...<font color="#ff0000">is not she is a women</font>

<font color="#ff0000">sulochana and ankita they also women ...</font>

<font color="#ff0000">pia also bashed here, some people also raised question that pia is not llegel bcz arovi r divorced , her some thread also opened to gave lecture that pia has not right to use her father name😲...is not she innocent like pari</font>

<font color="#ff0000">like them onir and arjun r may not be woman but they r human ...</font>

<font color="#ff0000">onir who reunite arvi and did so manysacrificesand in return he did not get anything but still he bashed very badly, some people told him namard ,useless bcz he did not sleep with purvi😆 he respected woman and what he got the word like namard useless ...did not it bad...</font>

[DIV]<font color="#ff0000">so hats off for them who stand to support them for them does not matter the group is minority or majority , they stand for them what they feel right👏.</font>[/IV]

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Well said

Originally posted by: PrincessAshVik

First of all, AMAZING post Topic Maker:):)

@Pari: Hello:)
I think, the TM talked only about Purvi because she is the only character who has been bashed left right and center in the forum.
Yes, the others have been through all other problems as well, but they have been sympathised with or whatever but Purvi's character is the one that is the most 'criticised' or in simple words, bashed.
Please correct me TM if I am wrong:)

Originally posted by: bitasta

@ TM : A huge round of applause for the topic and a wonderful write up..👏 👏👏 You have written about each issue pertaining to a woman very sensitively and with a lot of maturity. I gather that you have attempted to contemplate about these issues with Purvi and Pari, the characters as symbolic--

And you were right to do so TM. I can only imagine the amount and extent of intolerance any woman would face in the REAL society for having faced either one or the other problem(s) you have listed when a symbolic character has been termed with such names and expressions in the Forum.

Irrespective of what others feel, there could have been no better day for you to have started this topic except woman's day -- and yeah it is my point of view-- no amount of preaching or mocking is going to change it...

It seems like you had mentioned all the purvi's characteristic on women's day like adopted,divorcee,unwed mother etc etc ...

agree adoption is very appreciable job ... we should not blame women for her miscarriage and out of wedlock child is not at any fault...

i am not blaming her for miscarriage or adopted or out of wedlock mother or for any other purvi's characteristic of your list ... but my point is why are you using fiction character for real world's women's day?????

i mean There is number of women are adopted but that all the adopted women are not having nose poking nature... number of women are out of wedlock mother but they are not going to exchange their child...number of women are divorcee but each and every women have not divorced their innocent husband for first love...

What you think in real world all adopted child or out of wedlock mother or divorcee woman have done such type of things????? Biggg no... every woman have not done such type of things...than why comparision with all the women??

on women's day we can remember characteristic of Rani laxmi bai or Kaali maa or durga maa or adhya shakti devi parvati who can be mentor for any each and every woman... why on women's day ...representation of real time problem using beloved fictional character?????

nari shkati ka roop hai... dats why they said " Naari tu narayani " ... but point is nari should be dignified ...

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

hi I am a rithvik fan <3 i love him

and yes I am waneeka and you are?
archana is a horrible mother, there is no two ways about it

one should never differentiate between bio children and adopted children

as many posts I have seen from others , i think they mostly meant bio children should be treated equal to adopted children no matter what

you cannot discriminate

Adoption is the best thing one can do , I think it is the biggest contribution to community

Everyone should adopt , and I wish there was more awareness of the topic

Originally posted by: pari-kirloskar

@ashvikian4life

HELLO... 😳

i was just reading this thread again and wen i re read my post I felt it a bit rude and like mocking...

so i just wanted to ensure that u arent hurt.

hope u are not hurt by my post.

are u? I am sorry if u are.😔

may be i misunderstood. I thought u are praising purvi by using woman's day.

actually i am very annoyed wen a particular fan group always praises purvi because everonez at fault but purvi s made the mahaan one whereas others are never given any credit..

thats all.. nothing personal...

Originally posted by: FlawlessAshvik

OMG What a beautiful writeup! I seriously dont have anything to say.. You have covered everything..

You know when Purvi was being called 'sadak se uthayi hui' , and that she should have been thrown in dustbin, eaten by vultures etc I always thought what would certain fellow forum members who were in case adopted feel :'(

Nicely written :)

Originally posted by: White-Rose

Wonderful post.
Certain words were really awful. And targeting adoption was the worst thing ever heard. Discrimination between bio and adopted was something hard to digest. First of all adoption is one of the best thing but if u cant treat the adopted child like ur own child than better not to go for adoption. But here attitude toward adopted purvi was worst. Everytime people call her dustbin girl. For what? For ovi ofcourse. Purvi messed up ovi's life. But ovi was not less. Even she messed up purvi's life.

I dont know why child out of wed lock is crime.? Its not crime according to law. And why to expect from everyone to follow religion.? She wanted and got it. End of the story. Now a days actors moving towards live in relationship. They live togather for years before marriage or never get married if fed up with each other. But people still love them like crazy. Many actresses were pregnant before marrige (i dont want to take name) and then married. But still lots of respect for them. Why purvi was exceptional? It was all about mocking ArVi fans? Or any jealousy that one actress has big fan followings and another actress doesn't?

Craze of purvi bashing was going on like anything. Taking username as slappurvi, thispurvi and thatpurvi. Its like supporting woman violance. Isn't it? But I dont find any special crime committed by purvi that people need to go crazy. And craze for someone who does not exist.

Blaming someone for natural miscarriage was really weird. Its like 18th century saas taunting her bahu for not taking care of khandan ka chirag. LOL. Stress r always unnecessary. Which stress or tension on this earth is necessary? None. Still people take it.

Purvi was decent character of ekta show. And I feel there was nothing special about her that we need to hate her so much.

Originally posted by: soniiyaa

Beautiful post TM!

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

It seems like you had mentioned all the purvi's characteristic on women's day like adopted,divorcee,unwed mother etc etc ...

agree adoption is very appreciable job ... we should not blame women for her miscarriage and out of wedlock child is not at any fault...

i am not blaming her for miscarriage or adopted or out of wedlock mother or for any other purvi's characteristic of your list ... but my point is why are you using fiction character for real world's women's day?????

i mean There is number of women are adopted but that all the adopted women are not having nose poking nature... number of women are out of wedlock mother but they are not going to exchange their child...number of women are divorcee but each and every women have not divorced their innocent husband for first love... number of women are in love but each and every women are not going to marry her sister ex husband...

What you think in real world all adopted child or out of wedlock mother or divorcee woman have done such type of things????? Biggg no... every woman have not done such type of things...than why comparision with all the women??

on women's day we can remember characteristic of Rani laxmi bai or Kaali maa or durga maa or adhya shakti devi parvati , saroji ni naidu, kalpna chawala, nirvaya, sunita agrawal, rani karnabati, rani idrabati who can be mentor for any each and every woman... why on women's day ...representation of real time problem using beloved fictional character?????

nari shkati ka roop hai... dats why they said " Naari tu narayani " ... but point is nari should be dignified ...